i am not gay- but why do i like gay porn?

[empire_records]

Im Str8...Lol But I Dont Like Gay Porn I Watch Str8 Sex Now Its gets me going but i used watch gay porn all the time until i found out i dont wanna be gay and it aint me..lol but even if ias gay ill fight it ....whatever it takes i wont be gay

Oh lord just wait till Soilwork comes back, he puts into words what I am thinking.

But god damn that is the stupidest thing I have ever read, and it makes me sad. Why would you fight it? When we are young and discovering our sexuality we all fought it a little, I know I did, but you eventually accept it. I think you need to sit back and really think about what you want in your life.
Its a toss up between:
Living a lie and being miserable.
Being honest and happy.
There is really only one option that makes sense to me.

Oh and by the way............. your on a gay forum......... full to the brim with gay porn................ and many many gay people................. your not fighting very hard.

 

[JNewYork]

Well what is it about the gay porn that you like?

Is it the music? The dialogue? The photography?

If it's the cock going into another man's ass or if it's the cock spooging all over the other man's face, then I think you need to come to terms with why you like this.

Yes, you love women too but clearly you have gay tendencies. You've even admitted you find Brad Pitt hot.

I would suggest some counseling to help you sort through the issues you are having. Even if you are not gay, your addiction to gay porn when you are straight is reason enough to spend a few sessions with a kind, caring, trained professional who can work you through the why's.

 

[Rockercub]

But god damn that is the stupidest thing I have ever read, and it makes me sad.

I just assumed he was being sarcastic. At this point, I can't take much of this thread seriously.

 

[Soilwork]

Im Str8...Lol But I Dont Like Gay Porn I Watch Str8 Sex Now Its gets me going but i used watch gay porn all the time until i found out i dont wanna be gay and it aint me..lol but even if ias gay ill fight it ....whatever it takes i wont be gay

I know just how you feel.

I flat-out REFUSE to be short... Whatever it takes to not be short, I'll do it, becuase being short is NOT for me.

I WONT WONT WONT WONT be short, no MATTER what you say... I'll even stand on my tippy tippy tippy toes so I'm not SHORT, because I WILL NOT be short, ok?

I don't want to be short.











(you know what? I burst out laughing at you here, but I also feel sorry for you. You can call yourself straight all you want, but if you like sex with guys.. well, that's kinda gay, man....)

 

[Soilwork]

a "weird gay psycho killer", huh? How often do you jack off to THAT scenario?

I really had to idea that people were THIS good as coming up with their excuses they use.

Man, I gave up after "I was drunk" was countered by "It was 3 o'clock in the after noon at school and you hadn't had a drink in about 4 days".

But hey, if you can use gay porn as a training manual for shagging girls... um...

 

[Rockercub]

I have actually decided that the reason i watch gay porn is because with straight porn they focus on the chick. but you can see that any time when your fucking one. i like to watch other guys having sex with guys because they show the guys dick which helps me get ready for sex. Just watching the guy helps me feel better about what im doing. i've never been one to picture women naked because i always thought of sex as a private personel thig for the girl. But with looking at guys it helps me feel morecomfortable. I could never fuck a guy though. Unless like I was being held hostage by some weird gay psycho killer. LOL

Case in point. You can't be serious. If you picture guys and not girls when you jack off, you're gay. Period. Straight guys don't care about the girl's feelings when they're jacking off. When they're having sex, yes, but when they're jacking off, no.

 

[MetaKnight]

I have actually decided that the reason i watch gay porn is because with straight porn they focus on the chick.

That's weird cuz I thought thats what str8 guys were into.

 

[CoolBlue71]

A part of this thread, and the many responses, is really tuned into ... reality-vs.-perception. Some folks believe the latter is most important in self-image; others are saying, "screw that -- let's talk reality."

Folks who watch gay porn, while professing not to be gay, can say whatever they want. Whether there's truth to the claim (and I don't feel the need to argue for or against), each individual has self-realization -- and that's where reality sets in whether or not one is able and/or willing to recognize. All that is needed is to live long enough. Experience, as it's commonly referred.

 

[WRITERPAUL]

I've never found gay sex or gay porn to be anything but natural. Seems right to me and not disgusting. Granted some gay porn is over the top but thats true with straight porn too.

 

[Soilwork]

I just went back and read this whole thread.

Wow.

I showed great restraint.

Although that "I should be a moderator" comment probably gave 4 people a heart attack.

 

[Jory]

Just wondering something. Do you also watch str8t and bi porn also or only gay?

 

[Jory]

You all realize now that he has not been here since the 26th of May and we are now all talking amongst ourselves.

 

[wildatheart]

Interesting topic. I read most of it and I have to agree with Soilwork.

It got me thinking, maybe hes confused with what being gay means?
Maybe hes fallen for that stereotype and he doesn't see himself as gay (or ever could be gay) because he isn't the flamboyant character from the movies? He doesn't act like a gay boy apparently does therefore he isn't gay wether he likes gay porn or not.

My advice to him, if he still reads this, or anyone in his situation is; don't try to force a label on yourself. Be whoever you want to be, when your older and have a better understanding you'd be surprised how clear everything will be.

and if you do happen to be gay, which isn't a bad thing- I'm sure the kind people here will welcome you back and offer you whatever support you need.

goodluck

(btw sorry if its all been said before)

 

[beafous]

Actually I started out the same way. When I was in early puberty, I was only attarcted to women, only watched str8 porn and masturbated over women. This wasn't experimental, I was genuinely into it. Then I discovered gay porn and enjoyed looking at it and visited gay sites more and more. At this point, tho, I had no interest in being intimate with a guy or having a boyfriend. I still envisioned relationships with girls and the gay thing was just sex. For the most part I clung on to being bi cus I was attracted to both sexes, and to a certain extent, I still am. But in recent years, my interest in women has dwindled down to almost nothing and I accept that I am pretty much gay. Now, I'm 19 and I have started to develop feelings of wanting to be close to a guy, aswell as sex. I don't know if this is the same thing with you, but it sounds like it.

 

[Lube]

Interesting topic. I read most of it and I have to agree with Soilwork.

It got me thinking, maybe hes confused with what being gay means?
Maybe hes fallen for that stereotype and he doesn't see himself as gay (or ever could be gay) because he isn't the flamboyant character from the movies? He doesn't act like a gay boy apparently does therefore he isn't gay wether he likes gay porn or not.

Great insight, wildatheart.

More than anything else, that was the "enabler" that allowed me to be in denial for so long.

I'm not one of them.

But now I know we are them and they are us. Which is why I think it's so important for all gays to come out of the closet, not just the flamboyant ones. We need more role models for young people.

 

[Soilwork]

Lube, you know, that's the main reason that I do my blog. I want younger gay men to have the role models that I didn't have. I've had so many guys email me and tell me that they didn't know there were gay men who acted like men and rode motorcycles and just hung out and had fun without makeup and dreses.

So many people out there have such a warped view of what "gay men" look like.. and really.. we look like you.

 

[Riverrick]

Great insight, wildatheart.

More than anything else, that was the "enabler" that allowed me to be in denial for so long.

I'm not one of them.

But now I know we are them and they are us. Which is why I think it's so important for all gays to come out of the closet, not just the flamboyant ones. We need more role models for young people.

You know, I had the same barrier to coming out. But in the end, the sexual attraction was just too powerful to deny. Yes, it would have been nice to have role models that I could identify with better and I probably would have come out sooner, but I still came out - even believing that all gay men were like the ones on TV.

I guess everyone experiences their coming out differently though.

 

[CoolBlue71]

I am floored by how long this thread has been.

To the originator of this thread: Watch whatever you want. Like whatever you want. And please accept whatever it is you want.

Does this statement help?

 

[jsh_ken]

Hey like I believe that your staight
Cuz like Im full fledge gay and shit
but like when ever i see straight
porn even if its just a woman I get
a boner, doesnt mean I like women
just its sex...and sex is a stimulus
whether you find it attractive or not.

And really Im agreeing with you that
most of these guys are letting being
gay get to their heads cuz really out
of anyone in the world they should be
the most open minded and not just go
oh...you watch gay porn then your gay
thats bullshit I'm acutally really disapointed
with anyone who thinks your gay.

 

[Riverrick]

And really Im agreeing with you that
most of these guys are letting being
gay get to their heads cuz really out
of anyone in the world they should be
the most open minded

He's got a point.