i am not gay- but why do i like gay porn?

[KentuckyPython]

That's the problem. What he is describing is some sort of situation where you have to do something, you get some sort of high, even though you hate doing it. Actually, I get sick to my stomach thinking about it, because its the same type of people that murder people that say that. They get this rush from murdering people even though they know its wrong.

It also reminds me of some of the Jewish victims of the Holocaust.

In all honesty, I hope this kid's a troll. Otherwise, the world has a potential serial killer of gays to contend with.

 

[Jay.Jay]

I have just read this entire thread, and have a question for eyesforu:

You have said that you watch straight porn as well as gay, although you love gay porn. I'm guessing that you have a favourite scene in straight porn, that you've watched several times, and that you can see in your mind's eye. What is it that makes that scene memorable?

 

[KentuckyPython]

Couldn't have said it better myself!

Get help EYES! You do not need our opinion, you need a psychologist and a stronnnnng strong prescription!

Amen!

 

[Soilwork]

um no...

I'm going to go out on a limb here and say that nobody except mentally ill people are going to get turned on watching someone fuck a goat.

 

[Soilwork]

When I wank I sometimes think of gay situations and scenarios but 90% of the time I think straight.

and 10% of the time, you're truthful with yourself.

(And sorry... no... it's not the same as watching a horror movie... when you're watching a horror movie, you're being truthful with yourself that you're getting a thrill watching the fear and the suspence, and unless you're REALLY freaky, you're not jacking off watching it. Rationalize all you want... but you're not straight either. Sorry. Just the way it works)

 

[KentuckyPython]

I can understand a certain morbid fascination with something (beastiality for example). I can understand the catharsis from a horror film or a violent film. I cannot see jacking off to either one unless it's erotic in the process. When see straight porn, I'm only interested in the guy. A woman alone or two women together do nothing for me.

I read, I think in Playboy, some years back, that the problem with labels is that it puts you in a category with people you wouldn't be caught dead with. That's definately true of gay, bi, straight, bear, twink, etc. However, a dislike of the label doesn't mean that it's not the reality.

 

[Soilwork]

So, to you, a guy is labelled gay or bi if he:

* Engages in sexual activites with the a person/people of the same gender
OR
* Gets turned on by watching other guys doing sexual activites with reach other

So, to you, a guy that might let his friend wank him is immediately labelled gay or bi?

Since people get such a kick out of putting words in my mouth.. I'll just repeat not my original quote, but my RE-repeating of said quote after yet another person tried to say what you just said above..

http://www.justusboys.com/forum/showpost.php?p=1299356&postcount=25

I get tired of defending my opinions on this, becuase people get so freaked about "labels", even when the lables fit.

NO, just having sex once with a guy doesn't make you gay, and having a girlfriend doesn't make you straight.

But REGUARLY jacking off to gay porn, being more turned on sexually BY gay porn and prefering gay porn to straight porn isn't the same as letting a guy blow you once.

If you're gay, you can whine all you want about not liking "labels" but it don't change shit.

I can bitch all I want about being called "Short and bald" but the fact remains that I'm 5 foot 7 and have no hair..

and sorry, but yeah, if you get off watching a guy fuck a goat, dude, you dont' have issues, you have volumes. Ain't no way to sugar coat it, and there's no need to try. "Millions" of you, eh? scary.

 

[Soilwork]

actually hig, I think I was pretty down with the whole "Not everything is black and white" thing, but you seem to have a problem with this whole "If it looks like bullshit and smells like bullshit and tastes like bullshit, buddy, it's probably bullshit".

And yeah, I knew that you personally weren't saying you liked to watch a guy fucking a goat (or I assume, anyway).

Oh, and to answer the question you asked...

So, to you, a guy is labelled gay or bi if he:

* Engages in sexual activites with the a person/people of the same gender
OR
* Gets turned on by watching other guys doing sexual activites with reach other

Simply, yes.

If a guy regularly has sex with guys or regularly gets turned on by watching guys fuck, our hero is either gay or bi. No amount of saying "no, it's his clothes" or "No, it's the music" I like is going to change that.

 

[Soilwork]

OK, Hig, I read your article again...

And no.. sorry.. still not biting.

That article pretty much is just trying to coddle people who are gay or bi but are afraid of useing the term "Gay" or "Bi".

Telling someone who likes having sex with someone of the same sex that they aren't necessarily gay is lying to them. just the way it is.

 

[KentuckyPython]

I really have to agree with what Soilwork is saying. It could be that we're too much a like, but I think it's that he's making sense.

Also, has anyone noticed that eyes has fallen off the thread?

 

[chastay]

I really have to agree with what Soilwork is saying. It could be that we're too much a like, but I think it's that he's making sense.

Also, has anyone noticed that eyes has fallen off the thread?

Poor boy; he's probably gone to get his rocks off watching Steve Hammond fuck Troy, or maybe Ryan Idol and Joey Stefano. But then again, Steve and Ryan may be too pretty for a "straight guy's" taste.

 

[Rockercub]

I like to jack off to eBay because their site is so well maintained.

 

[boatboy]

Also, has anyone noticed that eyes has fallen off the thread?

Oddly enough I have no interest in web sites dedicated to straight porn. Is this out of the ordinary?


Eyes will come to terms with his situation in due time.

 

[thehayesman]

No matter, it's clear that eyesforu wants attention.

As for why that is: Well, only eyesforu can say.

My point exactly. I'm glad so many are supporting of him though, because the reason he sought to post this is because he feels confused. That's usually the case, there's something going on underneath if he's telling the truth.

 

[Rockercub]

^Huh? You just agreed that only eyesforu knows why he was seeking attention and then proclaimed the reason that he was seeking attention.

 

[Soilwork]

Let's not be too hard on Hig.

yeah, i'm not a fan of what he's said, but he seems to be going through a rough time.

We've all had a rough time coming out and we've all grasped at straws. so.. let's be nice and not call names.

(wow, I should be a moderator, eh?)

 

[KentuckyPython]

We've all had a rough time coming out and we've all grasped at straws. so.. let's be nice and not call names.

I've talked about how difficult it was and Mom was a fag hag. I can't imagine how hard it is for people whose parents are so inclined.

 

[Soilwork]

I posted a thread about 7 months ago about a 14 year-old guy who comes on all of our long rides... the last one was Death Valley. Both of his fathers are in our riding group, and he's kind of our mascot. He rides on his Dads' bikes, but he'll also ride on anyone's bike.. changes at every rest stop, and everyone takes their turn taking him. (excpet those of us with little sport bikes)

He was talking to me one night as we were walking back from dinner about his girlfriend. and then he looks at me with this odd look on his face and says "wow, it would really suck to be gay and have homphobic parents, woudln't it?".

I said, "yes. yes, it would".

"Oh well", he said, "I'm just happy my parents accept me for who I am.

I almost burst our crying thinking how such a great kid grew up not even thinking about how he was one of the luckiest kids in the world. It never occured to him that parents would give anything but unconditional love.

 

[chastay]

Thanks, Soil, for sharing that marvelous experience; it leads one to think that perhaps the world may be better off than it often appears. He and his generation may save us in our very old age.

 

[Mitchee]

Im Str8...Lol But I Dont Like Gay Porn I Watch Str8 Sex Now Its gets me going but i used watch gay porn all the time until i found out i dont wanna be gay and it aint me..lol but even if ias gay ill fight it ....whatever it takes i wont be gay