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Gay men always want straight guys

I think we have been trained especially with gay porn that Str8 men are Real Men and Gay Men are not, we're women. That pisses me off to know end. I think it's a form of mental slavery that we are taught that we are less then and not real men. That we all desire to be women.

I am attracted to Masculine men. Period. Once attracted getting to know them will either keep me attracted or cause me to lose that attraction. Hooking up with a guy who self-identifies as str8 can be hawt, but it's only a hook-up. No romantic emotions to waste on that type of guy. Getting together with a gay man could be only a hook-up or something more. I always go for More.

To say all gay men are attracted to str8 men as if they are better is a very self loathing attitude. I found that there is no shortage of that in the gay community. However, since we keep subscribing to the top online porn companies that all promote at the very least 95% of their models are str8 that's what we are gonna always get.

Also, The term "Straight Acting" gets me... i mean WTF??? We do i want someone acting like the are all about women instead of being who they are? I believe masculinity is on a scale much like sexuality. You are on the high end or fall somewhere along the spectrum, but str8 acting is just a dumb term.

My 2 Cents.
 
Just some food for thought. Maybe it pisses you off cause there's some truth to it?
 
slnattak said:
Just some food for thought. Maybe it pisses you off cause there's some truth to it?
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There is always a little bit of truth in everything. However, everyone who is gay do not want a straight man. Desire them on some level yes. What that level that is for that certain individual will tell if they are willing to give str8 men all their power or simply tolerate them.
 
They want masculine guys. And more straight guys than gay guys are masculine as a rule.

But I know gay guys who are more masculine than most straight guys.

The term "straight guy" is very misleading. Go to work and and look around at all the married men in your office or job. Are THEY something to behold? Most likely not.

I can't count the number of straight guys who are absolute pussies or are unattractive.

Yet the term "straight guy" is used as some ideal.

What people REALLY mean is MASCULINE and HANDSOME MAN.

Most gay guys want a masculine and handsome man. Since most gay guys are not masculine it's only natural they gravitate towards towards the more masculine men. Which happens to be straight guys mostly.

But don't make me laugh. Straight does not mean masculine or good looking.

p.s. I'm guilty of having about zero attraction to gay guys and I am gay. I'm masculine and gay and I want masculinity. I like gay guys as friends but not for sex.

But there are exceptions. There are some masculine gay guys that I like. One of them is my partner. I'd take him over any straight, unattractive, candy ass pussy at my job.
 
I think obsession with "masculine," requires definition. What are you talking about, posturing SA/SA assholes with hang ups, or something else.

I find nothing erotic about a guy who won't touch my cock. Guys who won't reciprocate are turn offs no matter how "masculine" they are.

I agree that gay guys are attracted to hot guys irrespective of orientation. Though that hot guy can become a complete turn off if he turns out to be some adolescent minded idiot.
 
The Matter Of Splatter said:
Back to his old tricks again, i see.

Straight men are not more erotic than gay men. Men come in all shapes, sizes and styles. There are straight, gay, and bi men that people find attractive. The theory of "not being to have him" can apply to any man - straight bi or gay, there are men that you're going to think are unreachable, "forbidden fruit", if you will, and so you might be more attracted to that. The theory of "straight men having it all vs gay men having nothing" is not true in all cases.

Straight men are not inherently more attractive. There is no study that can be done for it, because in the end, 100% of gay men will come back being attracted to MEN - since the only way to do a study is to make sure the men aren't stereotypes of what you want to see, there is no way you're going to be able to have obvious "tells".

There, i was diplomatic this time. I still think your theory is complete bs, but at least i didn't bite your head off as deserved.
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Wow, a voice of reason.

What are you doing here?
 
Hellax24 said:
I think we have been trained especially with gay porn that Str8 men are Real Men and Gay Men are not, we're women. That pisses me off to know end. I think it's a form of mental slavery that we are taught that we are less then and not real men. That we all desire to be women.

I am attracted to Masculine men. Period. Once attracted getting to know them will either keep me attracted or cause me to lose that attraction. Hooking up with a guy who self-identifies as str8 can be hawt, but it's only a hook-up. No romantic emotions to waste on that type of guy. Getting together with a gay man could be only a hook-up or something more. I always go for More.

To say all gay men are attracted to str8 men as if they are better is a very self loathing attitude. I found that there is no shortage of that in the gay community. However, since we keep subscribing to the top online porn companies that all promote at the very least 95% of their models are str8 that's what we are gonna always get.

Also, The term "Straight Acting" gets me... i mean WTF??? We do i want someone acting like the are all about women instead of being who they are? I believe masculinity is on a scale much like sexuality. You are on the high end or fall somewhere along the spectrum, but str8 acting is just a dumb term.

My 2 Cents.
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I so agree..|
 
I used to think having a straight guy was the ultimate sexual experience. I too got off on the idea of kinda being used for his sexual pleasure and all. Well, I got my str8 boy, he was good looking and I got him off, and then he left and I never saw him again. It was one of the most unsatisfying sexual experiences Id ever had and despite the fact that it was non reciprocal he didn't play the role of dominator that I so desired (and that I assume you and many others also desire). After that, I ceased to seek out straight boys and went back to the more comfortable gays.

As it turned out the most masculine, dominant, muscular guy I ever slept with was BI. Well, I personally think he was gay based on the number of times we fucked but he always claimed to be, "straight, or if anything Bi/" Anyways, I definitely got the rough handling I wanted without the other crap that goes with str8 guys.

More than that, I find that gay men have much better hygiene, take better care of their bodies in general and actually in my opinion are MUCH hotter in general than str8 guys probably for that reason. Whenever my bf and I go down to the gay village on a friday or saturday night we are blown away by the concentration of hot guys in one little area. In fact, we went to a club one night and despite him being 6'3 and me being 6'0 we were pretty well the average in the room and the muscles, bumps and bulges in that room were INSANE. Not to mention the two buff porno studs who put on a live sex show at the end of the night. We came back wondering if perhaps something in the gay gene also selected for hot tall guys with good fashion sense.
 
D-Base said:
:rotflmao: That's the funniest thing I've read in a while. Thanks :rotflmao:
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It's strange how people can see things totally differently. I not only did NOT find it funny, I found it to be the most offensive, self-loathing, gay-bashing statement against gay people that I've heard in a while (passed off as a joke or not).
 
who'd want a straight man? Why would I want what I can't have..doesn't mean I'd not find them attractive..but why put myself in that bit of self torture and drama? Leave the straights for the gals. Just cause he's straight does not mean he's masculine!
 
slnattak said:
Straight men are more naturally masculine and thus hotter. They DO more. And WRITE less. They are more PHYSICAL. Less EMOTIONAL. And just way HOTTER. Less SENSITIVE. Gay men have A LOT to learn from straight guys! *Drool*

Also straight cock creates life, sucking a cock that gives life is always hotter than sucking a cock whose only power is to give stds! It's like, reverse attraction. Sorry to offend but it is!!! I just can't get over how much hotter straight guys are than gay guys. It's at least 4x hotter
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Trust me, I don't get offended easily, just pissed. And even this didn't even scratch the surface of turning me red in the face. Actually, thanks for lowering my blood pressure, I needed a good laugh after a hectic day.

I think you just summed it up that guys on this board (like yourself) that idolize the so called "perfect" straight male don't do it for any good reason at all. It's just a creepy ass fetish.

Do you have any friends? Just curious, b/c this isn't something I would tell people in person, because it's likely to offend a lot of gay people make them want to kick your ass for being a d-bag (and rightfully so).

And it'll definitely creep any "potential" straight guy you have your eyes on out (who wouldn't want you anyway 'cause you're a guy).
 
I might be attracted to a guy that's straight, but I'm not attracted to people just because they're straight. And I'm never going to chase people who are straight in the hope of a drunken night of bicuriousity. It's kinda stupid. I'm not attracted to straight guys, I'm attracted to guys, and unfortunately about 90% of guys on this planet are straight.
 
bluepheonix said:
I hope I don't need to point out the fatal flaw of "straight" men wanting to sleep with other guys.

Meanwhile, have you considered that being gay, one is attracted to men, not "gay men". I dont know about you, but I dont see someone, walk up to them and go "are you straight" "why yes good sir I am" "OMG IM SO INSANELY ATTRACTED TO YOU". I tend to be attracted to people when first I see them, not because I know they are straight or gay, those details come later.

Statistically therefore one may assume that a gay guy is going to be randomly attracted to straight guys more often than gay guys, however that is not a consequence of the targets sexuality, but of the observers. Eventually, hopefully, they will realise that its not going to lead anywhere, and will get over it and move on until they find someone they are attracted to who is going to reciprocate that attraction. However just because you cant have it doesnt mean the attractions going to go straight away, and that is not just applicable to gay people, see men attracted to married women, vice versa, and of course the overwhelming attractions towards people who dont know you exist/think you are on some rung below pond scum.

So in general I would say that men are generally appealing to gay men, regardless of their orientation, and in spite of any complications. The heart wants what it wants.

As for straight men being more erotic to gay men being a 'scientific fact', I am suppressing the powerful urge to slap you.
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Couldn't have said it better my self. =]

I'm currently crushing on a straight guy friend of mine.
And I'm actually about to go see him. ^_^
 
I have to work with straight men having sex with gay men all day. I get so sick of the whining and bitching and complaining.

Give me a hot gay men who knows what he wants and takes it ANY day, thanks. It's not that I don't like the guys I work with and it's not like I don't love the end product once it's edited and polished.. I also love watching hot straight guys have sex with women, although I'd still take Park Wiley or Derek Diamond or Lance Bennett or Dean Phoenix over the straight guys I direct any day.
 
Guys always want guys - regardless of sexual orientation.

But not always. ;)
 
People in general lust after the unattainable. It's like a goal to reach, something to 'conquer', and what would stroke someones ego more than being able to think they were the exception to the rule that the straight guy is 100% straight? Speaking purely sexually this is...

As for having actual feelings, most men are straight so the chances a person falls for a straight guy is gonna be greater...
 
i think it's because people like what they can't have...and also, str8 guys just appear to be a gay man's perceive masculine figure and that turns some gay men on...
 
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