How do you find Str8 Acting Gay Men?

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Hi hello kinda new here. I have this estrange feeling to those gays who are acting, talking feminine, who also cross dress. I mean that's so redundant, the whole world knows your gay, and yet you need to dress, act, talk exceeding women. Thus, i find those gay men who acts, talk, behave, think masculine yet they are comfortable with their sexual preference Hot and Attractive, just like those starred in pornos who have great masculine body, voice, behaviour, yet fucking another like him. (How do they do that?) Big question is, how do i really smell that they are? Unless i will really get to know him personally. Any other clues?

I find it so funny that you can believe that only the ones who act masculine are comfortable with themselves. Obviously, this works on a case by case basis, but I'd be willing to bet that more of the gay guys who talk and act feminine in public are more comfortable with themselvese than the ones who seem masculine.

I can't believe another gay guy is actually forgetting the fact that many feminine acting guys just ARE that way. It's the way they are programmed. In the world, where it is much easier to act masculine, I find it hard to believe that you actually believe that so many feminine gay guys are only that way to ensure that everybody knows they are gay 24/7. Sure, some may do it, but the way you are presenting your post is that the majority do.

Whenever I see even a fellow gay person make a post like the one I quoted, it makes me realize how easy it really is for straight people to see us this way...