How do YOU tell if another guy is gay/bi?

[Wilde Oscar]

I can tell a guy is bisexual when he gives me a motorboat.

 

[refujiunderground]

a lot of guys say the eyes which is actually true with some people but i'll side with the whole "you can't tell if someone's gay". the reality is you just can't. unless so and so says so to your face. unless you're a guy with some real good gaydar, you wouldn't be able to tell that i'm gay if you saw me or talked with me.

 

[KissMeImSlutty]

You just go up to a dude and you say "I'm a little kitty purr I'm cold" and if he doesn't run away he's gay.

 

[KissMeImSlutty]

Actually I'm gay and I would walk away immediately.

I doubt it. I would seduce you with my puppy eyes.

 

[MascutarHero]

if they flirt back or just ask )

 

[justaguy]

I want to append:
-Lots of gay men have a lisp
-They are likely to not just go ahead end the or phrase or sentence, instead they feel the need to be "extra" and keep it trailing (i.e. "oooooohhh my Gooooooooood" or "I just went to Express and got a deal that was just too good to be truuuuuuue", instead of just "oh my God" or "...too good to be true"
-I agree with the hand gestures and female-insprired postures/poses. Gay men tend to express everything with their hands (not in the masculine sense, but in a feminine sense)
-Career and upkeep/grooming are questionable. I have seen gay people as engineers or IT techs, but you tend to be right...gay people tend to choose jobs that are "cute" or not physically demaning or that won't "get them dirty", such as hairstylist, interior design/art/fashion design, call center, receptionist, marketing, or communications. Regarding grooming, I have seen some dirty, grimy gay/bi men (lol). In contrast, I have seen some very well-dressed straight men---at my gym recently, I saw a straight guy with a manicure and he was wearing a Burberry shirt and Ferragamo shoes with Versace boxer briefs; I was quite shocked at how well-dressed he was for a straight man.

Your descriptions are of the stereotypical gay ... ie the perception of many in the general public. But there are many gay guys that have none of the characteristics you describe. There are many gay men with no female leanings in their speech and mannerisms whatsoever.

Therefore, if you see a guy with those characteristics, he probably is gay. But someone who doesn't have them, isn't necessarily straight. I am gay, but I don't believe I am anything like what you describe (not that there is anything wrong with being the way you describe).

 

[derelictdarrel]

When he looks at you like you're a plate of fresh baked cookies. Simple.

Any other sterotype doesnt always hold water. Some guys really can't help their lisp.

 

[spooger]

How do YOU tell if another guy is gay/bi?

his dick tastes like shit