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I have a crush on a minor! WTD?

When a 18 year old boy has a crush on an a 14 year old girl society views that as cute and charming. But, if it's 2 guys that ups the "ick" factor.
 
1st love ron said:
When a 18 year old boy has a crush on an a 14 year old girl society views that as cute and charming. But, if it's 2 guys that ups the "ick" factor.
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Rarely.

Most parents are alarmed and think he is too mature for her, and just wants to fuck her.

I had a church member whose home I had to stay at all day because he (19) and she (on her 16th biorthday, thank God for legal reasons) spent the night at the hotel and I had to keep various family members from killing him.

18 year old boys are toxic for 14 year old girls, ask any parent of a 14 year old girl.
 
OMG he said that it was a crush not that he was shagging the boy under the bleachers at school.
 
Jack has a good point -- but in the lower classes of society, there are also a lot of parents who couldn't give a crap, as long as no one gets pregnant. And if the boy is rich, the 14-yo's parents may encourage it.
 
My advice is to keep it as a crush, to be honest. Even if he agreed to going out with you or even doing anything sexual with you, then besides the fact that it's illegal, maybe he'd regret it in a few years' time. I certainly wouldn't have been ready for something that serious at 14.
 
Well... if its a crush fine, what u gonna do bout it. But leave it at that. Seriously, either wait until he is legal or just find someone else ur age.
 
One more thing I should have mentioned, where I live, there are about ten out and proud gay teenagers in the area. If one in ten really are gay, then shouldn't there be 40 to 50 per high school? I live in the heart of Homophobia North West, btw. That's why a kid of 14 telling me he is gay was such a shock.
 
Motyrassy said:
One more thing I should have mentioned, where I live, there are about ten out and proud gay teenagers in the area. If one in ten really are gay, then shouldn't there be 40 to 50 per high school? I live in the heart of Homophobia North West, btw. That's why a kid of 14 telling me he is gay was such a shock.
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That 1 in 10 figure was wrong; the study that did it was discredited some time back. A more accurate figure is 4 - 6%.

As for a kid saying something: there seems to be some odd quirk that kids aren't really serious about it, or something. I know of more than a few places where being gay or whatever is fine if you're still in high school, but not after; being bi is fine if you're younger than like your 40s, but not after.
Strange.
 
As much as I appreciate all of the advice from folks here, most of you are telling me whether I should or should not have sex with him. I have no real interest in going that far. What no one has said yet is what an alternative could be, how I should handle the situation. Should I simply ignore the guy entirely, stop answering the phone when he calls, and dodge him in the hallways or is there something else I could do to better the situation.

For those of you who think that sex will always be the ultimate end of this, humor me for a moment.
 
I'd say just be friends with him. You don't have to ignore his calls or dodge him in the hall. Just keep all of the interaction plutonic and enjoy his company.
 
Well, friends is ok and always will be because for a very big reason you are both students and you both go to the same school. As, everone here knows I do not condone any type of sexual crime, I even recieved a demerit, or whatever the hell it's called for some very heated posts. It is normal to make friends in High School from various grades and to be friends for many years, that is not unusuall. the problem with romance would be that he still is not able to know what he wants fully just yet. the point is always what is your intent? to have a mutual relationship with no power diferential? sex crime is about power.

Considerations, 14 is not considered an age of consent, what would we do if two 14 yrolds had sex, arrest them both, I don't know, I doubt it.
4 years difference is considered generally as a possible crime
minors not being able to consent can be vetoed by parents, let's say two minors have sex the one is somewhat older than the other the two love each other but the parents disapprove, the parents can bring suit aginst the older one against the wishes of the minor.
btw a younger person can abuse an older person it is about power not about age.
if this was confusing and totally unhelpful, i'm sorry. :)
 
Somewhere back there I posted one that covered everything from sex (because it was on everyone's minds) to what the law might have to say (because that was a good aspect someone brought up) to just what relationship I thought would be good. In short: no sex, keep your distance, but friendly is kool.
 
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