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Why have labels? Why limit our capacity to explore our sexuality? I firmly believe we live in such a sexually repressive society due to our social structure that has set limits and regulations that cause us to develop these irrational mentalities.

Some believe in a spectrum, 1 Being fully attracted to females and 10 being fully attracted to males. Somewhere each person has their own position on that spectrum. Rather then have a simplistic order of how sexual development should be defined, why must a label be placed? Why can't we just be mature enough to be attracted to THIS person or THAT person for whatever reasons? I get so annoyed when "gay" men act like they have been violated because they saw a human vagina. Grow the fuck up and stop acting like a 10 year old.
 
congratulations you read about the kinsey scale.
 
If you want a live and let live attitude towards yourself you'll have to give it to those who regard an open porn v as something they'd rather not see, taste or smell. Btw, they may then self identify as gay. You can sign me up for that line please even though I was married and have two children. And even though I think the sensation is better inside a v than an ass. For me it's not sex unless two cocks are involved.
 
Buy a dictionary.

'Sexual orientation' is not a label. It is a human condition. Not believing in sexual orientation is like not believing in left-handedness, or tall people, or short people, or people with red hair, or people with bumps on their noses, or. . .
 
Why have labels? Why limit our capacity to explore our sexuality? I firmly believe we live in such a sexually repressive society due to our social structure that has set limits and regulations that cause us to develop these irrational mentalities.

Some believe in a spectrum, 1 Being fully attracted to females and 10 being fully attracted to males. Somewhere each person has their own position on that spectrum. Rather then have a simplistic order of how sexual development should be defined, why must a label be placed? Why can't we just be mature enough to be attracted to THIS person or THAT person for whatever reasons? I get so annoyed when "gay" men act like they have been violated because they saw a human vagina. Grow the fuck up and stop acting like a 10 year old.
Fuck the labels , some of the shit i see on this site makes my head spin
 
And others like what they like, and they are different from you. Whether you agree with the scale/spectrum or not, you still have a place on it. And just because you're somewhere in the middle doesn't mean many others aren't on the far end.

So a gay guy is turned off by a vagina. What's it you anyway? Do you get bent out of shape if a lesbian says she's turned off by a penis? It has nothing to do with limiting yourself or a lack of maturity. We're all wired differently to like/dislike certain things.

I hope I didn't sound mean lol. I don't care who is turned on by what I have no place to judge, but some gay men act like children reading out of a biology book for the first time. For example, nobody should get grossed out by a human body part. Some become "over-dramatic" at the sight of a vagina, and make a bigger fuss about it then they need to. Example, "OH LOOK GROSS A PUSSY EWWWW I Don't WANNA SEE IT!." There are plenty of gay men who don't have that reaction. Like why is a person grossed out if they see a vagina for a split second, nobody told them to do anything to it. I know many lesbians who don't dramatize the notion they will have nightmares or vomit if they see my weiner or another man's weiner when changing. It's many times the same people who over-flaunt their sexuality as if they feel they need to clarify with themselves who they are. That is what I meant to say.
 
Why have labels?

So you know what's inside the jar. Its annoying thinking you got strawberry jam but really you got beetroot jam. Not so good on scones.

Why limit our capacity to explore our sexuality?

Saying your gay/straight doesn't limit capacity to explore sexuality, lack of attraction to the opposite/same sex does that.

Sure some people give up the opportunity for sexual exploration, but i'd suggest its more to do with societal views on this behaviour deters the individual rather than a label.
 
Someone with the ability to not be attracted to someone/something and still accept that person or body part as something natural and not totally freak out? That's the kind of person I like to hang out with.

That's EXACTLY what I've been trying to say. Thank you :D
 
None of us, none, is totally liberated from the influences that social engineering imposes upon us, yet, through our life's experiences we learn to free our self from the constraints that our earlier life attempts to impose upon us.

Time, and a willingness to learn from our experiences, moulds us into the human being better able to live our life as the complete human person.
 
Why have labels? Why limit our capacity to explore our sexuality? I firmly believe we live in such a sexually repressive society due to our social structure that has set limits and regulations that cause us to develop these irrational mentalities.

Some believe in a spectrum, 1 Being fully attracted to females and 10 being fully attracted to males. Somewhere each person has their own position on that spectrum. Rather then have a simplistic order of how sexual development should be defined, why must a label be placed? Why can't we just be mature enough to be attracted to THIS person or THAT person for whatever reasons? I get so annoyed when "gay" men act like they have been violated because they saw a human vagina. Grow the fuck up and stop acting like a 10 year old.

put lot folk out job no labels

ans rest there centurys obvious but no wanna put lot folk out job spill drip on it

but if cultures little folk (grow up)<is dat paradox?> ans keep ask same drip

go help change da drip

on another note any folk come internet eva check their countrys historys what stills livin?

;)

fairys wish ya quick recovery

nows how da make ya cock pretty in da moonlight
 
None of us, none, is totally liberated from the influences that social engineering imposes upon us, yet, through our life's experiences we learn to free our self from the constraints that our earlier life attempts to impose upon us.

Time, and a willingness to learn from our experiences, moulds us into the human being better able to live our life as the complete human person.


internet got learn not talks da absluoteins

it not human it cultures full of shit pretend be humans

not all life of da shit molded modern<hohoho cultures

just a adds ons

;)

ans if folk of cultures wanna cut ta da chase deal with da label as is what full of shit
 
None of us, none, is totally liberated from the influences that social engineering imposes upon us, yet, through our life's experiences we learn to free our self from the constraints that our earlier life attempts to impose upon us.

Time, and a willingness to learn from our experiences, moulds us into the human being better able to live our life as the complete human person.

I LOVE YOU! Now put that statement and use it on a global scale, that is what I've been trying to tell people in the political section.
 
I LOVE YOU! Now put that statement and use it on a global scale, that is what I've been trying to tell people in the political section.

I dont remember you saying that buddy. can you link me? I would like to read that.
 
I dont remember you saying that buddy. can you link me? I would like to read that.

I made the statement but on a global scale. We grow and learn in just one lifetime, while society evolves over thousands and thousands of years.

I do not believe human nature is to be greedy, I believe human nature varies based on psychological development and environment.

Human nature is not greedy, and by stating so you throw the whole concept of psychology in the trash. How socialism will come to be was explained already in deeper meaning. A description is best understood when one has a background in philosophy and has spent YEARS reading upon the subject rather a few days or weeks, reread this.



"We socialists do not wish to have our own party, for that concept is quite hypocritical. I do not agree with the concept of the American Communist Party or parties such as the Communist Party Of China. I know the Party of china will lead to eventual failure for all the oxymora that preside in the party itself. For example we do not agree with the the entire aspect of the American democratic party, but we favor their agenda because they grant more power and rights to man kind on a larger basis. Gay marriage, clean energy, higher wages, are all on the table of the democratic party and that is why Socialists many times side with Obama, though Obama is of the Capitalist system. Future democratic agenda will change the way people think, and the more people change their way of thinking, the more human and intellectual we become. Socialists in other nations think like-wise, for they are the proletariat that tend to reconstruct the agenda of their own politics, and slowly fix the social problems at hand there. The republican party, with the concept of conservatism (conserving the structure at the present and preventing progressive change) just keeps society back-peddling. "

Socialism will work and come to be based on the liberal measures we implement in our present day society. Basically, the future is determined on how we build our society TODAY. The mind is a powerful tool, because the mind constructs the future environment, and this pattern has ALWAYS taken place in history. The minds of the slavery era eventually developed into feudalism, because changes were made over time via ideas and inventions that gave more knowledge to the oppressed slaves that built that society. You know how we keep learning certain lessons and measures in our own personal lives as we grow older?

We gain tools to deal with certain obstacles and situations the older we grow. We fail to make the right choices when we are younger, because we do not obtain social skills and crucial tools at that time. Make more sense now? Stop worrying about other people and look at yourself, what kind of person are YOU? Change is ALWAYS possible, and when you say you can't do something, or society says it can't do something, it reveals just how childlike our society is in terms of its mentality as a whole. But alas, change is good and inevitable when progressive ideas are taking place.

Example, fighting for green energy is ONE key element to socialism. Green energy that is powered by solar panels and wind opens the doors to not requiring money to keep our world powered. You could fill the entire Nevada desert with solar panels and without ANY other plants using nuclear energy (Toxic waste that pollutes the earth and wastes millions to clean up) or coal which become a thing of the past because we LEARNED how dangerous those methods are. People continue sucking the blood of the earth (oil) and don't care that sink holes are developing around the earth causing massive damage and home losses and lets not forget the growing number of earthquakes. Just one example how Capitalism is damaging the planet because oil produces BILLIONS of dollars in profit for capitalists that make energy a business.

It's basically little baby steps that allow us to evolve naturally on our own. THAT is how socialism works. People learn on their own that things are MORE efficient without the concepts of "money" because the need to accumulate money/profit leads to so many other crises poverty and starvation being the biggest ones.

As for china, it was NEVER communist to begin with. I am going to write a summary of the history of the soviet union with specific key points in its government structure that will help everyone comprehend just how fucked up American text books are. I do not support the government of the USSR and I think its very sad how many lives were lost. China, I admire for its structure of Capitalism because they are progressing. I am not happy that they are CAPITALIST, I am happy they are moving forward, for they are NOT "going back to Capitalism." They were ALWAYS Capitalist to begin with. They used money and the notion of being a country and being surrounded by "countries" the entire time.

In a simplistic notion, Capitalism is taught in our textbooks that it is an economic model, but with a deeper and more complex observation that is omniscient, it is nothing more then an "era" of society. An imperfect era that is so heavily flawed NEVER lasts forever, because all the growing in that era develops something that is BETTER.

For those who don't know politics or me, the USSR was a government of state capitalism. Just wanted to leave that note.
 
I'm gay and that’s all that really matters...but do have to ask KrisHawkXXX when someone ask if you are gay/straight/bi etc what do you tell them, that you are undefined...and since you don't believe in orientation (being in it's simplest form) what do you check under race and gender on forms, other as well since you don't want to be labeled and placed?
 
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