Have You Ever Used Okay Cupid?

[cgymike]

No, but i've sometimes used Cupid , okay.

Vids or it didn't happen...

 

[Just_Believe18]

^ You know, they do enough to cyber with each other in just about every Hot Topic thread. No need to encourage it further. It's borderline annoying.

 

[jslvr05]

I actually just disabled my account on there. I was talking to a guy and we were really hitting it off. It was very light and flirty. Then, out of nowhere, he deleted his profile. I texted him (we exchanged numbers), and he never specified why he deleted it. I've just left it alone. Then, a guy "liked" me (5 stars) and messaged me, but deleted his profile today.

It was all just irritating, so I'm disabling it indefinitely.

 

[Just_Believe18]

^ I like you guys, but it's repetitive after awhile. Being honest with you, and I know I'm not the only one.

 

[cgymike]

I actually just disabled my account on there. I was talking to a guy and we were really hitting it off. It was very light and flirty. Then, out of nowhere, he deleted his profile. I texted him (we exchanged numbers), and he never specified why he deleted it. I've just left it alone. Then, a guy "liked" me (5 stars) and messaged me, but deleted his profile today.

It was all just irritating, so I'm disabling it indefinitely.

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[travis82]

I HATE okcupid, that's where I met my ex, he pretended to be nice, interested in me and sweet, he took my virginity and when he got bored of my dick I found out he was online flirting with other guys the whole time, on Valentine's day I found out what he was doing and called him out, he broke with me over the phone by saying 'fuck you' then when I texted him asking what was his point in doing this to me he sent a fucking thug to my house to threaten me.

So thanks to okcupid I got used, abused (he was verbally abusive throughout the relationship), threatened, traumatized, victimized and now i'm afraid to leave my house because thugs want to harm me, all because I wanted love. I think it's the area I live in, all the people here are terrible, which is why i'm happy i'm moving soon.

But i'm not a victim, luckily out of all this I learned that I have value, before I felt unlovable and worthless, this jerk forced me to do some self evaluation and I realize now that i've got it going on, I will NEVER let any guy treat me like crap again, it was such a hard thing for me to go through, do I regret going on okcupid? Honestly I do...but because of it i'm moving to a new town and am not going to get tricked again because I will follow my insticts and not be in something that I feel bad about.

I will never online date again, dont feel bad for me, i'm alright now, but this was my experience with okcupid, anyone who is naive shouldn't use it because people might take advantage of you

Hi CupidBoy,

your story tears me up. Even though I don't know you personally, I think you're a nice guy based on your posts in JUB forums. I consider you a good friend/buddy of mine here on JUB forums.


I'm sorry that you have been through a lot but the good thing is you have move on. And you have been taught a life learning lesson.


But I hope you won't let this bad experience affect you entirely because I think that not every online dating experiences will turn out to be bad. There are good, pleasant ones too, although statistics may suggest otherwise.


If I can offer you any good advice....it's that sometimes you need to kiss a lot of frogs in order to find your prince.


I hope you feel better. Have a good day.