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How comfortable are you with YOUR homosexuality?

How comfortable are you with YOUR homosexuality?

  • EXTREMELY comfortable

    Votes: 50 38.5%

  • MOSTLY comfortable

    Votes: 38 29.2%

  • SOMEWHAT comfortable

    Votes: 24 18.5%

  • NOT AT ALL!!!

    Votes: 18 13.8%
  • Total voters
    130
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How comfortable are you with your own homosexuality?

How much do or don't you struggle with your homosexuality?

I'm mostly comfortable with my homosexuality most of the time.

(I hope this poll hasn't been done before)
 
I'm completely out, have no problem telling people that engage me in the right conversations that i'm gay, I show up at pride when it's interesting, I date openly... bla bla bla.

I'm by no means Super Gay, but it took a lot of work to love that part of me, but now that I do, i'm set.
 
MoufOfKhaos said:
I'm completely out, have no problem telling people that engage me in the right conversations that i'm gay, I show up at pride when it's interesting, I date openly... bla bla bla.

I'm by no means Super Gay, but it took a lot of work to love that part of me, but now that I do, i'm set.
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The major reason that I'm out is that I act very gay (queeny, nelly) and there's no way on earth I could hide my homosexuality.....so I'm forced to deal with it.

If I was one of those gay who can act straight I wouldn't tell anyone.

My ex boyfriend was one of those gays that if you lived with him for a couple of years , you would NEVER suspect he's gay, he comes out to everyone he sees in his daily life, almost.

I used to be so jealous of that . Here I am not wanting people to know and I have no choice because I act sooooooo gay. And he acts soooooooo straight people would never suspect......and he comes out to everyone he see's. #-o
 
I'm as comfortable as whatever the environment I'm in at the given time.
 
I've always been comfortable. The only struggling I've endured relating to my homosexuality were the years wondering "when the fuck am I gonna nail a guy?"

MoePhoenix7 said:
It gets tight and itchy at times but I suppose for the most part I'm comfortable with my sexuality.
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You know, there's a cream for that.
 
Growing up I was EXTREMELY comfortable with my homosexuality.

I never minded the teasing or anything.

As an adult being gay became an unwanted distraction but I was still mostly comfortable with it.

I really got "sensitive" about being gay around age 30 (Im 36 now) when I came out to my best straight male friend of 15 years. He dropped me like a hot potatoe. After that I got more sensitive to gay jokes and stuff like that.

Now I'm still mostly comfortable with being gay.
 
<------Ok this is avatar pic of me. I'm a very private person and don't really like my pic up.

But I'll leave it up for a few days.
 
I'm comfortable with my sexuality within myself except for one point, I would like to start a family one day, but its not essential. But the biological urge to spread offspring and ruin their lives with bad parenting is urging within.

Edit: and Larrying keep the photo up, your cute ;) its provides us with some eye candy.
 
Ok I'm gonna shamelessly hijack my own thread to say hello to you guys.

This video and avatar will only be up for a few days so enjoy.
 
Queen Amidala will return in few days.

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I can't believe no one has done a poll like this one befor.

I searched many different phrases and to my astonishment , and to the best of my knowledge, no one has done a poll like this before.

(I'd like to say hi to everyone in JUB land *waves*)
 
I'm comfortable within myself about it, but I honestly don't like discussing it with other people. I feel like that feeling of being uncomfortable about sexuality is a personal trait that I'd have anyway, even if I was straight.
 
I love being gay. Everyday. My "struggle" with it lasted about half a day when I was 15.

I've had some trouble with some things along the way, like first coming out, but I am and always have been incredibly comfortable with it.
 
I suppose I'm somewhat comfortable with it, I've known for quite a while that it's just how my cards we're dealt so on that front it's not an issue and seeing as I probably won't be dating anyone for quite some time I don't have any need to "come out", so it's really a non issue for me right now.
 
larryng said:
The major reason that I'm out is that I act very gay (queeny, nelly) and there's no way on earth I could hide my homosexuality.....so I'm forced to deal with it.

If I was one of those gay who can act straight I wouldn't tell anyone.

My ex boyfriend was one of those gays that if you lived with him for a couple of years , you would NEVER suspect he's gay, he comes out to everyone he sees in his daily life, almost.

I used to be so jealous of that . Here I am not wanting people to know and I have no choice because I act sooooooo gay. And he acts soooooooo straight people would never suspect......and he comes out to everyone he see's. #-o
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I'm sorry, but i'm very bothered by this.

What do you mean, act straight? Does he desire to leave "the gay life" behind, marry a chick, start a family, pop some babies out? Is he into tanning and fist pumping, bringing a couple of chicks home and fucking in a jacuzzi? Is he on the extreme side; a homophobe, a bible thumper that believes that one misquoted line in leviticus? Because that all entails "acting straight".

By extension, what do you mean, act gay? Are you twisting it out when you walk? Wearing pastel scarfs, argyle and dress shoes everywhere, every day? Concerned about the latest high end got it at the mall fashions? Are you able to vogue, bring it to the ball at a moments' notice? On the extremes, do you get a discount when you go to the bath houses; do they know you by name? I know i'm using stereotypes here that are and are not outdated, but I'm 26 and still don't know what "acting gay" is other than being attracted to, fucking and dating men.

Or do you mean he's naturally masculine and one of those guys you wouldn't suspect to be gay? And that you're naturally feminine (or exaggerating your subtle femininity) and people will assume you to be gay?

Sounds like your ex has real strength, and that you have some growing up to do.

I know not everyone is comfortable and that's fine, but damn man.
 
Every time one of these type questions come around, I think of Sean Kennedy who was murdered for being openly gay. This happened right here in the town in which I live a few years ago.

The son-of-a bitch that murdered him should have rotted in prison for his murder. Instead, he only served eight months. There was no justice served here.

So, am I comfortable about my homosexuality being known publicly, "HELL NO!"

Here is a picture of Sean. He was 20 years old when he was murdered.

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