Have you ever...

[The Loner]

Not me, but my parents did when we were kids. We had a stay-in helper who did all the cooking, cleaning, etc.

Do you get aroused when you see someone's crack sticking out of his (or her) pants?

 

[The Loner]

^ Oh wait, let me rephrase that to go with the thread title...

Have you ever felt aroused after seeing someone's crack stick out of his (or her) pants?

 

[Danb258]

Absolutely as long as the guy is in reasonable shape

Have you ever rubbed your dick discreetly in public because of a good-looking person near you?

 

[frankifab]

I don't think so

Have you ever ridden a horse ?

 

[rmcrae]

I posed for a pic on a horse when I was 4. That's about it.

Have you ever found it difficult to forgive someone who hurt you? And how did you manage to forgive them? (I'm in the midst of said scenario and trying to let it go)

 

[PalacePaul]

Yes, a few times. I convince myself that my expectations had been too high and it wasn't all the other person's fault. Maybe that's not true but it works. And it takes time.
I'm sorry you're experiencing that

Have you ever considered cutting out an old friend?

 

[rmcrae]

Yes, a few times. I convince myself that my expectations had been too high and it wasn't all the other person's fault. Maybe that's not true but it works. And it takes time.
I'm sorry you're experiencing that

Thanks Paul. That's a good perspective to have.

Have you ever considered cutting out an old friend?

Yes and I have cut out a friend, but I would go about it a different way today. Long story short, I befriended a classmate when I started my senior year at a new school and she was like the sister I never had. We were incredibly close, but there were warning signs that I ignored. For example, she'd share some negative things someone had said about me under the guise of "looking out for me", but she really wanted me to say something mean about them so she could play bone collector and tell them. About a year and a half into the friendship (and a year after we graduated HS) I saw what she was doing and completely cut her off. Didn't answer her phone calls and unfriended her on a long gone social media site. What I would do now that I'm older is at least give her the courtesy of telling her why I no longer wanted to be her friend. I've since been on the receiving end of a ghosting and needless to say it hurt like hell (and still does sometimes). But when you know better, you do better.

Have you ever been publicly humiliated by a stranger?

 

[frankifab]

Not publicly , but I was humiliated in my own home by a sneaky manipulative stranger , the bitch caught me off guard , it was so stupid since there was a very close family member witnessing everything , yet ... she decided to turn her back on me ...
By the way ... Guys I wanted to comment about your previous answers to questions
Maybe others would say I'm a drastic grudge holder ... I don't forgive easily , neither do I forget .... I have a vivid memory from early childhood
I have been physically beaten by evil relatives when I was a child , I pretended ( within my mind ) for a long time I had forgiven them , but a few months ago , I brought up the subject about being physically abused by them ( told them to their face) and I thought my relative would admit his wrongdoing , instead he blamed it all on me ...
I just said " excuse me ? I was a little kid , you were not even my parent , you had no right to do that to me " , anyway when that happened I realised I will never be able to forgive those people because they would never admit they hurt me ...
In adulthood , ex friends have hurt me and since they would never admit their wrong doing , I had to remove them from my life as well .
I forgive when the other person expresses sincere apologies , but I believe it's better to distance oneself from people who have hurt you even if you have forgiven them ( to avoid being huirt again )

Have you ever worn a thong in the beach ?

 

[rmcrae]

(I'm sorry you went through all that, @frankifab . My "love and light" has no fucks to give when it comes to child abusers so I don't blame you for not forgiving yours. The only thing I'd be concerned about is if their abuse along with putting the blame on you after you confronted them about it would make you feel bitter, but clearly you're not and I'm happy for that. I truly believe that karma wins out in the end and one day they'll get their comeuppance. Whether it's in this life or the next. You're absolutely right in cutting them out of your life. You don't deserve to be revictimized all over again.)

Have you ever worn a thong in the beach ?

No, I've never worn a thong anywhere and I don't like the beach. All that sand and shit.

Have you ever had sex on the beach?

 

[PalacePaul]

No, that sounds hot but there's sand everywhere... awful!

Have you ever had sex in the forest? (yes)

 

[Danb258]

In a wood but not a forest

Have you ever had sex in a car? (yes with both sexes)

 

[Araucaria]

Yes, I've had sex in a car (I think I've answered this question in the thread a couple of times before).

Have you ever had sex on Mars? (my faux Dr. Seussian rhyme)

 

[The Loner]

No.

Have you ever been depressed?

 

[rmcrae]

Not clinically depressed, but there have been moments where I've been so down that it's a struggle to get out of bed and go on with my day. There was a period in my late teens to mid-20's where I would feel myself slip into a state of darkness I couldn't shake no matter how hard I tried. It felt like there was a weight on my chest and everything made me spiral internally. It would usually last a few days and then slowly dissipate.

Have you ever felt so much joy you thought your heart would burst?

 

[MusicMan321]

No

Have you ever been to a concert?

 

[frankifab]

Yes a few times , I saw a chilean band called Los Prisioneros at a free gig in my hometown when I was 19 , years later when I was 22 I saw Kylie Minogue's X2008 tour in Lima .
Truth to be told , I prefer Rave Festivals since they are long lasting and they're not as pricy as concerts ...I wish I could go to a rave in the future but maybe it's an old chapter I may not re visit again
Have you ever been to a big rave ?

 

[rmcrae]

No, but maybe you could take me to one, Frankie.

Have you ever had sex at a rave?

 

[Araucaria]

No, I've never had sex at a rave. I'm not even sure I've ever even been to a rave. Well, I do remember going to something like a rave before they were called raves when I was 18. Somebody asked me to go out with them to this place. It turned out to be in a field west of town, with a band and hundreds of kids in their teens being there. There was plenty of drinking and pot smoking, and amazingly orderly with no trouble whatsoever that I saw. Interestingly I saw no hint of security of any kind. I have no idea who organized it or anything. I can't remember clearly, but there may have been a nominal fee of $1 or something. I contrast that with the many organized events that I've seen, where there's always somebody causing trouble, with a bunch of cops and security people running around, and the atmosphere is tense.

Have you ever had sex in a men's room?

 

[rmcrae]

Nuh uh. I wanna get down in a clean space tyvm.

Have you ever felt like you were a disappointment to your parents/family?

 

[The Loner]

Oh yes. Always.

Have you?