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HELP please i had sex with

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biggebruv

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i am 18 and not out
i always had a slight sexual attraction to my sexy cousin when he stayed over a few times id see him in his boxers and shirtless id be imediatly hard i knew id never do it i could live with the fact that i was only ever gona be able to look and wish

my cousin was staying over the other night hes 21 and to my amazement he started talking about sex and how he liked it( he recently broke up with his girlfriend)
anyway while yaping on about sex he said did i ever have sex before i said no
he then said are you gay cause if you are thats ok with me.
i siad no i staight i just couldt tell him.

he then moved over put his hands down his pants and he said i know your gay cmon
i said im not
but he grabed my hands and put them down through his hard tight boxers onto his cock. i was trembling i didt know what to say but i went for it as he did.

eventually we ripped are clothes off together and he inserted his cock inside me and we did it.we were carefull he had a condom with him. i was so happy during the time we had when i woke up he was just running out the door.

only now i saw him today and hes completly ignored me and now im pissed with
he not answering my calls either.
and i dont have a clue how he knew i was gay which i didt even think about at the time.
now im worred about family problems ahead of me now
i dunno what to do
i feel disgusted with myself myself now for having sex with a family member
 
Well, I've had sex with my straight cousin too. But that was a long time ago. It's not OK for you guys to have sex until you just treat it as a game of two horny guys.

Actually, I never think about my cousin that way, because he's my relative, and he's straight. We did when we were both horny. And never talk about it afterwards. Besides he's a lousy fuck, there's nothing to talk about. So biggebruv, just think that he's your STRAIGHT cousin, and you're going to meet him frequently for a while, don't make it tough, and face the reality.
 
i dont want to be with him again
i just want to talk to him about what happens now

like when im gona see him at family events like weddings, xmas ,partys,
its gona be very awkward when the whole family is there
 
biggebruv said:
i dont want to be with him again
i just want to talk to him about what happens now

like when im gona see him at family events like weddings, xmas ,partys,
its gona be very awkward when the whole family is there
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It will be. I think you should just ignore it and move on.
 
Give it some time, then try to talk with him about what happened. Remember, he came on to you. He's obviously got a gay side to him too. He now knows you know this and may be freaking himself. Maybe he's wondering and worrying about what you'll say...and meeting up with you at those family events.

You two need to clear the air on this, but there's time. Give it a week or two, then insist on getting together to talk about this. Play it by ear, but it seems like one of the goals of that talk is a mutual pledge of discretion.

Good luck. Let us know what he says.
 
Just be normal like nothing ever happend I guess, because he seems freaked that it happend (although he initiated it!)

Man soory it turned out that way. Maybe he'll come around and you guys can become fool-around-buddies!
 
hmm i like that way he did it. im going to try that with my friend
 
biggebruv said:
i am 18 and not out
i always had a slight sexual attraction to my sexy cousin when he stayed over a few times id see him in his boxers and shirtless id be imediatly hard i knew id never do it i could live with the fact that i was only ever gona be able to look and wish

my cousin was staying over the other night hes 21 and to my amazement he started talking about sex and how he liked it( he recently broke up with his girlfriend)
anyway while yaping on about sex he said did i ever have sex before i said no
he then said are you gay cause if you are thats ok with me.
i siad no i staight i just couldt tell him.

he then moved over put his hands down his pants and he said i know your gay cmon
i said im not
but he grabed my hands and put them down through his hard tight boxers onto his cock. i was trembling i didt know what to say but i went for it as he did.

eventually we ripped are clothes off together and he inserted his cock inside me and we did it.we were carefull he had a condom with him. i was so happy during the time we had when i woke up he was just running out the door.

only now i saw him today and hes completly ignored me and now im pissed with
he not answering my calls either.
and i dont have a clue how he knew i was gay which i didt even think about at the time.
now im worred about family problems ahead of me now
i dunno what to do
i feel disgusted with myself myself now for having sex with a family member
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consider this a learning experience dude...my feeling is that your cousin could be bisexual; but, is denying it. then again i do not know him...the saying goes: it takes one to know one, that makes me believe he swings on our side as well.
ignore him and perhaps he would come around. maybe someday the two of you would bump into each in a gay bar. :gogirl:
 
maybe not the best advice but it's a full proof plan

now u start ignoring him... after he sees that he'll either:

a) want your attention again and talk to u.

b) continue to ingnore you but at least u will both be in the same place.

good luck
 
Thats the problem with labels. It tells people what we do not want them to know. Its not uncommon for young men to have some kind of sexual encounter while young. They grow up and thats it. Some chose to take up a gay lifestyle, and others choose not to be that envolved. Next week will be better.
 
Maybe he felt like he had tendencies and wanted to try it with another guy. Somehow he knew you were gay and thought it would be a way to experiment. He initiated it and apparently freaked or is embarrassed. Just go about your business and see what happens. He may need some time to process it.
 
The cousin is freaked -- and, yet, he's the one that initiated the sex. I'd say just give it some time. But in reality, I wouldn't bet on things ever being the same again. One thing that goes on in families where it concerns aunts, uncles, cousins: people lose contact with another.
 
This isn't something that's just going to go away. If you're a "family person," you've got to say something. (Otherwise BOTH of you are gonna be miserable)

I wouldn't let him avoid you. Don't corner him, but do something. Ask him what the hell HE was thinking! He's the one who's struggling with something.
 
jaxon29 said:
Maybe he felt like he had tendencies and wanted to try it with another guy. Somehow he knew you were gay and thought it would be a way to experiment. He initiated it and apparently freaked or is embarrassed. Just go about your business and see what happens. He may need some time to process it.
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Ditto


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You did it, he did it. You both did it. Maybe it wasn't the best choice, but there's no undoing it. So just accept that you both did it, you probably won't again in the future and he probably won't want to talk about it.

Is it the worst thing you could have ever done in the world? Definitely not. Are you the only one? Definitely not.

So let it slide as just one of those things and don't approach him unless he wants to talk about it. He's probably just as freaked out as you. If you want to, though, just send him an email telling him that it's cool and that it happened and doesn't have to ever happen again since it made the two of you uncomfortable.
 
thanks for your advice guys
i went around to his last night after i could get hold of him by phone or text
and it did,t go well at all because i could,t even get in the door. he just said go away i dont wana talk .
i said we have to talk sometime for christ sake you cant ignore me forever
he just shut the door on me.

i just walked away dissapointed in him
id like to talk about this to him but its like hes refuseing to except it happened
i dunno i just have to talk about things and make it ok between us thats the way i feel.
 
As trite as it sounds - be patient. You both are pretty freaked about the whole thing but you can't put the shit back into the horse - not now, not ever. All you can do is "clean it up."

This is bothering you a lot and the temptation is to "clean it up" now. If you force it now, you might not get the best result in the long run. Give him a few days, at least, to deal with this. You can communicate that you want things to be "ok" between you, just don't insist on a response right now. Maybe when he's calmed down, he'll be able to think straight (no pun intended) and discuss it more rationally.
 
Everyone's advice about letting this cool down is correct. You're forcing an issue that he perhaps does not want to deal with right now. Maybe he has regrets and maybe he thinks you're now "in love" and that you're now stalking him. It looks that way to the objective eye.

You need to leave things alone - and hopefully things will come around to discussing rationally.

But if you do want closure on the situation NOW - why not write him an email or letter and just leave it for him to read or mail/email it. That way it is possible that he will read it. No guarantee that he will, but at least you know YOU made an effort and then just drop it - he'll respond if he has something to say. My advice is to make it as short as possible and don't be too detailed (just mention "what happened between us") - end the note with: "If you are ever ready to talk about it, just let me know."
 
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