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How'd you meet your current or last boyfriend

How did you meet your current or last bf

  • On an app/online (grindr, okcupid, tinder, A4A etc)

    Votes: 5 27.8%

  • Through friends at a party or just hanging out

    Votes: 5 27.8%

  • Through a family member

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • A bar/club

    Votes: 2 11.1%

  • Through an organization (ex, gay groups or orgs)

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • other

    Votes: 6 33.3%
  • Total voters
    18
First class of sophomore year of college.
 
I met my fella over ten years ago, he was at that time the best friend of my first love and a friend of mine. When Erik died he was there for me.
When he discovered what i had planned to do he never left my side. He and this site were my salvation.
 
He messaged me online, we chatted a bit, met up for a date a day or two later, we kept meeting for more dates, now it's been 3 years.
 
Online but not via an app. We were playing the same online video game.

Lex
 
Online 5 and a half years ago. Lived together for in total about 3 years, but me being at university at different times meant living apart now and again.
 
Met him at the start of so. year of college.
He caught me staring at him in the library, we talked for a bit and the rest is history.
 
He was a new colleague of my previous boyfriend. They had slept together a couple of times and John invited him down for the weekend. I and another friend were both interested in him but nothing happened that time.

He was invited a second time and late in the evening with everyone else in bed he was sitting on the sofa watching a film and I was sitting on the floor marking my children's' essays. He lent over and started caressing the back of my neck and from that moment there was no looking back.

Unfortunately he met the woman he left me for when we were shopping for curtains for our new home several years later. I knew I should have made the curtains myself. :D
 
I went to a bar in town because I had some time to kill, and I thought I'd see if I might run into a friend there. I didn't, so I sat down in the courtyard with my drink and my book, thinking I'd just enjoy some quiet time by myself. He came over, ostensibly to borrow a chair from my table, but he sat around and chatted with me for a while, then invited me to join him and his friends. Turns out they were having a birthday party for someone I vaguely knew, and another of my friends was also there. After a while, I left to go get some dinner, and he joined me. After dinner, we went back to his place to watch TV, and I ended up spending the night.
 
Online. He lived 3 hours north and it is doubtful we would have just randomly met.
Did long distance for a couple months.
He moved in for good 10 years ago - TODAY!!!
 
At the beach. I fell for his perfect square-cut pecs.
 
At a fundraising event for the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom, almost 17 years ago. I wasn't in the mood that night, but a friend convinced me to go and paid my way.
 
Do you mind if I ask how old you were when you met your boyfriend? Lately I've been feeling like in the gay world you're considered too old for dating even if you 28 years old like I am.
 
Through a mutual friend I met at the now defunct dating site D-List and he met at his university a few years ago. He was 25 and I was 26. This mutual friend texted me one day after work to join him at a gay bar he was going to with a friend. I didn't want to go since I was exhausted from work but he stated this new friend of his was trying to meet people in NYC, so I was guilt tripped into going.

I'm glad I went since I was instantly attracted to him and all 3 of us started hanging out over the next few months. One day our mutual friend was sick when we were all supposed to get together for lunch so just him and I spent the day together. I finally worked up the courage to tell him I liked him that day and he was surprised that I couldn't tell he liked me also. What's interesting is we both thought this mutual friend was setting us up but he didn't want us dating when we asked him. Both of us dropped decided to drop our disapproving mutual "friend" and transition to an official relationship. We were together for about 2 years, he made an great first love but unfortunately wasn't sure if he wanted to marry anyone or even move in together when we had a talk about it and decided to split up.

Lately I've been getting worried I just got randomly lucky finding him since finding relationship minded guys in their 20's in NYC is difficult.
 
I'd been dating mostly girls, with a few guys, here and there, on the "down low", until I hit 30. It was then that me and a friend, who was out, were both looking for a roommate to share an apartment with. Not long after we moved in, his boyfriend joined us.

Though I'd lived in Milwaukee for 6yr., I was new to the gay scene that Dave and Brian introduced me to. I was completely surprised how big, and active, it all was. "Small town" Milwaukee is very effective at hiding/down playing just how much this city has to offer. I had NO idea of what had been going on right under my nose!

There were so many bars, organizations, groups, etc., etc. I was being introduced to guys and girls left and right. It was maybe a year before I met Kev.

Kev was tending bar at one of the girl bars. His older brother had tended bar at one of the premier guy bars. They knew, and were known by, Everyone!

When I first met Kev I knew I liked him, but he was with someone else. So, any chances with him were out of the question. And though I was like a kid in a candy store, I was being guarded/reserved, having a phenomenal time, but keeping my clothes on.

About a year later, Kev broke up with his partner. Very long story there, and, no, I didn't have anything to do with that.

One night we were out, and ran into Kev on one of his nights off. At closing time, I mentioned to Brian that I'd love to bring Kev home. He told me I should just go for it, and I was drunk enough that my general inhibitions were down. I was surprised when Kev said he'd wondered if I'd ever ask, and was thrilled that I did.

I was 32, and he was 25. We didn't have a clue what we were starting. That will have been 33yr. ago next month.

You never know what might be waiting for you around the next corner. (group)

All the more reasons to ... No Matter What ...

Keep Smilin'!! :kiss: (*8*)
Chaz :luv:
 
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