Hey I didn't say Rob Navarro was a bad guy, I don't know him, although I have known guys that worked with him [no comment]. Bobby Garcia I'll just go ahead and say is a troll, although back in the day before I had ever come out when I heard that some guy was fooling around with straight marines I thought that was the most amazing thing I had ever heard, and spent literally days online (this in the earliest days of the internet before Google or even Yahoo) trying to find his pics...so I owe him a lot and if I met him I would buy him a beer...but I would def keep my friends away from
I just said, and I'll stand by this, they have to convince straight marines to let the blow them, whereas, I get straight marines who want to experiment just once with a buddy and I am often that buddy.
It helps that I look and act like a Guny Sgt, but am not. You can imagine that in an almost all male environment, with a lot of male nudity, and a very strong sense of brotherhood that comes from fighting wars together, a lot of these guys develop some very strong feelings for their warfighting brothers, sgts, and so on. For men that have so much testosterone than almost everything is sexual in some way...and who have very few outlets for sex...this translates into some curiosity. I am close enough to what they know (a fellow veteran who looks, talks, acts--and drinks--like one of them) to be safe, but separate enough (i.e., a civilian) to be safe as well. It's a perfect combination.
Rob and Bobby I'm willing to bet do not have straight guys hoping for a chance to try it with them. They get str8 guys who are willing to close their eyes for a BJ because they're horny, or need the money. There's nothing wrong with that (although I repeat, Bobby is a troll). But I'm willing to be a lot of money that no guy ever asks Rob or Bobby if they'll let him suck their dick.
And which thread, "Have you ever just flat out asked a guy if he was curious about men?" No I have not, because they will almost always say no.