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How to Approach a Guy
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Sorry about the late update – I just had an assignment and test today, and was busy studying for them.
So last week, I said I would update on Friday, but Jesse wasn’t there on Friday anyway. All through the weekend I just wanted it to be Monday, so I could talk to him again…
On Monday, I only saw Jesse once, and we were heading in opposite directions. He said he lost his wallet just earlier, I felt sorry for him.… dammit. However, yesterday, (Tuesday) I knew I would see him, as we have 5 hours of classes together. He didn’t turn up for the 8am lecture, which was fair enough. I was just hoping that he was going to be at the next class. When I got there at 9, he wasn’t there yet so I sat down and made sure that there were empty seats next to me. I waited eagerly, and then the class list came around, and as I ticked my self off, I didn’t notice he had come in until I heard him somewhere behind me. I turned around and asked him about his wallet, luckily the bus company had it, nothing was stolen. Lucky Jesse. Anyways, we talked for a bit about the physics test that was going to be on Wednesday (today) and the materials engineering assignment that was due on Wednesday as well. Just before 11, I was very hungry and ask Jesse if he wanted to go to the campus centre to get something to eat, he's like “yeah sure”, so we headed across. We talked along the way, me trying to get to know Jesse better. From what I know so far, he loves his sport, goes to the gym, (hence his great physique), goes clubbing (to the same places I go to), and we share quite a few interests. We sat down and ate and talked for a little while, but then we both had to head across to the two hour computer lab class. I could have finished it so much earlier if I hadn’t been talking to Jesse half the time. When we had finished, we both left, and walked towards the library. Just before I said goodbye to Jesse, because he had to leave early, I said “Hey, do you mind if I grab your number, so If I have any troubles with the assignment I can get your help?” and he said that’s fine, and he was just about to ask me the same thing. So I headed to the library, knowing I had HIS number ☺
I tried to study but I was soo tired, I ended up going home. I ended up messaging Jesse asking him how he was going with his uni work, and I said I hadn’t done anything yet. He replied saying he had arrived home and watched a movie and hadn’t even touched his homework yet. I ended up getting his email address so we could discuss our assignment online on msn. Unfortunately it was all boring engineering talk. Today we met up for lunch at uni at 1, after my materials lab class, and then headed off to the library to study for out physics test. I couldn’t even think, my mind wasn’t really on physics lol, it was on Jesse. Jarred ended up coming in to study as well, it turns out that Jarred and Jesse don’t hate each other or anything, so its all good.
After the test, Jesse and I headed off to our Electrical lecture, but we couldn’t really talk much because the lecture was pretty important.
I did, over the past few days, find out that Jesse doesn’t have a girlfriend. (Tick 1 lol)
Oh, and I few times when I stretched out and yawned, I noticed that he would glance down at me as my shirt sort of lifted up, lol.
I’m still unsure of his sexuality. At least now that our friendship is building, I will hopefully find out sooner or later whether he is interested or not. Wish me luck!
So last week, I said I would update on Friday, but Jesse wasn’t there on Friday anyway. All through the weekend I just wanted it to be Monday, so I could talk to him again…
On Monday, I only saw Jesse once, and we were heading in opposite directions. He said he lost his wallet just earlier, I felt sorry for him.… dammit. However, yesterday, (Tuesday) I knew I would see him, as we have 5 hours of classes together. He didn’t turn up for the 8am lecture, which was fair enough. I was just hoping that he was going to be at the next class. When I got there at 9, he wasn’t there yet so I sat down and made sure that there were empty seats next to me. I waited eagerly, and then the class list came around, and as I ticked my self off, I didn’t notice he had come in until I heard him somewhere behind me. I turned around and asked him about his wallet, luckily the bus company had it, nothing was stolen. Lucky Jesse. Anyways, we talked for a bit about the physics test that was going to be on Wednesday (today) and the materials engineering assignment that was due on Wednesday as well. Just before 11, I was very hungry and ask Jesse if he wanted to go to the campus centre to get something to eat, he's like “yeah sure”, so we headed across. We talked along the way, me trying to get to know Jesse better. From what I know so far, he loves his sport, goes to the gym, (hence his great physique), goes clubbing (to the same places I go to), and we share quite a few interests. We sat down and ate and talked for a little while, but then we both had to head across to the two hour computer lab class. I could have finished it so much earlier if I hadn’t been talking to Jesse half the time. When we had finished, we both left, and walked towards the library. Just before I said goodbye to Jesse, because he had to leave early, I said “Hey, do you mind if I grab your number, so If I have any troubles with the assignment I can get your help?” and he said that’s fine, and he was just about to ask me the same thing. So I headed to the library, knowing I had HIS number ☺
I tried to study but I was soo tired, I ended up going home. I ended up messaging Jesse asking him how he was going with his uni work, and I said I hadn’t done anything yet. He replied saying he had arrived home and watched a movie and hadn’t even touched his homework yet. I ended up getting his email address so we could discuss our assignment online on msn. Unfortunately it was all boring engineering talk. Today we met up for lunch at uni at 1, after my materials lab class, and then headed off to the library to study for out physics test. I couldn’t even think, my mind wasn’t really on physics lol, it was on Jesse. Jarred ended up coming in to study as well, it turns out that Jarred and Jesse don’t hate each other or anything, so its all good.
After the test, Jesse and I headed off to our Electrical lecture, but we couldn’t really talk much because the lecture was pretty important.
I did, over the past few days, find out that Jesse doesn’t have a girlfriend. (Tick 1 lol)
Oh, and I few times when I stretched out and yawned, I noticed that he would glance down at me as my shirt sort of lifted up, lol.
I’m still unsure of his sexuality. At least now that our friendship is building, I will hopefully find out sooner or later whether he is interested or not. Wish me luck!
I'm pretty sure you have his number
At the very least it sounds like you have found a friend and you didn't waste much time either.
Have u thought of working out at the gym or do you think that you would be invading his space?
Us matchmakers just gotta know
At the very least it sounds like you have found a friend and you didn't waste much time either.
Have u thought of working out at the gym or do you think that you would be invading his space?
Us matchmakers just gotta know
backpacker
fka "vetteboi"
Great updates! You've made excellent progress since your first post. Now you need to start dropping some hints about being gay. Find a gay related article in the newspaper and make a comment (you could be reading the newspaper before class). Find a way to work gay topics into the conversation. When your electrical lecturer talks about opposites attracting, say it doesn't always work that they. You get the idea. I think his reaction to these will be more than positive.
You may also want to suggest hanging out on the weekend.
You may also want to suggest hanging out on the weekend.
boy-i-wanna-make-u-sweat
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Wow, I just found this thread. Great stuff!
Pitty it's not my uni
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Update time!
Ok, it won't be really detailed but here goes:
Today my suspicions of Jesse's sexuality have further been confirmed, I caught him checking out a hot guy today.
I had planned on doing this for a while, as in watching Jesse to see if he checks out guys or girls. And today, a hot young guy came in, and I saw him and then immidiatly thought to myself, "look at Jesse, to see if he's doing the same thing".. he sure was, he was almost out of it, looking at that guy, I started talking to Jesse and he was sort of in a daze, then suddenly realised after a second or two that I was talking to him, he was like "Sorry, what was that?"
So... I'm tempted to text him and ask him, but I don't think it would be wise to do that just yet.. Until I gain more eveidence anyway.
Thoughts? Thanks guys
Ok, it won't be really detailed but here goes:
Today my suspicions of Jesse's sexuality have further been confirmed, I caught him checking out a hot guy today.
I had planned on doing this for a while, as in watching Jesse to see if he checks out guys or girls. And today, a hot young guy came in, and I saw him and then immidiatly thought to myself, "look at Jesse, to see if he's doing the same thing".. he sure was, he was almost out of it, looking at that guy, I started talking to Jesse and he was sort of in a daze, then suddenly realised after a second or two that I was talking to him, he was like "Sorry, what was that?"
So... I'm tempted to text him and ask him, but I don't think it would be wise to do that just yet.. Until I gain more eveidence anyway.
Thoughts? Thanks guys
Neato, its great to hear things are coming along 
Im not too sure about txting him. If you say it face to face it might take him outside of his comfort zone, and texting him would give him time to produce an answer. altho in my eyes, txting is a bit iffy...
yeah my advice is contradictory at best, but whatever you choose to do, lets hope it works out
Im not too sure about txting him. If you say it face to face it might take him outside of his comfort zone, and texting him would give him time to produce an answer. altho in my eyes, txting is a bit iffy...
yeah my advice is contradictory at best, but whatever you choose to do, lets hope it works out
dont text him asking. next time you guys are in class/eating and a hot guy comes in, and you see that he is checking him out, say something like "oh so you like that hahahah" as a joke, and see how he reacts. if he blushes, or what not, then you can follow it up with the "it's cool man, im the same way" or some thing like that
Jonny_Longhair
Virgin
I agree don't text him asking!
Take the plunge, jump in, tell him you're gay! This lets him know the waters warm and good to swim, and he will be much more comfortable to let you know!
It takes guts though, but I know you can do it.
Take the plunge, jump in, tell him you're gay! This lets him know the waters warm and good to swim, and he will be much more comfortable to let you know!
It takes guts though, but I know you can do it.
Electrostar, your situation sounds very similar to my situation. I met a guy that's in 2 of my classes also, and I caught him twice checking out some football players as we were walking from our second class together. He doesn't have a girlfriend, but he always sits with this girl in our Psychology class together. I just brought up something involving being gay before our 2nd class together, and he said that he isn't gay. However, he seems to always making eye contact with me, and always trying to get my attention and talk to me. He is giving more mixed signals than anything. I think he is deeply closeted, but I will reserve that for later date to determine. I will be trying to study and hang out with him sometime soon, to get to know him a little better before I tell him I'm bi.
boy-i-wanna-make-u-sweat
On the Prowl
What is wrong with my Uni? Where are all these guys
I'd be trying something like mascbiguy suggested. Drop more hints, let him know you're gay without out making a big deal out of it.
TomahawkEagle
Sex God
Looks like you've run into someone who's into guys too. Looking at your age, I gather you started uni straight out of high school? Just take your time but at least you're comfortable enough to tell some of your friends that you like guys.
I went to a uni in central Melbourne (which shall remain nameless). Never met anyone who's gay and was too scared to join the GLBT clubs. I started uni in 2000 and got outed in 2004 in my final year. If I had my time again, I'd probably do things a bit differently then again, I was a lot younger back in uni.
Now I'm working and still haven't been able to meet someone who's gay
What is wrong with my Uni? Where are all these guys
Trust me when I say, you don't want to deal with these type of guys. They are more of a headache than an asset.