Gays virgins and labels

[DigitalFudge]

But I just believe having sex with someone who is fully committed to me and I feel is the right person to do it with whether I find that person tomorrow or when I'm 50.... Is that so wrong?!

Me too!


It's rough isn't it? Glad to know I am not utterly alone.

 

[hungrybrownbear]

Ignore the bitter old queens who are trying to make you feel bad for not caving into the pressure of accepting their normative definition of what being in a relationship should be like.

Do it with a person that you trust and only, when you are ready.

And, don't let anyone make you feel bad about yourself for standing up for your principles.

 

[cliffdweller]

You guys do realize that men are not and cannot be virgins, by definition, right?

 

[Asenath]

You guys do realize that men are not and cannot be virgins, by definition, right?

Much like marriage (which also had to do with the treatment of women as property, virginity being one of the appraisal points of her price and worth), definitions change. Thank god.

 

[SLOPPYSECONDS]

wot wrong is ya got ask da question whateva internet scenario stuck fa folk wot come internet read it ans go scratch their ass when planet around fa eons

principles kind a stoopid cause 100% folk internt come from countrys no got non
' No look in da book! '
it okay da world taday ans all dat

so any folk go say HEY no sex casue waitin fa da one

who askin ya ? << got think dat
ans if folks countrys culture make um alls vibratin with lot Questions wot no one askin?

hey why countrys folkys no go talk ta da culture wot got um alls FRITTZYS

of a course dawn of man females much death step out da rules of man wot aint ans alls thangs many ans da birds sing ans fly south
ans males of be not for but ans life close as whateva MAN got in play were eva

so like if many Q drive millions of folk of countrys wot super uptadate everythang ta ask it sooooo wrong or so many thang on repeat ?

why not get ya country go make group real time ans go little chat each other

save da ears of da trees gettin chop down folk go GOD DAM why why why ans tree was so happy until

there go

 

[rareboy]

Ignore the bitter old queens who are trying to make you feel bad for not caving into the pressure of accepting their normative definition of what being in a relationship should be like.

Do it with a person that you trust and only, when you are ready.

And, don't let anyone make you feel bad about yourself for standing up for your principles.

Hardly bitter.

We're the ones who've been not only getting the sex all these years but in most cases found long term partners who also really enjoyed tearing up the sheets.

It is the rest of the repressed homos who are using not having sex as an excuse to avoid a real emotional commitment, or to make themselves feel better about possibly being rejected or inadequate that need to give their heads a shake.

I see a whole lot of single frustrated homos out there tsk tsking about how the OP's guy and all the other guys are just animals and that sex isn't important, but the simple fact is, at some point sex becomes the deal maker or deal breaker.

I've just stated the truth in my original post.

If after 2 years, a person who doesn't want to have sex is still holding out against a guy who does want to have sex, it is no wonder that the OP got dumped.

They aren't meant to be together.

Deal with it.

And stop trying to make the other guy out to be some bizarre sex crazed monster who done the OP wrong.

 

[blackbeltninja]

^So you're happy to discount the age aspect entirely?

Does this work both ways? Do you think teenage pregancy at high-school is a wondrous thing? And if not, why not?

-d-

 

[pat grimshaw]

^
good question!

 

[MoltenRock III]

^So you're happy to discount the age aspect entirely?

Does this work both ways? Do you think teenage pregancy at high-school is a wondrous thing? And if not, why not?

-d-

Silly homo, butt babies are for toilets.