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Gogo boys...

From LA to NYC I can't get them to leave me alone. Make eye contact for one second they're all rubbing up against me. In fact, in FL on time a few years back, an Hispanic guy`(I don't go for Latinos generally and I was looking for a little champagne room time with a twinky white boy that caught my eye) was lap dancing me all over and he was pretty hot, smooth skin, putting my hands all over his body, etc. basically hittin me up for some cash and a little action and I was like no thanks, no thanks, not tonight, blah blah blah...he finally backed off and I found "Nick" the guy I wanted to mess around with and we went into the pvt room and said "you can do whatever you want." I didn't, but I had my fun. When I came out the Latino guy was standing there all pissed off about how I went in with someone else.

My point... it seems like gogo boys and strippers WANT your attention and money. At least they want mine to the point I can't get them to leave me alone.

Where are these guys that give u attitude? Seems like a crummy way to drum up business.
 
Er, dude, just my two cents here...

You keep making this about the gogo boys. Yes, there may be some snobby dancers who act like total bitches to you because they think they're better than you. But if every single gogo boy acts like that towards you, no matter what club you go to, especially since I'm sure you've been to a wide variety of them... then I don't think the problem lies with each and every one of those gogo boys being bitches. The problem may be with the way you appear to them or the way you're treating them. Tell us how you act towards them and we'll be able to give you better advice.

Also, it's insulting to call them prostitutes, by the way. I'm not saying that some of them don't meet up with guys afterward or give them handjobs or whatever, but by and large, they're just dancers. And if that's the kind of attitude you display towards them, insulting them like you are in this thread and calling them rude and whatnot, I can't really say I blame them for not wanting to interact with you. Be nice to them, tip them well, don't act lecherously or obscene, and you should be fine.

But really, like I said, all you keep telling us is how these gogo boys act towards you. You keep repeating the same things over again without sharing anything about yourself. How do you act towards them? That's my question.
 
I think it's you that has the problem.

WIth all the animosity you display, I'm wondering if you aren't jealous of them for some reason.

Bottom line is if they bug you that much, go somewhere that's devoid of the gogo dancers.
 
Xtubefanatic777 said:
I think you're just rude and unable to participate in a healthy dialogue without taking things personal....maybe you're one of those promiscuous whoring pole boys yourself?
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Hey dude, stop fooling yourself (as if this was possible!!). This is not a healthy dialogue. Basically everybody who has responded to either your initial post or to your endless rebuttals is saying the same thing -- that based on what we are reading, YOU are likely the problem. That you seem not to understand this in my estimation explains the larger problem.

I am not a "whoring pole boy". I'm a middle aged man. And I personally have never had problems with dancers. They seem to like me just fine. But I am polite, respectful and rational.

Enough said.
 
Xtubefanatic777 said:
I think you're just rude and unable to participate in a healthy dialogue without taking things personal....maybe you're one of those promiscuous whoring pole boys yourself?
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Hey dude, stop fooling yourself (as if this was possible!!). This is not a healthy dialogue. Basically everybody who has responded to either your initial post or to your endless rebuttals is saying the same thing -- that based on what we are reading, YOU are likely the problem. That you seem not to understand this in my estimation explains the larger problem.

I am not a "whoring pole boy". I'm a middle aged man. And I personally have never had problems with dancers. They seem to like me just fine. But I am polite, respectful and rational.

Enough said.
 
jer468 said:
Hey dude, stop fooling yourself (as if this was possible!!). This is not a healthy dialogue. Basically everybody who has responded to either your initial post or to your endless rebuttals is saying the same thing -- that based on what we are reading, YOU are likely the problem. That you seem not to understand this in my estimation explains the larger problem.

I am not a "whoring pole boy". I'm a middle aged man. And I personally have never had problems with dancers. They seem to like me just fine. But I am polite, respectful and rational.

Enough said.
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I still think you may just be a whoring pole boy trying to save face....but anyway.

To the writer asking of my behavior....

it has been nothing but impeccable from day one....

I enter the club/bar.....attempt to get comfy....order a drink....and the dancers tend to gawk at me awkwardly....or they'll rolls they're eyes at me and run off to the other dancers to talk amongst themselves....one time i actully DID tip a guy and he snatched my money out of my hand and walked away....

not cool...
 
looseliam said:
I think it's you that has the problem.

WIth all the animosity you display, I'm wondering if you aren't jealous of them for some reason.

Bottom line is if they bug you that much, go somewhere that's devoid of the gogo dancers.
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Gogo boys have to have respect for the customers....PERIOD
 
This is bonkers.

It's like banging your head against a brick wall and asking what the bricks should be doing to be more comfortable for you.

If you don't enjoy interacting with go-go dancers, and you don't, then just stop interacting with them.

Oh, and one more thing, customers need to have respect for go-go dancers too. One of your earlier comments gave the impression that you didn't respect them very much because they were just common prostitutes. If you give them that kind of attitude, what kind of attitude do you think you're going to get back? Seriously.
 
NiteCamp has the best go-gos if you are into college age guys. They only work the East Coast, but they all are super nice everytime I've seen them. It's probably something to do with the location too. I don't go to certain clubs cause the crowd there is typically bitchy (B-more), but others like in DC are usually more chill and friendly.
 
For me it's a hit and miss - generally the go go boys here in Houston are very nice, at least at the bars I go to. I usually give them a few dollars, not much but it's at least something and they give me a hug and let me pat them on the ass. There is one here and there that is a bit snooty but that just means i'll ignore him from here on out.
 
can't ignore extreme levels of disrespect and disservice. how can i put them all in their place?
 
Dude, really, you need a reality check. I've been to many places with gogo boys with many different people. I have never encountered anything like that which you describe.
 
ok Xtube, what is your point? do you have a beef with someone or some place in particular? or are you just trying to be annoying? because no one else here seems to feel the same way you do about gogo boys. I happen to love them! I had a great time in Detroit last night with several of them. they were all nice and friendly of course they were looking for tips but that is their job and i like to tip. so
fess up and tell us what your deal is!
 
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