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How did you meet your BF?

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This sounds like a fun topic to me...since I'm single and looking, I thought I'd raise the question to those of you in happy relationships...how did you meet your significant other? Got any interesting/strange/funny/romantic stories to tell? Let's share! :-)
 
Found him using a gay site where people can view profiles and write emails, etc. Was viewing things one evening and saw his, sent an email and began corresponding back and forth, then finally started IM'ing.

We talked on the phone and IM'd for a couple of months. When we IM'd we would be on line for hours at a time. Talked about all sorts of subjects and covered a lot of territory about our thoughts on just about every subject you could imagine.

Finally I had to go to Anchorage to do some things that were going to require a few days to do it all and made a date to link up. When the door was opened, it was a pleasant surprise for both of us and we hit it right off. Spent the next few days getting to know each other and yes engaged in sexual activity. There were dinners, lunches and just time together.

From that time we spent more time on the phone and IM'ing but also I found one excuse or another to go into town. He in turned came out to visit where I live and things kept getting more and more involved. Finally we moved in together and it has been great and improving all the time.

What is most wonderful is we have been more and more open with each other and talk about anything that comes between us in any way. Some of it can be rather tense or difficult, but we made a commitment to each other to be open and honest, and we are.

All I can say is it keeps getting better and better and I do love this man.
 
I met my first buff at the age of 18. That was of course, via classifieds, since there was no web in those days and no one even suspected, anything of the kind was ever going to happen.

Then, the geography got in and we had to part. He introduced me to a guy, he was dating afterwards, but that dude, switched sides and decided, he wanted to be with me rather than with him. Hey, I agreed. (Talk bout a twink drama...)

A guy, I met while cruising introduced me to his friend (not BF) and the two of us clicked immediately. Or so we thought for the next two years...

After that, I went on playing the field. (I am not complaining or anything...)

The next dude came by via local classifieds, too.

The web provided for a number of fleeting romances that all dissolved into a big void.

I have never been the dude to give up on anything easily, so I kept on trying.

A local web site with a few profiles turned out to be my good luck. That's where I met my BF. Almost 5 years ago.

So, yeah. Everything works, if you show some persistence and if you get some good luck on the way.

SC
 
We met on Yahoo personals. We e-mailed back & forth for about a week then we set up a meeting at a coffee house & talked for about 2hrs.Then it got real busy in there so he asked me back to his house where we could talk more in private.When we got back to his place we talked for another hr.and set some guidelines for our relationship,The 1st and major one was No sex for any kind until we got to know each other a lot better. that went on for about 6 dates, we have been together now for 2 yrs now & living together for the last yr. We are a perfect match for each other.On that first night night that we met we found out that we lived 4 blocks apart on parallel streets & 4 houses in form the same main street. We are so compatable it was a match made in the stars!!
 
I find it interesting how (almost) everyone has said that they met online. I guess that's the technology age for you, but I wonder if you ask straight people the same question if the answer would sway the other way... my siblings all met their others through friends or in school.

I too met my bf online... but I had a really good friend who also happened to be working with him at the same time so I made sure she put in a good word for me.

We've been together over 2 years now with no signs of stopping...
 
I met mine at a Pot Luck Dinner for a Gay's and Lesbian Sports Group in Toronto. He was 10 years younger than I so I wasn't interested in him but because he was so shy and stressed out in crowds I told him to hang around with me and he's feel alright. He did most of the night and when he left the party he came over and gave me his card and said he would like to see me again.
about a week later I was sorting through some junk at home and came across his card. I though about how rude I had been for not getting back to him, so I thought I'd give him a call to tell him I appreciated his interest but I was too old for him but thanks etc.......
So he answers the phone and says he had been hoping I'd call and before I get to say anything he asks me to go out for dinner and a movie. So I agree to go out as I was kind of caught off guard. The rest is History, we have been together for 8 years.
 
there have been two - we say media naranjas - in my life. i met the first in a turco (a bath) - not even vaguely thinking of a relationship in my life. it grew from there, unlike the others i had 'had' in the baths. we were together over 25 years.
the second - again, no thought of relationship - had a clasificado in the paper, and i responded, since we were both looking for fuck buddies. unlike the others, somehow we went further, and finally dated for 6 months and started to live together on new years 1996 - or just over 11 years now. both times i wasn't looking for anybody, and i was blessed by this accident in my life
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All the boyfriends I've had I've met through friends or randomly in person. I've never (and WOULD never) try to establish a relationship with someone online. (Although, I have LOTS of friends who are in relationships with guys they met online and are truly happy, I'm not saying there's anything wrong with it... it's just kind of weird to me personally). I met the first guy I ever dated in one of my classes. I accidentally slammed the door in his face and apologized about a thousand times. The rest is history :) (Although we're obviously not together still, but we're very good friends).
 
When I started coming out years ago, it turned out some friends were in the same boat as me.

I've been lucky, so far; the men I've dated have been friends long before we started seeing each other. And we remain friends after the split.
 
at the local city council meetings

he'd step out for a smoke and so did I
 
A previous job. He was a new hire and was, quite obviously, gay. We started talking, going to dinner, watching Scooby Doo until the sun came up on the weekends...then I found out he had a BF already.

I laid down the law right before Thanksgiving 2005 that I wouldn't be the other guy. He eventually found the gumption to break up with the complete lying/cheating louse and it's been bliss ever since.

Okay, maybe not bliss and sometimes I wanna strangle him... :)
 
Richardodessa said:
I met mine at a Pot Luck Dinner for a Gay's and Lesbian Sports Group in Toronto. He was 10 years younger than I so I wasn't interested in him but because he was so shy and stressed out in crowds I told him to hang around with me and he's feel alright. He did most of the night and when he left the party he came over and gave me his card and said he would like to see me again.
about a week later I was sorting through some junk at home and came across his card. I though about how rude I had been for not getting back to him, so I thought I'd give him a call to tell him I appreciated his interest but I was too old for him but thanks etc.......
So he answers the phone and says he had been hoping I'd call and before I get to say anything he asks me to go out for dinner and a movie. So I agree to go out as I was kind of caught off guard. The rest is History, we have been together for 8 years.
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What sports group in Toronto? I only been to a queer youth group 3 times and it was a complete waste of time... I think a rec sports group will be better hopefully.

On the subject of dating a guy with age gap, I was not nearly as lucky as you 2 and I don't even want to talk about it:( ... Funny when I tried to be more open minded about this age thing, someone less open minded came along.
 
Out and Out in Toronto, cross country skiing, baseball, nude swimming, hiking or just going for walks downtown and to restaurants and that sort of thing. Great Group, highly reccommended.
 
Our school library. I caught him staring at me and well, it jsut took off from there
 
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