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How To Identify A Gay Man Pretending To Be Straight...

It's in the eyes! I've found that those that make eye contact - and hold it - are usually interested.
 
you catch him checking you out. he gets quiet when gay jokes, or homophobic comments pop up, either that or he is the most gunhoe to dish out gay jokes or homophobic comments.
 
I dont think the eye contact thing is a good test of gayness, i mean really, lots of people make eye contact with me when i go out shopping. Does that mean they are all gay? No way. Most likely, they were just looking to see the way i walk or the gay gestures that i occasionally let slip and do in public. Im also one of those ppl who act str8 a lot.
 
If he posts on craigslist.com and posts a picture like this, Blue collar type guy....He might be gay or bi at least...just might be an indication...


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I don't know...I'm thinking kinda ...maybe...?

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I watch what he does when a hot guy walks by. I pay attention to see if he stares or turns around, etc.
 
he could be bi...

i like the eye contact thing but im usually too unsure to pursue it
 
AresIncarnate said:
Oh, here's an easy way:
Does he screw women? If he does, he's probably not pretending...
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Hehe...if I gave up on every guy that had sex with women, I'd never get laid. There was a guy not so long ago, all he did was talk about girl, fucking girls, what girls were hot, how many he had, etc etc. I've seen him with girls, I've listened to him fuucking girls in the next room. And I've had my tongue waaaay up his ass.
 
I can tell you that when I go to certain summer parties where there are a lot of rich people, really hot guys and cute boys will be dressed in everything from Lilly(the mostly, but not all, womens clothing with the colorful flower prints) to "Cape Cods"(pink pants). I have to keep it my pants because I always suspect that these fellows are 100% straight. So clothes can be tough.
 
CGHJ said:
Hehe...if I gave up on every guy that had sex with women, I'd never get laid. There was a guy not so long ago, all he did was talk about girl, fucking girls, what girls were hot, how many he had, etc etc. I've seen him with girls, I've listened to him fuucking girls in the next room. And I've had my tongue waaaay up his ass.
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You know, I think I have to agree with the point you make. I've gotten on some of my fraternity brothers who sleep with women on a regular basis, so it might be a moot point.

I listen to the way the guy speaks (perish the thought of the stereotypical gay lisp--that's not what I'm refering to) I listen to what he is speaking about and whether he is trying too hard to convince you of it, eg. (some have mentioned this) trying to sound overly convincing about the number of chicks he has slept with, etc. I listen to what is interesting to him, and there are some cues that are seemingly more important to gay men than str8.

If they know far too much about a subject than a guy should know without having actually studying it or having that subject as their work, then that might be a good clue.

There are too many ways to tell a queer
 
Regarding eye contact, I like to think sometimes it's who they DON'T look at. Being gay, I can look females in the eyes very easily because I'm not afraid to be around any of them because none of them are seually attractive to me.

But if a guy is sexually attractive in any way to me, usually it's hard for me to show them eye contact unless we are talking directly.

Although I do say that if a guy holds your eye when you aren't talking, like say from across the room or something, that's a different story.
 
I just wish there was a way you could tell. But it's way more complicated than that. First of all, I don't like labels like str8, gay, bi. I think sexuality is not permanent, it's not something that can be described with one word. Sexuality evolves, and it is different for different people. I think that the eye contact is a very good way not to tell if someone is homosexual, but if he has some thoughts and even desires about homosexual acts. It is better to look where the guy is looking, if he's subconsciously checking out other guys.
 
tHaTeViLmOnKeY said:
Regarding eye contact, I like to think sometimes it's who they DON'T look at.
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I was just going to say that! If a guy has nothing to prove, he's likely to look at whoever he wants. And yes, straight guys check out other guys. They're not going to talk about it, but they do it the same way many gay guys check out women.

But, if you're trying to prove something, you're going to follow the stereotypes. So, I doubt a gay pretending to be straight would look at a hot shirtless guy in the presence of others when most straight guys would look.

But hey, if a gay guy wants to be called straight, all the power too him. Besides, pretending to be straight is probably the least of his problems if he resorts to that.
 
your theory is WACK..

in this day and age of Metrosexuals you'll drive yourself insane trying to figure them out. who cares anyway.
 
1) Take Off Your Shirt In Front Of Him (If You Have A Good Body) & See How He Acts

2) Play Madonna, Cher, Beyonce Etc......... If He Likes It TOOO Much Then You Know Something Isn't Right..........

3) Do "Gay But Straight" Flirting, That Means Make A Few Playful Gay Remarks or Gestures....
 
If he looks at you too long, then he is gay. A straight man doesn't stare at other men barring ofcourse you don't look a mess.
 
Just because you make eye contact with someone doesn't mean anything. In the midst of conversation, most assertive people will keep eye contact with who they are talking to. It asserts your power and can be used to intimidate others, but is also a sign that you are engaged and also indicates a level of respect toward the person you are speaking with.

If it's just some random guy in the airport that keeps looking at you and holds eye contact. Well that could mean that he's interested in you and he might be curious, bi or gay, but it can also mean that he thinks he recognizes you as someone that he knows. So, don't jump to conclusions.

I guess I've never really had a problem, I can always tell who the gay guys are. Which in many cases is not very hard because of the flamboyance factor. More importantly to me is that I seem to have a keen sense of bi and curious guys which tend to be much less obvious than gay guys, even closeted ones. It's tough to describe how to spot these guys. It's mostly intuition I guess, maybe pheromones play a role as well. Either way, I've had 100% success rate with "straight" guys that I've initiated action with, so something is working for me.
 
OH GOD !! I think I've heard it all now ... There is No way you can tell if a man is Gay or str-8 by the music he listens to ...
With such musical diversity how can anyone dare make such a statement as to try to judge a guy by his music ....
 
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