How do YOU tell if another guy is gay/bi?

[SLOPPYSECONDS]

petitions or whateva is ya country get everyone where

gayonly hetro only
give me sex only
ans any addons like mama boys a twat paranoid egotesticles part time military interrogation officer ay know all da little thangs make up humans out da batshits countrys

not say many females lookin fa a MAN but haaaaa

ans so on

anyway

wanna shake ma hand it do homo good?
' urrr ? '
rub noses?
' okay '

ha

 

[jasoncrew03]

It's just something I know a lot of the time. Spotting Bi is easy though. He's the guy who stares at a girls rack and then her boyfriend's ass.

 

[asu1117]

I'm no expert in this field. I'm wanting to find out how to tell if another guy is gay as much as anyone else. But I'm sure as heck aren't going to ask any of my male acquaintances 'are you gay?'. That's tantamount to asking, 'do you want to have sex with me?'. It's not too difficult to read between the lines.
I guess it depends on the circumstances though. If it's a complete stranger, you may have nothing to lose, except a few front teeth.

This question can be asked with tact or a less direct approach. I've never just blurted it out suggestively and I've never had someone be offended when I've asked. The key is knowing who to ask and how to ask it, I'm not going to walk up to some random redneck holding a rifle and ask him if he's a homo. Come on, you're making things so black and white. There are most possible responses than "Yes, I'm gay" or "Fuck you!" *punch*.

 

[SLOPPYSECONDS]

This question can be asked with tact or a less direct approach. I've never just blurted it out suggestively and I've never had someone be offended when I've asked. The key is knowing who to ask and how to ask it, I'm not going to walk up to some random redneck holding a rifle and ask him if he's a homo. Come on, you're making things so black and white. There are most possible responses than "Yes, I'm gay" or "Fuck you!" *punch*.

of a course is like is

but ya note internet? human very ans then sum ans theys a only typin ta wot it you tube thang ans mot a thang

anyway

thankyou da dudes finga up ma asshole was nice compliment

 

[cocksucker4use]

i will watch his eyes as another guy walks by to see if/and where he looks. If I see his eyes move down to his ass, then I try to make eye contact with him and give him a smile.
Also when I am at a store and I am approaching a hot guy, I always let him see me giving him a full body scan, and make eye contact, so they know for sure that I was checking them out. Some guys will make small talk too, & have gotten a couple phone #'s that way too.

Definitely by observing what HE looks at. The other day in the open showers at the gym, this HOT dude -- dark hair, 6-2, 200, smooth, danglin 6+ u/c inches SOFT, under 30 for sure...well, I did check it out. So, I says, "You look taller in person," and he smiles, and we make some small talk, good eye contact, etc. I am towelling off and lookin into the showers. This redhead comes in and big dude is on point....no doubt. gay, bi...who cares, he is way into it.

 

[MisterMajestic]

I'm fairly oblivous.
If anyone's given you the fast full-body look up and down (especially when they don't think you're looking), holds eye contact a bit longer than usual and blushes slightly when you/they talk then these should be positive signs

This is the "Winning" post.......

 

[bw92116]

How well or how poorly he sucks cock.

 

[doctorsun]

I can usually tell by the way a guy walks. We walk differently. Seriously, we do.

 

[SLOPPYSECONDS]

I can usually tell by the way a guy walks. We walk differently. Seriously, we do.

try figure dat

so enterin da bubbles of country now anyone walkin is gay bi hetro or alien?

not just walkin or eatin or just a drinky table water ? folks gonna be goin OOHHHH dat a gay or maybe a BIIIIIII<they handy fillin empty seats or hetro cause or maybe
@FINGA BEAMMM BEAAAAM @
ooh how rude!!!!!

why threads like this amazin ta ME if not lot folk world ova isssssss then got bla bla centurys ans race ans slaves ans cleopatra like feelin her slaves balls fa balance ans weight before hirin heir cocks fa cleanin her ears ans all da boys jumpin up down goin we salute our great countrys fa sendin us ta fine death

Pokeeees
@ yea? @
ya not turkish armchair is ya is lookin fa turkish armchair
@ urrr how much ya thinkin dumpin? @
nothin
@ ooh well is nicgaraguan turtle @
ooh ya look like turkish armchair ?
@ well was just chattin ta real nice turkish dude so maybe ya sniff turkish armchair cause he got nice one @
oooH! which way he go?
@ not can say honest cause ooh where ya go @

# HIIII anythang happen taday? #
@ just usual but is graded up ta armchair now! aint dat Kool @
# wash ya face help fix dat #
@ ooh wot on it? @
# just da usual #
@ you still foot pump then ? @
# yeah busy day #

anyway

top hat goin fa 9.99

 

[blackbeltninja]

Spotting Bi is easy though. He's the guy who stares at a girls rack and then her boyfriend's ass.

Reading this description is like watching myself on camera.

-d-

 

[Rex]

I can usually tell by the way a guy walks. We walk differently. Seriously, we do.

Unless the walk is feminine, then I don't think that's reliable. Every single person walks a little differently and have their own distinctive walk. I've been told I bee bop when I walk, which means I bounce.

 

[Centipede]

u want fries w/ th@ shake guhrl

 

[mygaybuffet]

A guy who is into me will give me the eyes that say it. Even if he doesn't want to act on it, it's there. The other day, I picked up a guy on the train after I noticed how he was looking at me.

This information is more important to me than merely knowing he's gay. I always laugh at when guys spend long amounts of time wondering if someone is gay. If he is, then what? That doesn't automatically make you his type. Whether or not he's into you is of importance.

Sometimes the answer is written all over their face years before they decide to come out.

That is very interesting the point about him being into you as opposed to just being gay you raised. Thanks!!

 

[AllMan]

I have the BEST gaydar.

Whenever I meet a man, my brain runs through a sophisticated algorithm to determine the JayQueer-certified %homo index of a man.

The algorithm includes running through the following assessements --

-- The voice of the man (how deep is the voice, the inflection -- most gay men have a "lilt" to their voice)
-- How they speak (a lot of gay men, especially more effeminate gay men, end sentences with leading phrases, which is a sign of more insecurity/lack of confidence. Straight men tend to speak in shorter sentences, more to the point)
-- Body posture and body language* (American gay effeminate men tend to be more expressive with their hand gestures and tend to stand with their legs close together, or mimic more feminine or subdued body language. American straight men are more likely to stand shoulders wide apart, legs wide apart)
-- Career (What job does he do? Is he an engineer (more straight) or an interior decorator (more "gay")?
-- Hobbies (What are his hobbies? Does he like to go to drag races (straight) or drag show (gay)?)
-- TV shows & movies (Does he watch soap operas, & Bravo, or ESPN and the NFL?)
-- Interest in Sports?
-- Political affiliation? -- Statistically, if he is a Democrat, he is more likely to be gay, if he is Republican, more likely to be straight
-- Personal grooming (Does he look unkempt, well-groomed, or overly groomed with shiny makeup?)
-- Clues to relationships (Is he wearing a wedding ring?)


Based on the above criteria, plus other factors, I put together a %homo index.

Here is the scale:

0-25% -- Straight man
26-50% -- Straight man with bisexual tendencies/ Metrosexual
51-65% -- Bisexual man/ Metrosexual/ or Very Masculine Gay Man
66-75% -- Masculine Gay Man
76-85% -- Typical Gay Man
86-100% -- "Flaming" or "Fabulous" Gay Man

hahahaha, this is so true---my Gaydar does a complex yet quick analysis of the guy/situation too (and I am usually 90% correct, which I think is damn good)....although I don't 100% agree with the homo-index scale, I think you sorta hit the nail on the head.

I want to append:
-Lots of gay men have a lisp
-They are likely to not just go ahead end the or phrase or sentence, instead they feel the need to be "extra" and keep it trailing (i.e. "oooooohhh my Gooooooooood" or "I just went to Express and got a deal that was just too good to be truuuuuuue", instead of just "oh my God" or "...too good to be true"
-I agree with the hand gestures and female-insprired postures/poses. Gay men tend to express everything with their hands (not in the masculine sense, but in a feminine sense)
-Career and upkeep/grooming are questionable. I have seen gay people as engineers or IT techs, but you tend to be right...gay people tend to choose jobs that are "cute" or not physically demaning or that won't "get them dirty", such as hairstylist, interior design/art/fashion design, call center, receptionist, marketing, or communications. Regarding grooming, I have seen some dirty, grimy gay/bi men (lol). In contrast, I have seen some very well-dressed straight men---at my gym recently, I saw a straight guy with a manicure and he was wearing a Burberry shirt and Ferragamo shoes with Versace boxer briefs; I was quite shocked at how well-dressed he was for a straight man.

I also want to add:
-eye contact (if he looks you up and down, or tries to discreetly look at your bulge, or does a double-take)
-the twist of his hips (let's admit, most gay guys have a feminine walk)
-the car he drives (although I have seen some gay guys drive large sedans or trucks, many choose to buy a "cute/petite" vehicle like a VW Bug or a Corolla or a Civic or a Focus)
-also just observe the content of his conversation when he speaks confortably and freely (if every two seconds he is talking about what "fabulous" trip he went on or what establishment he dined in or what he bought on his last shopping trip or if he refers to interest in a play/opera/museum exhibit/theatrical production/Broadway musical/etc)
-pay attention to his vocabulary (excessive use of female-inspired words or the words "soooo" [as in "OMG, girl, I am soooo stuffed"] or "fabulous" or "OMG" or "whatever" or "hey you" or "as if"
-referring to themselves/their friends as the opposite sex (e.g. "I'm a diva" or "Bitch where you been" or "Girl, I got something to tell you about that guy I fucked last night" or "You will never see anyone as beautiful as me" or "I gotta go to the gym to work on my ass and hips so I can fit my Forever 21 jeans" or "Can you give me a short cut & make me look pretty like Demi Moore or Rihanna?")---->saying this to the hair stylist....lol
-one more....if he has MANY female friends and/or if his "BEST FRIEND since 5th grade" is a female, or if he has female roommate(s)---then that is usually a sign that he is gay (straight girls usually feel comfortable living with gay guys because they don't feel sexually threatened & look at gays as "one of them"), or at the very least bi


These are just MY observations, I am in no way saying these hints are written in stone...I am simply answering the OP's question from my point of view.

 

[Kioygan]

I know this sounds weird, but I get my friends to let me see their palm, which makes them think I am actually reading their palm but really I'm trying to determine their 2D-4D ratio of their fingers. I know it's not all accurate, but it's worth knowing and finding about it.

 

[blackbeltninja]

-referring to themselves/their friends as the opposite sex (e.g. "I'm a diva" or "Bitch where you been" or "Girl, I got something to tell you about that guy I fucked last night" or "You will never see anyone as beautiful as me" or "I gotta go to the gym to work on my ass and hips so I can fit my Forever 21 jeans" or "Can you give me a short cut & make me look pretty like Demi Moore or Rihanna?")---->saying this to the hair stylist....lol

Would any of us need more clues if we heard a guy saying this?

-d-

 

[MoltenRock III]

If I find out that you're married, and Republican, I'll find out where you live and have some Meth Head friends come by your place and cut the tires off of your Mercedes, kidnap your dog, and set fire to your yard.

How does that fit into your "Gaydar?"

That sounds HOT! We call that a Tuesday, growing up in Detroit.

 

[bw92116]

Wow, by the criteria above I come in at about 25%, making me straight by those standards, yet I'm 100% gay.

 

[Taralen]

1.His face cheeks. I noticed gay men have bigger cheeks than straight men.
2.On his facebook under tv, he likes glee.
3.No wedding ring.
4.Gaydar. Mine is always correct. If i'm wrong, he' a gay man in denial.

 

[AllMan]

The way he looks at you, and how many times he looks at you, and whether his eyes scan below the belt....