How does a curious, straight guy let a gay friend know he's interested in more?

[moviesfan17]

Ok, so I have a few single gay friends who have always been gay and have known I have always been straight.They have no idea that I have been "exploring my sexuality" or that I spend time on a gay site like this one..
How do I, out of the blue, mention, "hey do you wanna suck my cock or rim my ass?"
I dont want ruin a good friendship and wonder if this would...plus I dont think I have the balls to be so direct and just come out and say those things..."hey, you wanna give me a hand job before you go home tonight?"
advice?

 

[every-other-day]

Are you as good-looking as they are? If so, then you're not going to ruin a friendship by telling them you're interested in trying it. If they get offended then they're not friends. Just find out if they're super monogamous and in a relationship. Some gay guys are just as "faithful" as heteros. If they are then that could be a potential friendship issue.

In general, men are only unhappy when being propositioned by someone who isn't physically attractive to them, unless they have an ideological thing going like monogamy or religion.

And, men will settle for people who aren't as hot as they would ideally have, depending on the situation. Alcohol and horniness helps. Maybe watch some bi porn together? Or watch a non-porn movie that has a hot naked guy in it to get him aroused.

 

[seven2go]

If they already know you know they're gay what's the problem?
Just be casual about it.

"Ya wanna suck my dick" might be tad forward.......

 

[Pierresro]

I do nto need much prodding if a straight buddy come over, chatting about how horny he is we talk sex and I see his bulge growing, like one guy came over in shorts and tank top after a run as he talked he would open and close his thighs and he was getting hard I usually ask ma if you want head we can go in the bedroom I am hungry I has worked for me.

 

[moviesfan17]

Are you as good-looking as they are? If so, then you're not going to ruin a friendship by telling them you're interested in trying it. If they get offended then they're not friends. Just find out if they're super monogamous and in a relationship. Some gay guys are just as "faithful" as heteros. If they are then that could be a potential friendship issue.

In general, men are only unhappy when being propositioned by someone who isn't physically attractive to them, unless they have an ideological thing going like monogamy or religion.

And, men will settle for people who aren't as hot as they would ideally have, depending on the situation. Alcohol and horniness helps. Maybe watch some bi porn together? Or watch a non-porn movie that has a hot naked guy in it to get him aroused.

I think I look as good as they do...I know they are all single.We usually just drink beers and bullshit about work..they have mentioned some gay porn at times they have all seen..
I may mention to them to bring one of those films over and we can all watch it together.
I usually wear tight jeans when we get together that show a nice bulge that at least two of the guys look at often...If we watch a porn movie together, I have a loose,baggy pair of shorts that definitely show my cock and balls when i have my legs separated...I might wear them!

 

[moviesfan17]

If they already know you know they're gay what's the problem?
Just be casual about it.

"Ya wanna suck my dick" might be tad forward.......

Thats true....
no, i don't think i would ever just
say, you wanna suck my cock and then whip it out but after a few beers, its tempting!

 

[moviesfan17]

I do nto need much prodding if a straight buddy come over, chatting about how horny he is we talk sex and I see his bulge growing, like one guy came over in shorts and tank top after a run as he talked he would open and close his thighs and he was getting hard I usually ask ma if you want head we can go in the bedroom I am hungry I has worked for me.

As I mentioned in a post here, I always wear tight jeans, no underwear when we get together...my cock does stiffen up in my jeans while we are all downing a few brews and talking smack....Also, I have a loose fitting pair of shorts that definitely are good for freeballing....I just need to have the balls to wear them in front of them!

 

[moviesfan17]

I do nto need much prodding if a straight buddy come over, chatting about how horny he is we talk sex and I see his bulge growing, like one guy came over in shorts and tank top after a run as he talked he would open and close his thighs and he was getting hard I usually ask ma if you want head we can go in the bedroom I am hungry I has worked for me.

I gotta try that!

 

[seioussuction69]

You can get a good idea how he will respond by how well you know him. If he's made comments that you're good looking, that's one foot in the door. If he's in a relationship, or has never given you any sign he LIKES you, then move along to another friend. If a guy is interested in you, you will know in the same way you know when a woman is. Eye contact is a dead give away, a guy that wants you will return your gaze...and then some, unless he's really shy. But don't just come right out and ask for a blow job, they might not take you seriously anyhow. I would start by telling a friend that you've wanted that you've been thinking about guys lately, that all this new to you, that you're curious. I really can't imagine a friend not understanding if you put it like that, you might even get laid if you play your cards right. The only word of caution is make sure this friend is a good enough friend that having sex (especially a one time thing) won't ruin your friendship. Who knows, you might end up with a regular fuck buddy that is happy with such an arrangement, or you might find true love. You won't know unless you try. Practice with a dildo in the meantime (orally and anally).

 

[moviesfan17]

You can get a good idea how he will respond by how well you know him. If he's made comments that you're good looking, that's one foot in the door. If he's in a relationship, or has never given you any sign he LIKES you, then move along to another friend. If a guy is interested in you, you will know in the same way you know when a woman is. Eye contact is a dead give away, a guy that wants you will return your gaze...and then some, unless he's really shy. But don't just come right out and ask for a blow job, they might not take you seriously anyhow. I would start by telling a friend that you've wanted that you've been thinking about guys lately, that all this new to you, that you're curious. I really can't imagine a friend not understanding if you put it like that, you might even get laid if you play your cards right. The only word of caution is make sure this friend is a good enough friend that having sex (especially a one time thing) won't ruin your friendship. Who knows, you might end up with a regular fuck buddy that is happy with such an arrangement, or you might find true love. You won't know unless you try. Practice with a dildo in the meantime (orally and anally).

Thanks for the good advice! I've never used a dildo..I have fingered my ass and enjoyed it.

 

[seioussuction69]

Thanks for the good advice! I've never used a dildo..I have fingered my ass and enjoyed it.

Oh yeah, you NEED a dildo! You've tried your fingers liked it, it's time to take the next step. Start with a normal penis sized one, you don't want to start with something that's huge. Make sure it has balls or a base that's wider than the shaft so it won't get sucked up into your ass. A vibrating toy will feel much better, and you'll cum much harder. Once you have a prostate orgasm, it will change your life. Most dildos require water-based lube, although some you can use oil-based, just follow the directions. You can always put a condom on it to make clean up easier. And learn about douching or enemas to get that hole sparkling clean. Practice with a dildo/prostate massager/butt plug daily while jerking off, practice makes perfect. You don't want to spread for a guy, only to beg him to pull out because it hurts too much. You might surprise yourself and find that you've been a born bottom all this time, or maybe you'll prefer topping. Buy a masturbation toy, one that looks like an asshole, and practice boning it. Sucking on a clean dildo will help you practice sucking a real dick, it looks easy but it's a talent to be great at it (watch those teeth!) and deep throat it. Learning to breathe through just your nose will be a big help.
When you're hanging out with your buddies this summer, make sure to wear shorts that show off your ass and package. Going swimming or tanning is great way to get closer to them, put suntan oil or lotion on each other. Smoke some weed, that's always great for relaxing and getting horny. Ask them to bring over some gay porn. Who knows, you might find yourself in the middle of an orgy!
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[mbynpm]

Wow, it sounds like you have this one. A few drinks, gay porn, loose shorts, practicing in advance with a dildo..the stage is set. You have to keep us posted.

 

[mindfulness]

bump the fuck out of this

 

[moviesfan17]

bump the fuck out of this

My ass agrees!

 

[moviesfan17]

Wow, it sounds like you have this one. A few drinks, gay porn, loose shorts, practicing in advance with a dildo..the stage is set. You have to keep us posted.

Next time he comes over for a few brews, I'll put on gay porn and wear my shorts that are good for freeballing

 

[seioussuction69]

Next time he comes over for a few brews, I'll put on gay porn and wear my shorts that are good for freeballing

Love a freeballer! Make sure to sit across from him with your legs spread, bend over infront of him, give your package a casual adjustment while making small talk. If he keep looking, you've likely got somebody to play with. If he's wearing shorts too it will be even better! Beer is fine, and the gay porn (getting supplied by a straight guy) should tell even a moron what you want. But for really amazing sexual experience, smoke or vape a little weed. It's a perfect aphrodisiac, you'll both be drooling over each other in no time. And make sure to slap his face with your throbbing cock before you feed it to him, that always kicks it into high gear. Have condoms and lube in several locations around the house since you never know where a good fuck will take you.

 

[moviesfan17]

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Love a freeballer! Make sure to sit across from him with your legs spread, bend over infront of him, give your package a casual adjustment while making small talk. If he keep looking, you've likely got somebody to play with. If he's wearing shorts too it will be even better! Beer is fine, and the gay porn (getting supplied by a straight guy) should tell even a moron what you want. But for really amazing sexual experience, smoke or vape a little weed. It's a perfect aphrodisiac, you'll both be drooling over each other in no time. And make sure to slap his face with your throbbing cock before you feed it to him, that always kicks it into high gear. Have condoms and lube in several locations around the house since you never know where a good fuck will take you.

I have these shorts that are very revealing with my legs separated...my balls always hang out and usually the tip and a few inches of my cock...I hope to get together soon with him when work schedules permit..

 

[moviesfan17]

Saw one of my gay friends the other night for a few beers...he's so hot but unfortunately, has a partner...however, when we hugged goodbye, he gave one of my butt cheeks a firm squeeze...I so wanted to unzip his jeans..but I didn't

 

[DantheManFL]

Sometimes a direct approach might work.

 

[moviesfan17]

Sometimes a direct approach might work.

I'm going to grab his cock and balls next time or just drop my jeans