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HELP please i had sex with

This is rape. Call the police or a rape crisis center if you don't feel comfortable calling the police. No means no, if at anytime the one person wants it to stop, it must stop. You need to talk to someone and you should report it. You won't be the first person he has done this to and you won't be the last. Our prayers are will you and remember, you did NOTHING wrong.
 
I agree.
That was not a proper talk. You must make it clear where is this going .
You must make him understand how you feel about this and get to know what 's on his mind since neither of you are very experienced.

Sounds like a soap opera to me...(no offense)

It's kinda hot though.
 
OMG.
I posted the last one just after reading the 1st page.
But now...well I had a feeling you would lose control of this and it happened!
Just don't be depressed and do what others said ----call a rape crisis center or just ask for any kind of professional help.
If you can't deal with the problem on your own it's definitely the right choice to ask for help. If you don't do something I feel that he's gonna lead you astray even more and it may end up becoming a real crisis!
 
Wow, you got raped by a psychopath.

It's time to confess your sexuality with your family because now the law has to get involved.

Seriously. You have to put your cousin away.
 
its been a while since i posted on this but i might well tell whats been happing
i think its good for me to write on here about whats happening

ive dropped college i just cant continue it anymore after whats happened.
i have not seen my cousin since what happened to me. i hope i dont see him ever again.

i was walking down a corrider the other day and i started breathing heavy and my chest was feeling like it was tighting up i think it was a panic attack
i just felt awful i dont think i can explain it.

ther was someone walking behind me and i think thats wat caused it. i just got so scared weird i know.
 
Yeah I remember Tim Robins said in his 2004 Oscar acceptance speech (he played a role that's been troubled by an abuse experience from his childhood) that it was very very important those people who suffered abuse or violence (perhaps your case is not that bad) to reach out for help and couseling....there's no shame or weakness in it and it's probably the strongest thing you could do to protect yourself. (*8*)
 
Also, it sounds like you have PTSD from what you last said. You should REALLY talk to someone about this, even if it is just a therapist, you really need to talk to someone - it WILL help A LOT. You definitely can't keep something like this bottled up.
 
I'm so sorry about what has happened to you. This is more than any person can handle on their own. Please get some professional help. Without it I fear you will have issues for a long time to come. Remember, you're not the first person to have sex with a cousin and the counselors are use to dealing with issues like that. The fact that he's your cousin doesn't give him the right to rape you.
 
I had not come back to this thread since my first post and I was shocked to see what had transpired since. I am very sorry this has happened to you and your cousin indeed needs to pay for what he did. In your shoes I don't care if he was family, he would have paid for his mistake.

You're not going to resolve this and still remain in the closet .. that you have to know. But now you have to decide what is more important to you .. keeping this all a secret or sacrificing the closet for the sake of justice and having him pay for traumatizing you. There is no option as I see it: keeping this all bottled inside will only poison you and ruin your life by dictating negative actions .. case in point: it has already begun to manifest itself by your dropping out of college. Seeking justice and putting him away will also bring you some closure.

You also need professional help and I would not delay any more in getting that. JUB is a great place for support but in this case you need help that is far beyond what we can provide for you. However, please keep us posted on what's going on with you. We are many that are concerned.

(*8*)
 
hey guys.
eem well life is sorta ok i dunno i cant really explain it without ramblein on.

i talked to one of those phonelines thinngys i found it really emotional and i hung up. i will try it again
i ve been out with friends clubbin an drinkin again which is good back to me old self almost.

its just there was a family wedding there just last week and he was there i couldt even look at him i was a nervous wreck. we went back to the one of the familys houses after .

i went the toliet upstairs and my cousin dragged me into one of the rooms i was about to start shouting but he covered my mouth and then told me to shut up
he start talking about how he was straight and that he is sorry about that night i looked on in disbelief i said your sorry you raped me you bastard he looked at me and said dont you fuckin dare tell anyone that i didt rape you, did you tell anyone

i said just leave me alone and pushed him agaisnt a wall i had power over him i could tell he was a bit drunk so i went for it i said your messed up in the head your sick you made my life misarble and kneed him in the balls he just layed there.
i walked out
i walked down to my family told them i was going home and darren was sick upstairs hes in a really bad way.

when i got home i cryed i just couldt help it it still haunted me that he might try an get me back 2moro or whenever and i cant face telling my family its hard.
 
It was a mistake, but you'll get through it somehow. Sexual attraction can drive people to do things they wouldn't normally do. It sucks that he's ignoring you and not returing your calls. To me, that's immature of him, no matter how nervous or scared he might be. I fully understand what you're going through. Some guy that I thought had the same feelings that I had for him is kind of blowing me off. You'll be okay man. Just put him out of your mind. And when you say "family problems," do you think that your cousin might tell someone about your sexual experience?
 
Bruv, that was powerful. Wow, you are so awesome, I understand you need to take a breath or two. I am so proud of you that you took your power back from him, that was incredibly brave and very important to your well being.:kiss: :kiss: :kiss: :kiss: :kiss:
I just want you to know that I am in awe of you. You rock!
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dont feel disgusted ,i used to give my brother blowjobs and i also had sex with my cousin.
its nthg you should feel bad for.
and probably your cousin just got scared cos he had sex with you,i think he doesnt know how to bahave.dont worry it will be better soon.

gay sex between relatves is not bad.
 
hey guys finally been ringing the suport lines talking bout it all the time not easy but better dan nothing contact with HIM has been non exsistant thank god

i met a guy in a club d other nite i seen him a few times down der 20 he was he was so sexy and aww amazing he asked me bak te his house his parents wer away i went bak. he said he was not out yet but neither am i so we were up all night in his he was very sweet an gentle with me we did hav amazing sex . i was nervous at first(I EVEN GOT MY FRIEND TE KNOCK ROUNDTE THE HOUSE AT 2.30) but i had te just forget about the past i felt i would nvr move on if i didt do this so i just fucking went for it an i took a big risk i know.

family issues will be der thou when dey come around ill try an deal with them but im dreading it REALLY REALLY AM

des past few weeks have been horrible for me but im going on holidays in a few weeks got a gud job recently college was abandoned thou.
im just gonna try an look forward to the future now and stop thinkin bout the past
thanks for all your advice guys youve been very helpful
 
Man, it's fantastic that you have managed to move on. Full steam ahead and don't look back. Good luck to you in the future.

Probably not much help but I wanted to say something hopefully supportive.
 
biggebruv said:
hey guys finally been ringing the suport lines talking bout it all the time not easy but better dan nothing contact with HIM has been non exsistant thank god

i met a guy in a club d other nite i seen him a few times down der 20 he was he was so sexy and aww amazing he asked me bak te his house his parents wer away i went bak. he said he was not out yet but neither am i so we were up all night in his he was very sweet an gentle with me we did hav amazing sex . i was nervous at first(I EVEN GOT MY FRIEND TE KNOCK ROUNDTE THE HOUSE AT 2.30) but i had te just forget about the past i felt i would nvr move on if i didt do this so i just fucking went for it an i took a big risk i know.

family issues will be der thou when dey come around ill try an deal with them but im dreading it REALLY REALLY AM

des past few weeks have been horrible for me but im going on holidays in a few weeks got a gud job recently college was abandoned thou.
im just gonna try an look forward to the future now and stop thinkin bout the past
thanks for all your advice guys youve been very helpful
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It sounds like you're working on dealing with the past as well as creating a future. Hopefully you can get back to college some day.

Good luck to you!
 
I feel so sorry for you. I hope you can get through this. I sort of know what you're going through because I've been through something like this.

PS Your story seems like a real life soap opera, a really hot one, that turned nasty. I really do hope things will go well, awww.
 
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