I’m sorry, but I don’t remember signing a contract when I was born forfeiting my right to be a parent just because I’m gay.
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Gays having children, what do you think?
- Thread starter Swellegant
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I’m sorry, but I don’t remember signing a contract when I was born forfeiting my right to be a parent just because I’m gay.
Nonimus
Reasurringly Expensive
There is no reason for gay men to adopt a child. Im full-blown gay and even I think that it would look bad from someone on the outside. Regardless of how good their intentions are, when you play with fire, you're going to get burnt!
Im just stating it looks very very bad in the eyes of society for two gay men to adopt a child. Although every gay person I personally know would make a great parent, I feel this is a area gays would be best off avoiding. You do seem to be very set in your mind and when that is the case, people will always find a reason to justify their stance. IMO, better safe than sorry!
Elwood
Under Construction
I do not believe there is anything wrong with gay couples having children, however I think your situation could be a little trickier. What happens when either of you find a another partner? Do you plan on living together? Or would it be more like a divorced hetero couple,spend time at Mommy's house and then time at Daddy's house? There is nothing wrong with that though, my kids are living that right now. The important thing is they know they are loved. I just think you would have a lot of discussions before entering into an arrangement like this. It is not something you would tread into lightly.
Elwood
Under Construction
More of my thoughts... I belong to a group here in Montreal called Les Pappa/ Daddy. It is a gay parenting group. Some of the fathers are like me lived a hetero life had kids with a women, figured out they were gay. The other fathers are gay men in a committed relaitonship who have decided to adopt. The wonderful thing is, there is a youth social service group here, who has seen what wonderful parents gay couples could be. These couples are taking children that no one else wants, and giving them loving homes and a chance in life.
The most important part of any kids life is, they need to feel wanted and loved. If they have that, they can easily work through the other problems having gay parents may bring. From what I have heard from the members who have adopted, there have been no negative reactions from school's or daycares or neighbors for that matter. They are pretty much accepted as normal families.
So it can work.
The most important part of any kids life is, they need to feel wanted and loved. If they have that, they can easily work through the other problems having gay parents may bring. From what I have heard from the members who have adopted, there have been no negative reactions from school's or daycares or neighbors for that matter. They are pretty much accepted as normal families.
So it can work.