Gay men always want straight guys

[braex27]

From personal experience, it's more the case of being attracted to a guy first without knowing whether he's straight or gay - and then working through it when you find out that he's straight.

Personally, I don't go out of my way to aim for straight guys - that's just a recipe for rejection and pain.

 

[Storybook_Man]

I disagree. I think its true that some gay men want some straight guys. But mainly its about looks. Like for me, if I see a hot straight guy, I want him, if I don't then I don't want a straight guy. So many hot daddy straight guys out there! AND so many HOT gay guys out there and so on lol..

 

[jaycee style]

This thread makes me lol

i know right, this is full of quotables,

i actually had to take a break and get some teddy grahms and a capri sun.

let's see ummmm....

It's not like straight guys are hard to sleep with once you get to know them for a little bit.

Gay cock can give life just as easily as straight cock it just chooses not the be a breeder,

how many times we gotta say it's not a choice

imagine me slapping your faggy face

this is awkwardly stalkerish.


buephoenix is a funny and smart as shit, i'd like to have a coffee and listen to this guy break some shit down.

It's the quality of 'bro-ness'

...act like a bro to me

i gotta use 'bro-ness' in a sentence this week.

Or was that a dirt ring?

ownage

...........and then there's this extra dick in bed

hahaha hell yea, it's like in a pornography film scene with 2 men and 1 woman, i'ts just over from the begining.

like theres theres is old school joint with ebony ayes and these 2 guys and that shit would be so jerkable if there wasnt that........

extra dick in bed

i don't really have much thought on the topic, other than, ugly people are ugly and pretty people are pretty,

sometimes nice clothes help, but having banana republic on the tag of your shirt, doesnt make what's under it less flabby,

and having your teeth brushed and flossed perfect doesnt make them more straight.

if you're attractive you are, if you're not you're not.

 

[MystikWizard]

Straight men are naturally more erotic for gay men then other gay men are. Is this a scientific fact? I think it will be, in the end- science will prove that gay men want straight men innately more than other gay men.

If you disagree with me, say why.

If you agree then say why too.

Let's discuss this like rational adults and try to not get too emotional, even though I realize it's a controversial subject.

I think what this boils down to is a lot of Gay Men simply want a masculine Guy, and not an Effeminate Guy.

 

[conrad]

There was that time, long ago, when I and just about every other guy I knew thought of ourselves as just "regular guys" which was not surprising because our whole background programmed us to think that way.

I was fortunate in bonding with the new guy in town and we gave ourselves permission to "do what came naturally" and during the last two years of high school we "learned by doing" and we did it all. My college roommate was a sexual innocent at first as was my housemate in Seattle and the sex was fantastic. Eventually, we all married; my teen partner and I are still happily married, but both my college roommate and my Seattle housemate found that they could not hack it in the heterosexual marriage scene; both found their way into discreet gay relationships.

Before I finally married I had also been very happy in partnerships with two lovely ladies. That sex too was fantastic as a wonderful way of confirming the bond that existed between us.

I have concluded that there is a wide variety in the ways one can relate sexually with another person. In a long life I have had only six partners, all in long-term relationships and in none of them was I ever concerned about the sexual orientation of my partner. When love is the binder even the gender of the other is really not the determining factor.

It would appear that the question is aimed at those who seek out the tinsel and firecracker aspects of sex as in casual hook ups. Those of us who desire something more permanent have a different approach. Whether we be gay, straight, or bisexual most of us do not want to ever feel that we are being "used" by another person; and as we do not want to be used, we should never want to be classed as "user" or abuser of other persons.

 

[texan_slant]

Here's the thing, as with everything/anything, it's a preference.

I love, prefer, and am generally attracted to straight men, and as with any sexual preference, it's stricty innate/emotional rather than a conscious choice for me. I dunno why, and it's just always been.

Not all straight men that I have been attracted to have been stereotypically more 'masculine' in terms of appearance or attitude - in other words, none of them have been muscle-bound studs, etc; however, there is an air of confidence about them (not that gay guys aren't!)

...and from my standpoint, there is that unknown thrill of knowing, or sensing that somewhere in that complex male mind, there are doors that either remain locked, or could become unlocked, sexually.

 

[scream4ever]

I admitt I more often find myself attracted to straight men!

 

[Rex]

Straight guys are hotter most of the time because they're more masculine, no matter how you cut it.

When I meet a gay guy who is good looking, I'm usually turned off when I notice his feminine mannerisms or certain personality traits, which is the case 75% of the time. When I know the guy is gay, I guess the femininity is put under a microscope and I'm expecting it, so I notice it more easily.

Someone's masculinity and how they carry themselves is the first thing I look for in a guy to determine if I'm going to be attracted, regardless of how he may look. Maybe that sounds mean or unfair but I can't help it.

 

[hothunk222]

I like masculine gay guys they are hotter than masculine straight guys in my opinion. Masculine gay guys have a certain classiness something more refined and hot about them that is verry hot that I don't think masculine straight guys have.

 

[Telstra]

That's the funniest thing I've read in a while. Thanks

thanks for highlighting it. I find it funny also.

 

[swmjck]

The first guy in post #52 from only real guys reminds alot of Andy Roddick. If only it was him

 

[Vgameman]

Honestly, this is what i've come to discover. The only reason why straight guys turn me on is because THEY ACT LIKE GUYS. Why do you have to be gay and automatically act feminine? It kind of defeats the purpose, at least in my opinion. I'm on the gay side of bi, and yet i still act like a guy. A gay guythat still acts like a guy could turn me on just as much as a straight guy would be able to.

 

[KTheLibra]

I am more attracted to straight men because of their masculinity, their "swagger", if you will. Also the fact that they're not superficial and catty like every gay man I know is. Sigh.

 

[KTheLibra]

Honestly, this is what i've come to discover. The only reason why straight guys turn me on is because THEY ACT LIKE GUYS. Why do you have to be gay and automatically act feminine? It kind of defeats the purpose, at least in my opinion. I'm on the gay side of bi, and yet i still act like a guy. A gay guythat still acts like a guy could turn me on just as much as a straight guy would be able to.

I completely agree. You said it better than I ever could.

 

[Vgameman]

Im glad someone else feels the same way... haha.

 

[spencer]

I completely agree. You said it better than I ever could.

I would agree with you too, but you're sporting sorta an effeminate grin for your avitar.

 

[youngnihilist]

Why would anyone gay guy want a straight guy?

The sex with straight or "straight" guys usually sucks! They aren't that into it! With a gay boy, it's usually an intense and deep connection.. with straight guys, they obviously arent into it because they're straight, or if they are "straight" they're guilty/disconnected most of the time. Give me a cock loving gay bottom boy anyday over a straight stud

 

[scream4ever]

I am not sure WHAT is is exactly (other than the fact that we can't have them lol.) I am HUGELY turned on by str8 guys and love to see pics of them getting drunk and letting their guard down. Let me know what you thin of these pics...

Jeremy
onlyrealguys.com

I find straight men even sexier when they're drunk! Just last night I was at a bar/club and this guy was in the bathroom and very drunk. He was at the urinal and had his pants pulled down all the way and his boxer briefs halfway to the floor. He had a nice, athletic body too. Everyone got a good look at his ass. From where I was I saw his cock. It was nicely sized, and I honestly think he was playing with himself a little bit! After he was finished I told him I found it hot. Everyone (including myself) were drunk so it was cool. His friend laughed a little bit (not in a disgusted way either) and slapped me a high five.

 

[belgarion63]

^^^ You would think so, but my best friend is a lesbian, and her family in Virginia HATES lesbians....they're perfectly fine with gay men (her cousin and his partner have exchanged rings) but they can't stand homosexual women....when i tried to explain to her how that situation is kind of backwards from what usually happens, she doesn't see how it can be harder for gay men to be intimate in public....I'll never understand her...


As for the "straight guy" issue....I want someone who will have sex with me, and hold me, and LOVE me....I'm pretty sure I'm not alone when I say that sometimes, I just want to be held by a man who truly cares for me....in my opinion, that is more erotic than the best sex of your life....and it's a feeling that I wouldn't trade for anything.

 

[Beanstalk]

Straight cock is so appealing to me, so much more naturally arousing than gay cock. Gay cock is like ehhh. The guys are like TOO NICE and don't know how to properly slap me around. Straight men are more naturally masculine and thus hotter. They DO more. And WRITE less. They are more PHYSICAL. Less EMOTIONAL. And just way HOTTER. Less SENSITIVE. Gay men have A LOT to learn from straight guys! *Drool*

If slnattack wants to be slapped around, I think I could oblige. Give me a gentle man, a bit feminine, who writes more, is more emotional and more sensitive.

What a stupid post. As for me, it makes no difference at all whether a man likes to think of himself as "straight" or "gay." If I find him attractive, and he invites me to suck his cock, that's great. If I like him, he doesn't have to reciprocate.

A lot of men call themselves "straight" just to avoid being endlessly propositioned by gay men. But a "straight man" I used to know got to know me socially and eventually had no problem having sex with me.

It's like when a beautiful girl goes around in a really stupid hat and a really dumpy overcoat -- I used to wonder why, and then I figured it out.