Have you ever fought a Gay?

[evanrick]

violence is the weapon of fools

 

[MoufOfKhaos]

I don't have to fight.

Didn't know sexual orientation mattered in a fight, either.

 

[Jayden]

Oh dear.

. . . .

 

[HunterM]

The fight has begun.

 

[bankside]

This, I agree with:

I don't have to fight.

But this:

Didn't know sexual orientation mattered in a fight, either.

Of course it makes a difference; it gives you the chance to call someone "Queen" and feel all butch and masculine and heteronormative and stuff.

 

[PolterGUYst]

Get off your tiny soapbox. If you want to preach go find yourself a Christians forum, queenie.

Oh excuse me, I didn't realize that only holier-than-thou Christians are anti-bar fight.
I'm sorry that you have to sink to punching "queens" to make yourself feel masculine. I guess it's okay to be gay as long as you aren't too gay.

 

[palbert]

OP, rather than draw attention to one's abilities in the martial arts, I would suggest looking at improving anger management skills, and also examine the effect of alcohol on social behavior.

 

[palbert]

I think some of you need common-sense management. Shit happens, people fight, get over yourselves and focus on your own issues before judging others. I'm sure you all aren't saints yourselves.....[portion deleted]....

I am not the one who put this issue on the board. We were asked to focus on the general issue and, by example, your facility at the martial arts. In that sense we were asked to judge others, i.e., you. From your testimonial you are the one utilizing "commom sense management" and focusing on your own issues.

For information I grew up in Miami, leaving there in 1990. I understand the pugilistic disposition of so many of the residents, so do not assume that this is in any way an attack. If anything it is a justification for staying home.

 

[Centipede]

You are the one saying all of these things. I never said anything of the sort.

after your first post you don't really have to lol

 

[MoufOfKhaos]

I think some of you need common-sense management. Shit happens, people fight, get over yourselves and focus on your own issues before judging others. I'm sure you all aren't saints yourselves.

You don't get to use this line. Your opening post states that the fights you got into were because you were drunk, or as you put it, dangerously intoxicated. Sorry, that's problem number 1.

The second problem would be your narcissism... and yeah, you're an attractive man(in my opinion, you are). But you're also a dick. You prove it by talking about people like they're beneath you, below you, or at you stated, "undesirable". Now that I see it's not just a forum thing(which isn't in the past), I kinda feel bad for you.

Everyone reacts to harassment in different ways and if you are going to be a fool and instigate something randomly at a bar then you had better man up and deal with the consequences.

True. You can also be a man and walk away without trying to prove who has the bigger set of nuts. The second guy you mentioned, even I would hit(because he threw a drink at me; he provoked me)... but you hit the first man in the face because he thought you were checking out his boyfriend. How manly of you.

I know i'm wasting my time, but jeez...

 

[1-curious-boi]

I got attacked once and he strangled me. So I phoned the police. once I had done that he started again. I then lost it and went for him and had him pinned down ( if only he was my type :-D) I was then grabbed and pulled up from behind, panicking I flew my head back to nut the guy . Turns out it was the police I had called .... Sooo that turned out baaad!

 

[bankside]

Some people's lives really do seem like performance art, don't they.

 

[bankside]

Funny you say that. I find that what some see as impossible, others achieve effortlessly. I know it may be hard to break free from those prejudices you have for people who can express themselves more openly than you are use to. It's a shame to see so much projected anger and bitterness from some of you.

Some people can use the faculty of speech quite adroitly to project their anger while others must resort to using the arm to impel the fist towards the face of their opponents.

In my experience, it is an "either/or" proposition.

 

[Native Son]

Gay men don't fistfight. That practice is reserved for knuckle-draggin' breeders and insecure bisexuals.

The answer is no. I've never had to resort to physical combat with another brother.

I have felt compelled to raise my voice on a couple of occasions.

 

[Telstra]

the title is funny " gay fights gay"
I'll skip the rest of the posts.

How do you know who is gay or not when you fight ?

 

[Enduster]

He's now one of those born-again Jesus-fanatic ex-gays thinking he's going to Heaven. Unbelievable.

ugh! They are the worst aren't they? They dismiss every shitheaded thing they did with an excuse that now they've found Jebus/Gog. Sickening!

It's always the druggies that find their new addiction in Jebus.

 

[bankside]

…clearly we're ruling out "adroit faculty of speech" here.

 

[refujiunderground]

you know, i've always been paranoid when it comes to dealing with dudes in general where i pretty much will perceive anything from a slight aggressiveness to a stare as being disrespectful. if a dude comes @ me the wrong way as in looks @ me wrong or whatever, then it's on. i might not say anything to him but he pretty much left an impression on me like these three bitch ass motherfuckers somewhere living in my town that were acting with me at my job some months ago. i wish i saw them bitches on the street so i could whip their bitch asses. fuck them. like @ the gym, this dude made some funny noise around me when he walked past me and i thought he was trying to be funny as in he was trying to piss me off. you can pretty much say that anything little thing can easily get me angry when it's done by someone who i don't know for sure. so if you were to come @ me a certain way or i get the whiff that you're trying to be funny with me as in you're on some disrespectful shit then you're pretty much an enemy of mine which gives me proper cause to fuck you up. i could give a fuck if you're straight, bisexual or gay. all i gotta say is if you come at me wrong, i hate you and i pretty much wanna smack your fucking head off. i don't hate anybody that doesn't hate me.

you know, i know some of you dudes outthere think you can get disrespectful and out of place where you go about talking shit about so and so you think is ugly BUT if you talk shit about me, calling me ugly or you act funny around me like "ill, he's an ugly guy", then FUCK YOU. don't even try to pull that shit on me @ the club or i'ma call your punk ass out in front of everybody or in public because i will punk your bitch ass around. i'm gay too so don't even try to pull that gay bashing shit either. you were talking shit and i had to put your bitch ass in check.

 

[refujiunderground]

they might put you in check


there's always a bigger...and meaner fish




honestly, though..and I mean no disrespect

..you appear to have some anger issues

you just realized that? i never came off as angry, threatening or "thuggish" to you in my posts?

yeah, i do have anger issues, always had them. the funny thing is that i've never acted out my anger where i've actually assaulted somebody. i would rather write, speak my feelings or just play out what i want to do to that person that pissed me off in my head because i know that if i really did it, i prolly would get locked up. i'll admit though, i do wish that i could act it out though on some people but being that i can't fight (it also doesn't help that i'm short and skinny with small bone mass), i would rather get a weapon or the nearest object and hurt them with it to make them feel as much pain as they have caused me. if it's the club and someone's coming @ me, i'm swinging a beer bottle, a chair, a poolstick, a knife or something at them.

but for the record, if someone pisses me off, i pretty much won't forget it and if i don't know the motherfucker as in he or she isn't in my inner circle, i won't forgive them either. they're marked off as an enemy and i'll hate them even if they drop dead and gone. it's not a thing for me to disrespect the dead either as long as it's not one of my own or somebody i care about. it's fair game to me. i don't give a fuck. there's no such thing as ghosts so what they're going to do to me.

 

[refujiunderground]

Have you tried therapy refugiunderground ?

Perhaps get yourself a punchbag.

yeah but i've gotten nowhere with it. they either didn't think i had a serious problem, couldn't deal with me either due to money issues or they didn't know what to do so they referred me to someone else, or they wanted to put me on meds. i don't want to be on meds unless they prove to me that i have a legitimate mental problem requiring it so i pretty much bounced away from them. i pretty much rely on myself to handle my issues where i write in blogs and forums about my pain. take out my anger by ranting about my issues, bothering and harassing people on forums talking shit about them, and basically doing whatever i can that will ease my negative emotions. i pretty much have ran out of ideas and it seems like my way isn't working at all and i'm just getting worse where i'm only hurting myself. don't know what to do anymore. until i have an idea, i give up. whatever happens happens.

a punching bag would beat me up more than i would beat it up. i'm weak. i think i would be a lot better beating up a person if i knew how to fight and had the body to do damage. i'm not built like that. i've thought about taking my anger out at the shooting range though. i just hope that my small ass bone mass and weakness comes to play where i end up hurting myself shooting a gun. i always fucking end up embarrassing myself when it comes to manly activities.