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On Topic Discussion I hate this time of year!

Kulindahr

Kulindahr

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Some of your already know the problem.

Here I've been, all winter long, preceded by most of fall and much of Spring, being attracted almost exclusively to guys, with an occasional gal catching my attention. Now that Spring is here, that attraction is jumping all over the place -- guys one day, gals another, both a third. It's confusing and makes it hard to concentrate.

And it's scary. If I should ever manage to have a BF, when Spring rolls around will I suddenly be finding the gals on the street hotter than he is? For that matter, what if I meet a guy who would be my perfect BF in the Spring, and just am not interested? or what if I fall for a gal in the summer, and suddenly in the fall she looks ugly to me?




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Sorry, just wanna tease you. You don't usually make this kind of thread ^^V

Seems you have seasonal anxiety.
 
I'd say that's why God gave you longer arms and an active imagination. You know, for the days when you're finding somebody besides your partner extremely attractive.

Unless this is bait for the "bisexuals can't make up their mind" folks, or the "bisexuals should be allowed to have somebody on the side" folks, or the "this is why you can't trust bisexuals" folks. In which case, pretend I didn't post.

Lex
 
freefall said:
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Sorry, just wanna tease you. You don't usually make this kind of thread ^^V

Seems you have seasonal anxiety.
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Seasonal anxiety . . . could be. Add that to the seasonal alteration in sexuality....

By mid summer I expect I'll be slightly more attracted to gals than to guys, but there won't be any wild swings, and it won't be this intense either direction. I'll be able to think clearly again. At the moment, I can be working up on the hill at my conservation project, some hot chick goes by -- or worst of all, a hot chick with a hot boyfriend -- and I can't remember what I was on the hill for, why I brought up the bucket of supplies I have, what my goal for the day is... and it keeps on like that for an hour or more.
 
G-Lexington said:
I'd say that's why God gave you longer arms and an active imagination. You know, for the days when you're finding somebody besides your partner extremely attractive.

Unless this is bait for the "bisexuals can't make up their mind" folks, or the "bisexuals should be allowed to have somebody on the side" folks, or the "this is why you can't trust bisexuals" folks. In which case, pretend I didn't post.

Lex
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This has been used by the "I hate bisexuals!" cadre before as ammunition. I've also been accused of making it up. My psychologist, an expert in coming-out issues, has spent a lot of time on it, and says I'm not alone.

Long arms -- what, to have one person under each? :confused:
 
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You'd be an angry motherfucker all the time, too, if your arms were too short to reach your cock.

Lex
 
You are of course entitled to enjoy a good fantasy no matter what the gender or the season even if you only want an exclusively monogamous relationship. While I only share my bed with the one man I love, in our fantasies (in each other's arms even!) we have both imagined other men joining us. Occasionally one of them even brings a woman! Now that's kinky.
 
How important to you are/how well do these fit:
Monogamy
Loyalty
Flexible arrangements
Polyamory
Conventional marriage
Sex-positive open-mindedness
Exclusivity and share private experiences
Sexual self-control or maybe I mean autonomy
The ability to relinquish control to a trusted partner
Whole relationship
No strings attached
Some strings attached.
Social respectability
Stability
Variety
Constant or variable sex drive

How do you rank those things? How do you need a partner to rank those things?
What if you met a bisexual woman in the summer when she was attracted to men but then sometime around Labour Day she felt a rising interest in women just as your interest was beginning to feel satiated? Like a migrating bird she'd move to her winter home with her girlfriend, just as her girlfriend was sending her man your way. Maybe the odd foursome at thanksgiving long weekend before the pattern reverses itself in the spring.

It would be impossibly rare but it is an interesting thought experiment to find a baseline "optimal state" from which to build relationships in the real world.
 
You sound like those spoiled rich kids that need a 64 gb iPod because they need to have every song with them at all times in case they want to hear it.

"Let me ditch my boyfriend when it's inconvenient for me, or when I'm not 100% attracted to him". Good luck with that.

This has nothing to do with sexuality and everything to do with selfishness.

I mean, as a gay man, I could say, "oh I get so turned on by those pretty boys in their speedos in the summer, and don't feel very attracted to my boyfriend. It's not my fault, it's just natural." Sure, there's truth to that, but there's also the feelings of your loved one.

Usually I'm very permissive about sexuality and fetishes and whatever (and I think people should do whatever pleases them, even if other people say ewwwwww that's disgusting), but this has more to do with responsibility and maturity than sexuality.
 
Lube I suspect he is rather more concerned with fairness to another person.
 
Guys, guys...stop dumping on Kuli...if you bothered to read his stats under his avatar, it reads "bisexual" but also more importantly, it is listed as "SINGLE!" So there is no potential harm or foul to any poor, unsuspecting "significant other." Even if there was, the OP was merely lamenting the fact that as a bisexual, "sometimes you feel like a nut...sometimes you don't." Kuli, I have full faith that when you do enter in a loving relationship with either gender, you'll have your thoughts solely on that lucky person, 365.24 days a year!!
 
Kuli, just stay pro-Obama and regard well any endangered species. And remember to shout "fire in the hole" as appropriate.
 
bankside said:
What if you met a bisexual woman in the summer when she was attracted to men but then sometime around Labour Day she felt a rising interest in women just as your interest was beginning to feel satiated? Like a migrating bird she'd move to her winter home with her girlfriend, just as her girlfriend was sending her man your way. Maybe the odd foursome at thanksgiving long weekend before the pattern reverses itself in the spring.

It would be impossibly rare but it is an interesting thought experiment to find a baseline "optimal state" from which to build relationships in the real world.
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Now that sounds interesting. Though in a country with marriage equality we could just all four get married.
 
Lube said:
You sound like those spoiled rich kids that need a 64 gb iPod because they need to have every song with them at all times in case they want to hear it.

"Let me ditch my boyfriend when it's inconvenient for me, or when I'm not 100% attracted to him". Good luck with that.

This has nothing to do with sexuality and everything to do with selfishness.

I mean, as a gay man, I could say, "oh I get so turned on by those pretty boys in their speedos in the summer, and don't feel very attracted to my boyfriend. It's not my fault, it's just natural." Sure, there's truth to that, but there's also the feelings of your loved one.

Usually I'm very permissive about sexuality and fetishes and whatever (and I think people should do whatever pleases them, even if other people say ewwwwww that's disgusting), but this has more to do with responsibility and maturity than sexuality.
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Wow -- what a way to turn my post upside down!
 
Lube said:
You sound like those spoiled rich kids that need a 64 gb iPod because they need to have every song with them at all times in case they want to hear it.

"Let me ditch my boyfriend when it's inconvenient for me, or when I'm not 100% attracted to him". Good luck with that.

This has nothing to do with sexuality and everything to do with selfishness.



I mean, as a gay man, I could say, "oh I get so turned on by those pretty boys in their speedos in the summer, and don't feel very attracted to my boyfriend. It's not my fault, it's just natural." Sure, there's truth to that, but there's also the feelings of your loved one.

Usually I'm very permissive about sexuality and fetishes and whatever (and I think people should do whatever pleases them, even if other people say ewwwwww that's disgusting), but this has more to do with responsibility and maturity than sexuality.
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BAM!! And there it is, the ol' bisexuals are selfish BS. And only 10 threads in. Nice. Responsibility? Pleeeeeaaaassssseee. Who you kidding. it's just plain condescension.
 
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