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How to keep your man from straying?

ebluue

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Being attractive / kind / smart / hot / rich isn't enough to keep a man from straying. Supermodel models like Cindy Crawford + other uber hot celebs/models gets cheated on left and right by their man.

So how do you keep your man faithful? :help:
 
Define straying

Is it leaving the marriage/relationship or is it getting some on the side

It's all about trust

Allow him to look at the menu but know the food at home is better

What happens on the road stays on the road
 
@ M4P, Define straying = Fucking somebody else on the side while he is in a relationship with you. Sometime with or without you knowing or consent.
 
ebluue said:
Being attractive / kind / smart / hot / rich isn't enough to keep a man from straying. Supermodel models like Cindy Crawford + other uber hot celebs/models gets cheated on left and right by their man.

So how do you keep your man faithful? :help:
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Define straying?

Do you want to pretend you own his dick and get all butthurt if he wants to occasionally suck a dick that isn't attached to you?

For some people that works.But why bother?

I figure,the last thing I'm gonna get bent out of shape about is a little action on the side..I really don't care..I've been a part of enough ejaculations not to bullshit myself into thinking that anyone will be hooked on my dick..

Even in my last relationship of 7 years,I told him ,I really don't care..If you wanna get some strange,get some strange..If you gotta be fucking someone different every night though,ehh,go live somewhere else..

Sex is great,but it ain't everything..I enjoy the company,companionship of the people I love as well. But sometimes people just wanna fuck someone else once in a while..

No shame in that and no need to escalate it into some kind of hassle that evades reality..
 
@ MiamiHorror, if you go out of your way constantly to please him all they time, doesn't that make you a doormat?
 
"My" Kev is a total Slut Puppy! And, it's one of the many things that drew me to him 29yr. ago! (!)

Is he having some "Fun" on the side? Oh, hell yes! (!w!)

Butt, I'm still His PARTNER, and why would I want to try to "Change" Him, anyway? :confused:

He is who/what He is, and I LOVE Him all the more for that! (group)

We have SO much more going for us than merely/just Sex! ..|

Keep smilin'!! :kiss:(*8*)
Chaz :luv:
 
ebluue said:
@ M4P, Define straying = Fucking somebody else on the side while he is in a relationship with you. Sometime with or without you knowing or consent.
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Fucking someone else on the side

Fucking doesn't necessarily = making love

What I don't know (and what he doesn't know) won't hurt

As long as we both come home :-)
 
I highly doubt sex ever kept anyone faithful. Faithfulness has to do with the heart, not the dick.
 
GiancarloC said:
If you're gonna spend all the time in the world trying to prove to him that you should be the only one... and attempting to keep someone only with you... well you are wasting your time. You both need to make the decision to stay faithful. If the other is straying the relationship is pretty much over. Great I sound like Dr Phil now.
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If SEX is the only defining factor in your relationship, then it's too narrowly defined, and under unrealistic restraints! #-o

As it's been said, over, and over again, Guys will be Guys! (!) (!w!)

Trying to restrict that is simply not facing up to our Natural tendencies, and asking for too much stress, whether we're talking about Gay, Bi, or Str8, relationships! [-X

There is SO much more to personal relationships than what a Guy might want to do with his body, and others'! I'd rather have the commitment of his Heart and Mind! (group)

Keep smilin'!! :kiss:(*8*)
Chaz :luv:
 
By giving him space.

The fact of the matter is, I think nothing makes a man want to stray more than being controlled by another person. Yes, it's great to spend time together, but you don't have to spend every waking moment with each other...and if you insist that that is how it must be, you are going to push your man away.

In other words: No smothering.
 
You don't allow your man to stray around where he wants to? You're a plain MONSTER.
 
Sometimes I wish I was in a repressed, religious heterosexual marriage so that I can let him go anal if I needed to keep him from straying.

Damn you, gay sex!
 
I be myself. If that's not enough, it's not enough.
 
MiamiHorror said:
Fucking him better than anyone he's ever fucked. I go out of my way constantly to make sure he's always in a good mood by being very considerate of his likes. I surprise him often by doing something really nice to make his day better. He reciprocates everything I do for him because he understands how rare it is to find someone who genuinely loves you regardless of looks, good job, big dick, but thankfully he has all 3 and more. Also I rub his belly when he has a tummy ache. We're both 26 so we have had many years of dating around and shit like that, we are both at a stage where we want to build a life, we might get married December this year.
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hahahahahahah. sorry but that doesnt work
 
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