You're going to be hard pressed to find anyone in the industry willing to work with the guys from Gay For It who have made literally MILLIONS of dollars stealing from us, creating work for us, fucking us over, fucking us around and lying to us.
It's like saying "there's no way you can stop burglars from breaking into houses so you should find a way to work with them."
If you think this purportedly massive legion of pirates exists because of simple “pay vs. don't pay” economics, you are deluding yourself.
The music industry faced the same issue with pirates back in the days of Napster. They sued, they bitched, they moaned, they cried about bankruptcy.
But just a couple years later, what did they turn around and do? They created iTunes stores, to sell off albums, or individual songs, at full quality and marketable prices. And people responded. They responded in the millions, and soon other forms of media took notice; NetFlix for movies, e-Books for novels, direct2drive for video games, and the list goes on.
These industries
adapted to meet the demands of their target consumer base, and the consume base overwhelmingly responded. Piracy is still an issue, but not nearly what it once was.
As I see it, most Porn studios have a limited understanding of what the internet represents to their industry. They see it as an advertising medium, and maybe an interactive catalogue. However, most are still approaching the concept of sales and finances as if it were 1990.
Learn from the industries that have come before you. They tried suing pirate sites and torrent trackers out of existence, and for every one they brought down 10 more took its place. It was not until they woke up to the realities of how the Internet changed the economic landscape of their business that they were able to adapt and begin profiting from these new opportunities -- instead of treating them like an enemy.