How old were you when you lost your virginity?

[nate78]

I was 19 when I gave/got my first b/j from a guy. Lost virginity at 21. I'm cool with it. It was strange, after having oral sex for the first time, this boy who couldn't get laid for ANYTHING was all of a sudden engulfed in a world of guys, girls, threesomes, everything. It was like floodgates opened and I was a sexual magnet. Not bragging, it just happened. I'm actually surprised it took me 2 years to lose my V card. But I'm glad I waited. I always thought it would never happen either, but then it did and it never stopped. Haha, careful what you wish for.

 

[talesofabyssjade]

Girl I was 17 (she was 18 ), Guy 15 (he was 15).

 

[Lawnmowerman]

41. And yes, that included ALL forms of contact etc. that are covered in the definition of sex.

For those that care, I'm 42 now...

 

[floorrunner]

I was 14 for oral and 15 for anal. 48 now.

 

[hotdog1846]

I'm amazed. Is sweet, innocent, naive little ol' hotdog really the only JUBber who was fucking and sucking his best friend at age 7?

 

[Beachguyj]

-How old were you when you first let a man make love to you? Next,
who was he? Next, how did you feel at the time? Next, how did you
feel afterward? What did you feel, what did you think, were you
pleased, frightened, ecstatic, disgusted? What did he say, what
words did you speak, that's what I want to know, now, tell me, now,
now, all of it, now, yes! yes!

 

[Bored]

I'm still a virgin. I don't know anyone who is gay.

 

[nbluth]

I was 22, he was 51. I did pretty much everything except bottom.

It's hard to come up with an average age for a gay guy to lose his virginity though. Alot of gay guys go through that whole "confusion" stage so they may not lose it until later (like me). Most of my straight friends lost their virginity in high school though.

 

[Lube]

With a girl: 17.

With a guy: 43.

Now: 47.

And lovin' every gay minute of my life!

 

[Críostóir]

For me, depends on what you count. Sucked my first penis before I was 11. As for anal, I don't actually remember when my first time was (hey, it was a long time ago).

Still looking for the right guy. I'm not a casual sex type of person...

And casual-sex type of people everywhere are in mourning as a result.

You could lose your virginity in a NY minute babe.

Hahaha, thanks. =P Although I haven't had much luck with guys.

Jon, he's right. You absolutely could, if that were your only goal (which it clearly is not).

Haha, the first time's never really perfect, is it? Because at least one person doesn't really know what they're doing. It's gonna be a little awkward.

See, that's why first-timers should make their first connection with an experienced person. (No, not me; I've paid my dues in that regard.) And also why you don't "save yourself" for the right guy...you practice for him!

Imagine meeting the right guy, and having the sex be just so awkward and filled with rookie mistakes that the guy tells you he really likes you...as a friend.

Sound like I know what I'm talking about? I can't imagine what you mean.

Which I don't see too much of a problem with (as long as you're safe) after the first time. But I just couldn't imagine myself losing my virginity to anyone but a guy I loved. *shrugs*

As discussed above...a world of hurt is waiting for you, my friend. We'll be here to catch you when you fall, though.

 

[Lube]

And also why you don't "save yourself" for the right guy...you practice for him!

Imagine meeting the right guy, and having the sex be just so awkward and filled with rookie mistakes that the guy tells you he really likes you...as a friend.

Sound like I know what I'm talking about? I can't imagine what you mean.

So true. Practice makes perfect.

My first timer refused to believe I was really a (gay) virgin. Until we had sex.

No, really, it was quite enjoyable. But I kept kneeing him in the balls because I was used to women liking friction down there!

 

[hotdog1846]

So true. Practice makes perfect.

My first timer refused to believe I was really a (gay) virgin. Until we had sex.

No, really, it was quite enjoyable. But I kept kneeing him in the balls because I was used to women liking friction down there!

*hotdog writes down benefit #1 to having boffed his best friend for years at an early age*

 

[JonHCA]

Imagine meeting the right guy, and having the sex be just so awkward and filled with rookie mistakes that the guy tells you he really likes you...as a friend.

Sound like I know what I'm talking about? I can't imagine what you mean.



As discussed above...a world of hurt is waiting for you, my friend. We'll be here to catch you when you fall, though.

What kind of an asshat takes a guy's virginity then dumps him because the sex is less than stellar? Most would go into it knowing fully well that it's not gonna be great. If that were to happen to me, then I obviously did not pick the right guy, and I'd be better off without him.

 

[SilverSurfer]

This, except I'd rather not wait for too much longer.

This guy needs to hurry up ..

That guy is going to be VERY lucky!


I started blowing my next door neighbor when I was 13. He was a year older than me. I was 15 the first time I boned a guy, and 21 the first time I gave up the bootie.

 

[sixthson]

I was 19, so was he. We were crazy in love and the tension had been building for months. The release was unbelievable when it happened. We didn't know what we were doing but we had lots of fun learning together...even the mistakes were fun.

 

[radioian]

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[radioian]

13 when I was sucked off, and 16 when I was shagged. 16 when I shagged someone.

 

[maxracer]

I was 12 he was 14, a neighbor kid. He taught me how to suck a cock and the first time I sucked him, he came in my mouth. Still my favorite way to make a guy cum. We had sex a couple times per week for the next four years until he went away to college. A fun adolescence.

 

[Críostóir]

What kind of an asshat takes a guy's virginity then dumps him because the sex is less than stellar? Most would go into it knowing fully well that it's not gonna be great. If that were to happen to me, then I obviously did not pick the right guy, and I'd be better off without him.

Well, fair enough. Just don't pick another virgin, is all I have to say.

On the other hand:

I was 19, so was he. We were crazy in love and the tension had been building for months. The release was unbelievable when it happened. We didn't know what we were doing but we had lots of fun learning together...even the mistakes were fun.

What marvelous luck! I'm glad you had a good first experience. I'm sure you realize that it's not typical.

 

[troyboy]

I think I was 12 when I had my first oral sex. It was with a best friend who was 10 at the time and he was the one that initiated it. We had oral sex almost every time we where along for years to come after that.