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Have you ever...

Well, in a way yes. I had hundreds of students working at my orders, or more correctly, were SUPPOSED to be working. I was a substitute teacher and an ESE teacher for a while, and it was next to impossible to get the kids to do their assignments under those circumstances.

Have you ever started a job, only to regret it almost immediately?
 
I delayed responding, hoping that someone with a more interesting answer would chime in.

No.

Have you ever heard a song while going through a difficult love situation or whatever, that made you say, that's exactly what I'm going through now?
 
I was in the middle of a relationship where I was being cheated on when I turned on the radio (something I rarely do nowadays) and heard My Favorite Mistake by Sheryl Crow. I've loved that song since I was a kid, but the lyrics hit me in a different way now that I was an adult in a relationship with a philandering guy who played me like a fool. Took some time, but I eventually found the strength to leave for good.


Have you ever stopped listening to a song because it brought back bad memories?
 
Yes.

Have you ever felt guilty for the way you broke up with someone?
 
No. My ex wanted to cheat on me and keep it a secret, but I found out about it and was in the club where they met. We had been having problems in our relationship for some time, and when I saw that, I knew it was over. Looking back on it, I don't think he realized that he overplayed his hand. He later tried to get me back, but I was just not interested.

I've had several other short term affairs, but none of them were serious, so there was no breaking up involved.

Have you ever accidentally broken or lost something of value that belonged to someone else?
 
No. If I borrow something I keep it up while it's in my possession and it'll be returned in tip top shape. Goes all the way back to childhood when a friend let me borrow one of his VHS's (can't remember what movie it was) and I loaned him my copy of Labyrinth. His tape was in the same condition it was in when he lent it to me, but my box cover was wet and stained from him running through his grandparents' sprinklers on his way to my house. Luckily the tape itself was unharmed, but I never let him borrow anything of mine again.

Have you ever fallen for someone you knew you could never have?
 
Not that I knew I could never have. There have been a couple I never ended up having.

Have you ever stalked someone?
 
Define "stalked". ;) No, I've never stalked anyone.

Have you ever defended someone who was being bullied?
 
Yes. I defended a woman who was being verbally attacked at a church I attended about 30 years ago. She was on her personal spiritual journey, and had announced that she had decided not to work at that point in her life. A man, who in retrospect I believe was borderline, attacked her for it and misquoted scripture at her, the line about if you don't work you don't eat, and all that b.s. I said that is between her and God, and we're not to judge or second-guess her decision. Well. This guy verbally attacked me, the church, and everyone else. It did cost me, in that he and his lover were friends with me and my ex, and we used to be the two gay male couples who hung out with each other. Some friend he turned out to be. Looking back on it, he had problems that were way too big for him to deal with, and it was probably only a matter of time before something set him off.

As for the previous question, I guess I was borderline stalking someone back in the early '80s. I fell hard for this boy (don't worry, he was 22-23 years old, but had a very childlike personality). Anyway, I lost touch with him, and was smitten with sorrow and regret for months. Well, he finally contacted me, and I found out where he lived, and for months I would go by his place, hoping to catch him and hang out with him. I certainly never wanted to threaten or harm him, or vandalize his car, or anything like that, but I was in a very unhealthy place emotionally. It was very freeing, when I was finally able to let go of him. I had really been putting my whole life on hold because of him.

Did you ever have a problem with being bullied?
 
Yes, during the Covid-19 lockdowns when there was little alternative.

Have you ever had a professional shave at the barber?
 
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