Homosexuality - What the fuck?

[iwantbig]

How about this one .
IGNORANT , KNOW IT ALL , WITH NO EXPERIENCE WANTS TO TELL GAY COMMUNITY ALL ABOUT HOW DISGUSTING THEY ARE !

 

[SLOPPYSECONDS]

How about this one .
IGNORANT , KNOW IT ALL , WITH NO EXPERIENCE WANTS TO TELL GAY COMMUNITY ALL ABOUT HOW DISGUSTING THEY ARE !

gons read againnn

all he doins is debatins nothin do ( gay or community) two words what a got lot work ta do anyway

since world up it fanny no can figure out with out nanny debatin< is a da problem cause all rest is not new

debate is strange custom a ways it be what stalk it prey ans lot get kill in da way ans folk no idea what game in play

but it what a go world ova of much ceremony so Go figure!

ans HI INTERNET cum visit this NICE PLACE it FULL OF SWEETYSSSSSSS!!!!!!! or whateva is correct word what fit ya shoes SOME A ONE a goin debate this aint itheyyy?

one day million folk cans ask all same question same time ans someone can go NO YES Maybe WOrng is we drowin yet?

HOMO!!!!!!!!!!!!!! HO and MO they so happy!



exucse ma thinkin ans hope ya enjoyin ya HO ans MOS what neva a thinkin until ya hads ta go invent da wheel? didnt ya!!!!!!!



oops

 

[Homothug]

I'm sure you guys have heard it all before, but I need to vent my spleen nevertheless -- why homosexuality sucks on a personal level; some random thoughts on the matter. *enters rambling mode*

First off, I'm gay, twenty-eight years old, and still a virgin. In my view there is nothing wrong with me, I never put much of an effort in socializing and meeting other people, and the whole gay culture just put me off.

The notion of having sex with another guy didn't even register with me until I started to genuinely look at gay porn. I was always drawn to the male physique (on television and not in real life) but never really found it to be desirable up-close and in-person. I can't even say that I was attracted to specific male actors. I just liked the idea of an athletic man with charm and charisma, (e.g. Bond or Indiana Jones) especially when they were in a tumultuous relationship with a woman.

It took me some time to grow out of this phase - moving past my fancy and admiration for the male physique, to actually seeing them having sex with one-and-other in downloaded gay porn. Make note, 'them', I never really had the urge to express myself sexually. Even in my sexual fantasies I never really used myself as one of the participants.

Anyway, since last year I've finally started to want to have the urge to have relations with another man, but I've gone so long without sex that I've begun to realize that I don't even need it at this point, I just want the company. To go out and do stuff, e.g. restaurants, museums, nature walks, whatever. But a relationship tends to be built on more than companionship, sex is also required.

But from what I've seen, when gay men come together, misfortune follows. HIV anyone? I mean, goddamn. And how about all the disgusting sexual practices that seem to thrive in the gay community?

I mean what the fuck is up with rimming? Borderline coprophilia anyone? Or what about anal sex? Even in xtube videos the participants don't look like they're enjoying themselves, and these are home movies. As if it's some sort of mass-delusion on the part of gay men world-wide that they should express their delight for anal sex, even though it sucks. Someone described it once as sticking your cock into pumpkin innards. Yum. And the long-term effects of anal sex aren't great either, anal incontinence, to the point where you're forced to wear a diaper when you're older. I mean, who would put themselves through that? I resent the fact that I'm even forced to talk about an anus when it comes to gay sex. I'm comfortable with my anus the way it is, and I don't feel to need to add another activity to my asshole.

And then of course there is the blowjob. Teeth, throat and tongue. Just seems like an ordeal. And I have an overactive gag reflex as well. So I won't be giving it either, not unless they want their cock dissolved by stomach acids. haha

Having said the above, I do want to share my life with another man. I want to be able to rely on someone else, and them on me. I want to sleep together in the same bed, and do stuff together.

So what are your thoughts on the matter? Are there guys here that don't have anal sex? What's it like in your country to be gay?

Don't want to be mean but if you're not pleasing you man or partner sexually you're going to end up alone or being cheating on, and if you're okay with that then it won't matter, but if you don't want that don't limit your self to the world you might actually enjoy it.


Again I don't want to seem mean but an uptight gay male that has a mentality of an 18 year old chistian girl who is sheltered is not attractive period.

 

[SLOPPYSECONDS]

yeah , made a suggestion like that a while back but he wants to argue .

sorry forget KOOL! think it good suggestins

pity it media no learn titles do much not nice thangs under um when title not in it

 

[arpeggi]

What eventually stirred you to take the jump into the unknown?

Opportunity. I actually dated a few guys over several months without ever having intercourse. I met a lot of great guys, but it just never happened. There were many fantastic intimate moments without ever having sex. Then I started a relationship with someone as inexperienced as I was. So we both took it slow and did what we were comfortable doing, gradually trying more. Actually, we were together a month before even trying anal sex. I came to a point where I both wanted to do it very much but also just wanted to get it over with. I knew he would never take the initiative, so I had to instigate it. I did my research and spoke with many guys about how to do it most comfortably when you start, about being clean and safe. Once we started it, we both loved it. We helped each other through a crucial phase, learned a lot, and had a great time doing it, for the entire summer.

 

[G-Lexington]

>>>this one has a chronic case of verbal diareaha...

...says the guy who posted more than the times in a row in this thread, on at least two occasions.

Lex

 

[Bent-On]

Don't want to be mean but if you're not pleasing you man or partner sexually you're going to end up alone or being cheating on, and if you're okay with that then it won't matter, but if you don't want that don't limit your self to the world you might actually enjoy it.


Again I don't want to seem mean but an uptight gay male that has a mentality of an 18 year old chistian girl who is sheltered is not attractive period.

That's a valid point, in the first paragraph, as for the second, I don't consider myself 'uptight', just 'matter-of-fact'.

Yes and that is still for the purpose of other people to see. How about you respond to the rest of what I said?

Your comment about gay porn and seeing actors 'enjoy' their anal penetration? Well, I've seen pay-for-gay studs moan out of 'pleasure' as well, right up to the point where they were handed their cheques.

As for your personal experience, I can not speak on such matters. I'll have to take your word for it.

Well, you might start by assuming that YOU're the one who needs to learn. There's nothing wrong with pleading ignorance, but it's another thing to state it as a position, which your first post did in rather bold type.

Lex

I'm more than willing to acknowledge the fact that I have a lot to learn about dating. I never claimed otherwise. And the intro post was mostly about my aversion to certain sexual practices based on what I've read.

Its a Ball! The shit Madonna stole in the 80's, Vogue, Dramatics!

The scene wasn't in the vid. lol Anyway, it's a funny gif.

Opportunity. I actually dated a few guys over several months without ever having intercourse. I met a lot of great guys, but it just never happened. There were many fantastic intimate moments without ever having sex. Then I started a relationship with someone as inexperienced as I was. So we both took it slow and did what we were comfortable doing, gradually trying more. Actually, we were together a month before even trying anal sex. I came to a point where I both wanted to do it very much but also just wanted to get it over with. I knew he would never take the initiative, so I had to instigate it. I did my research and spoke with many guys about how to do it most comfortably when you start, about being clean and safe. Once we started it, we both loved it. We helped each other through a crucial phase, learned a lot, and had a great time doing it, for the entire summer.

Did you really enjoy it though? Or was it just the excitement the first time around?

This wasn't directed towards me but I am going to give my take anyway. I found everything an upside about being gay. I met the most wonderful handsome guy I had ever known when I was 17 and spent close to 35yrs. with him. They were the most magical and wonderful years a human being could ask for, gay or straight. I wouldn't change any of it, not even to be straight given the choice. I think if you get yourself out there and happen to fall in love your whole perspective will change. You just appear to be giving your rendition of being gay and gay sex. Believe me, if you fall head over heels in love with a guy, and he feels the same way, and treats you like you are the most important thing to him in the universe, you will see how wonderful it truly can be. Just saying and good luck.

When I read stories like this I always need to know where they met the other guy.

 

[ibill1]

When I read stories like this I always need to know where they met the other guy. [/quote]

I met him my first weekend in college at a floor "get to know you party" in my dorm. Actually, I walked in, saw him sitting on the other side of the room, and fell in love at first sight. I made my way over there and struck up a conversation with him and knew, somehow, even at 17, that I was going to spend the rest of my life with him. Sounds odd for a 17 yr. old but there you go. We spent the entire night talking and were inseperable after that, well, at least for the next 33+ years. It happens.

 

[Bent-On]

Well you had a better time in college than I did apparently. Sex with another man was the last thing on my mind; too many personal issues to deal with from my high school days.

 

[Telstra]

Well you had a better time in college than I did apparently. Sex with another man was the last thing on my mind; too many personal issues to deal with from my high school days.

some people only start having sex in their 40s.
Before that, they avoid having any sexual relationship with both males and females.
They concentrate on something else like jobs, careers ... etc.


So for you, it is only getting better and better with age.

 

[iwantbig]

>>>this one has a chronic case of verbal diareaha...

...says the guy who posted more than the times in a row in this thread, on at least two occasions.

Lex

Because i submit reply while i'm typing ( about stuff that i know what i'm talking about )
, is the the problem the number of posts or the content ?

 

[iwantbig]

big difference between speaking and speaking shit !

 

[WillMc88]

Your comment about gay porn and seeing actors 'enjoy' their anal penetration? Well, I've seen pay-for-gay studs moan out of 'pleasure' as well, right up to the point where they were handed their cheques.

You say you've seen porn in which the bottom doesn't enjoy it. I say I've seen porn in which the bottom enjoys it greatly. If my point is not valid then yours is not either, dear.

Are you insinuating that all or even the majority of gay porn actors are 'faking' pleasure while bottoming? If you are, then there isn't much I can do to fix your delusion. If not, then you're simply cherry-picking the porn that you've seen where the bottom wasn't into it.

Your initial point was that an anal orgasm is a 'myth.' Remember, those were your words. I've presented to you first-hand experience as well as instances in porn showing that it does indeed exist. Would you like to concede the point that you're wrong now?

As for your personal experience, I can not speak on such matters. I'll have to take your word for it.

Perhaps you should get some before you presume to know what you're talking about.

 

[Telstra]

this thread reminds me of this

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