Jacquemar
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Hello out there!
I was watching ABC 7 news tonight (for those of you who don't know, that's the Los Angeles, Ventura, and Orange Counties local news) when the female anchor did a promo for the "Hunky Santa" at the Beverly Hills Plaza. To those who don't know about this, rather than having the fat, jolly old guy play Santa, they pick a young stud instead.
I was enjoying the promo until the ditzy female anchor said, "Step aside kids, this Santa is for Mamas!" I know this sounds really stupid, but that comment, and all others like it, really irritate me!
Why does she assume that there are going to be NO MEN going to visit hunky Santa? When people make hetero-normative blanket statements like that, it feels to me that they're just denying that gay men and women exist. I probably shouldn't take it personally, but I've heard people making comments like that that exclude gay people my whole life and I'm so tired of it! Why can't these straight people say something akin to "This Santa is for the adults," instead of just making an assumption that a hunky Santa is ONLY going to appeal to straight females? Let's also remember the huge number of gay men that flock to that mall!
What's worse about hetero-normative statements, is that straight people make them all the time and never stop to consider that they might be irritating! One time I was talking to a female acquaintance, and some idiot straight guy said to me, "I can tell you want to fuck her!" (I'd like to point out that this imbecile didn't know that I am gay.) Similarly, I saw someone type a statement about Louis Van Amstel from "DWTS" and Kelly Osborne, so I know that more straight people are saying things like that than just the heteros around me.
I wonder how they would like it if we started making statements like that to them? If we see two guys talking, we remark to one of them, "I can tell you want to fuck him!" Or perhaps advertise a hunky Santa saying, "Step aside kids, this Santa is only for the gay gentlemen!"
I know this post is a little rambling, but does anyone else get irritated by comments like this?
I was watching ABC 7 news tonight (for those of you who don't know, that's the Los Angeles, Ventura, and Orange Counties local news) when the female anchor did a promo for the "Hunky Santa" at the Beverly Hills Plaza. To those who don't know about this, rather than having the fat, jolly old guy play Santa, they pick a young stud instead.
I was enjoying the promo until the ditzy female anchor said, "Step aside kids, this Santa is for Mamas!" I know this sounds really stupid, but that comment, and all others like it, really irritate me!
Why does she assume that there are going to be NO MEN going to visit hunky Santa? When people make hetero-normative blanket statements like that, it feels to me that they're just denying that gay men and women exist. I probably shouldn't take it personally, but I've heard people making comments like that that exclude gay people my whole life and I'm so tired of it! Why can't these straight people say something akin to "This Santa is for the adults," instead of just making an assumption that a hunky Santa is ONLY going to appeal to straight females? Let's also remember the huge number of gay men that flock to that mall!
What's worse about hetero-normative statements, is that straight people make them all the time and never stop to consider that they might be irritating! One time I was talking to a female acquaintance, and some idiot straight guy said to me, "I can tell you want to fuck her!" (I'd like to point out that this imbecile didn't know that I am gay.) Similarly, I saw someone type a statement about Louis Van Amstel from "DWTS" and Kelly Osborne, so I know that more straight people are saying things like that than just the heteros around me.
I wonder how they would like it if we started making statements like that to them? If we see two guys talking, we remark to one of them, "I can tell you want to fuck him!" Or perhaps advertise a hunky Santa saying, "Step aside kids, this Santa is only for the gay gentlemen!"
I know this post is a little rambling, but does anyone else get irritated by comments like this?

