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I Broke It Off Because He's a Top

Eagle653

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The_Acro-Brat said:
Not sure if I made the best decision, but it works for me.
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That's all that matters.

I'm glad you made the decision you did, although I'm sorry that means the end of a potential relationship. Anyway, I'm glad because you aren't saddling yourself to a period of frustration and anger by being something you're not comfortable being and feeling boxed in like that.

These things are always tricky to work through, when one party is strictly a top or bottom and has zero interest in ever switching off. I guess it's fine if they find someone who's strictly the other way, but most of us aren't.

Good luck to you. Congratulations on biting a hard bullet here and doing the right thing for you. You'll thank yourself many times, believe me.
 
Dude, you did well.

I know of many gay dudes, who broke off with their partners just because they were not compatible. Can't help it. This is the way the cookie crumbles this time around...

Besides, you saved yourself from useless regrets later on...

SC
 
You're very young. You likely will benefit from more experience by meeting other guys.

You believe you made the best decision.

Therefore, you did.
 
The "bottom/top" incompatability is a big part of what broke me up with a previous boyfriend. It honestly was very important for me, and I would expect that it would be for tons of other guys, too. Now I'm with a guy with whom I'm much more compatible in that way, as well as in MANY OTHER important ways!
 
im a bottom, and I went out with another bottom, we didnt last at all! I could never top. My next bf would definatley have to be a top
 
Kulindahr said:
Hey, where were you all a while back when I was saying I didn't see much point in trying a relationship when two people weren't sexually compatible?
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Sorry dude. Missed that thread. I think I would have said the same thing to you then.... and now!
 
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