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How do JUBbers generally view you, and how do you view yourself

People perception are don't matter, it's about how you carry yourself.
 
What's of paramount importance to me is how I view other JUBbers.
 
dpnice said:
In starting this thread you could have had the courtesy of answering your own question first before we all threw in our personal opinions.
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I believe he did with the two video clips posted.
 
How do JUBbers generally view you: does it really matter?

how do you view yourself: kind-hearted soul.
 
I'm sure they think I'm fantastic and that my hair looks good....
 
I don't know. Some dislike me, some do for different reasons? How I view myself depends on the day.
 
as a font of information... [-X ok, maybe that's a little exaggerated. I really have no idea, some seem to receive me, I have had a few
that seemed to want to pick a fight, I see myself as another dude plodding through this life, making the best of what I have.*|*
 
JUBbers view me as miserable and lonely. Also bitter towards relationships and "standing in my own way" when it comes to them. Emotionally repressed. Incapable of love. Etc.

They're only right on the miserable part. I struggle with depression, but it comes from self image and career woes. Feeling like there's no purpose in life.

I'm a loner, but never upset about that. I've never felt bad about being single. I absolutely love seeing people in happy relationships and the concept of love. I just don't think it's something that people should feel they have to have to be happy. It's more of an option. If you meet the right guy, awesome. If you don't, awesome. I'm also not being selfish by not wanting to date guys I've hooked up with. If I had feelings for them, I'd go for it. But it seems I'll always be the bad guy for not wanting to be in a relationship with a guy I'm just not that into. It is what it is. I'm definitely a much bigger romantic than most here would ever peg me for, but to me romance is something you give to someone who has your heart--not just any attractive guy that returns your calls.

90% of my arguments on this board stem from that.
 
TheLoveableLoner said:
I'm a loner, but never upset about that. I've never felt bad about being single. I absolutely love seeing people in happy relationships and the concept of love. I just don't think it's something that people should feel they have to have to be happy. It's more of an option. If you meet the right guy, awesome. If you don't, awesome. I'm also not being selfish by not wanting to date guys I've hooked up with. If I had feelings for them, I'd go for it. But it seems I'll always be the bad guy for not wanting to be in a relationship with a guy I'm just not that into. It is what it is. I'm definitely a much bigger romantic than most here would ever peg me for, but to me romance is something you give to someone who has your heart--not just any attractive guy that returns your calls.

90% of my arguments on this board stem from that.
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You have described me word for word with that: and many other people too, in and out of this forum :cool:
 
I see myself as basically a worn out old man who's also dull & boring, plus pretty much invisible.
I also see myself as ending up single forever, and as atleast partly asexual.
I don't really see being single as a bad thing (same for any asexual feelings)

No idea how others would view me, but I'd assume as kindof a freak & as pathetically single/alone :lol:
 
The first post comment I received here was "Go FUCK yourself"..........people have warmed to me considerably since then.......(!)
 
I am probably seen as boring because I used to share about my children and that is of no interest to most. I stopped sharing about my family life because so many made it clear that it was dull. Now I am mostly invisible. I am probably seen as a goody two shoes, as well.

I see myself as someone who is fascinated by others and what makes them tick. I'm always willing to help because I genuinely care about others.
 
I have no real idea how other Jubbers view me ... and, to be honest, I don't really care.
I'm just some guy who's been here for a decade or so posting irrelevant shite.

But I pretty much ran out of things to say years ago, and I certainly no longer share anything personal anywhere online.

I think I used to be a lot more snidey, sarcastic, bitchy, and opinionated ... and ocassionally humourous ... in the past. These days I really don't care enough about anything to get worked up over it.

:-)
 
In the Kiwi vernacular (im not even sure thats how you spell that word) my answer is Buggered if I know.
 
I am certain that the way members view my participation here is totally different from the impression I think I am giving; but then isn't that always the case when you are communicating with an unknown faceless person on the Internet.

I try to be honest, loyal, understanding, sympathetic and generous with the occasional outburst of controlled anger when I feel someone has gone too far in aggressing another member.

I try to remain a gentlemen but obviously, according to some of the comments I have had, not every member sees me in that light.
 
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