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I just want a white boyfriend.

Senben said:
I must admit that i am exactly the same as you. im a blonde haired, blue eyed white boy and i find white guys incredibly attractive, but when it comes to any other race i dont feel a thing.
im not racist at all, have friends of close to every race, and have even been to multiple race related protests.
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Did we really have to bring this thread back from the dead?
 
But JayQueer was quick to bemoan his sad existence again, so it's all good.

Btw, I'm the same. I'm beginning to think that there is a totally different racial sexuality that has nothing to do with the gender one...
 
I am not a racist. I have friends in almost every race. However, when it comes to dating...I'm only attracted to Klingons.
 
asdf said:
Call me shallow or racist, I don't care. Lately, I've realized that as much as I've considered myself to be an open person by being open to dating other Asians (I myself am Asian) I realized that I probably wouldn't take it farther than a date. And I want a relationship with a whitie guy.

But, I don't think that will happen. I mean, I'm actually pretty attractive and I don't have a stank personality, I just don't think that (getting a hot white boyfriend) will happen. Plus, I feel like my expectatioins for this said boyfriend is just way too high. I dream of like a male-model-ish white boyfriend... yeah I know lol.

Anyways, how am I supposed to help myself? I don't want to not date hot white guys, I just want this obsession to be less obsessive.
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Well I'm white and like asian guys. ;)
 
lucky7 said:
Racism in this world has affected and molded the way you are attracted to people and it affects us all in different ways. It's just a sad fact of life.
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This.

Also, feel free to only want a boyfriend who looks like this or that, but don't bitch to me about how lonely you are and how you can never seem to find anyone to date or have a relationship with, or about how awful all gay men are because no one who meets your narrow criteria will go out with you.
 
MoltenRock III said:
Always find it interesting when a "noob" necromongers a topic such as this.
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Yawn. A mod should just jump on this thread. If you're attracted to someone of a particular skin color. That's great. No need to bump a 3-year old thread to tell us. There's a blog feature for that.
 
maxpowr9 said:
Yawn. A mod should just jump on this thread. If you're attracted to someone of a particular skin color. That's great. No need to bump a 3-year old thread to tell us. There's a blog feature for that.
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Agreed! I'd wish they spent their time on threads like these vs reinforcing lonely,single, old, white dudes, commenting on how superior white culture is. :confused:
 
Well, if these guys want white guys so much, why aren't they dating all those lonely old white dudes?
 
I`m white and i`ve chatted with tons of white guys that we`re interested in black or asian guys only ! anything CAN happen!
 
500 hundred years ago, everyone was attracted to their own race.

Now, because of movie stars/Hollywood/TV shows most are attracted to one type of race/look.
 
I understand we have preferences because I have them myself, I honestly don't follow 1 or 2 races but I catch myself leaning towards one, but all in all I love MEN! My boyfriend had a preference to date a "white" male and I'm not white I'm black Hispanic, and he truly loves me. It goes to show you should always give chances to other racism instead of ignoring some guys because of the shades of their skin.

You never know maybe youll be laying next to a African American, holding you tight and giving you all they can give! but for those who prefer one type, theres more men for those who appreciate em in all colors
 
JayQueer said:
Take a look at the models that are used for Abercrombie & Fitch, American Eagle, Ralph Lauren, Banana Republic, Armani, etc. How do the majority of the male models look like? They are, the majority of the time, young, fit White men with blonde or brown hair. Consider the majority of Hollywood male "heartthrobs." What is their race? They're almost all White.

It's no coincidence that in Latin America, Africa, Asia, and India -- most people have no interest in tanning. Instead they want "skin lightening creams." Why? To have a lighter, more fair complexion -- to look more "White."
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I would like to make some comments on some of the above statements raised by JayQueer.

* go back in time, let say 100 - 150 years, and try to figure out the ideal skin colour of white people of the upper class living in Europe. In those days, these white people of the upper class tried to avoid the Sun as much as possible, and tried to maintain their skin as white as possible. This was not a 'race' issue. In those days, white people living in Western Europe with a tanned skin belonged to the lower class, ie people who needed to work outside, mostly on the fields as -poor- farmers. Having a pure white skin was a signal that a particular person had enough money to let others do this kind of jobs.

* go back in time, let say 50 - 75 years, and major brands like Abercrombie & Fitch, American Eagle, Ralph Lauren, Banana Republic, Armani (and many others emphasizing the same 'value of life') did not need to advertise for people with a coloured skin (let say blacks and Indians for reasons of simplicity). In those days this was the case in the US for all black people (including all people with a non-white skin, others over here will be able to explain why this is the case), and in India this was the case for all Indians (India was still a colony of the UK, and others over here will be able to explain more about the situation).

Jayqueer, I tend to think that you need to follow some classes in history, or read some books or other sources about history, to get a better grip on these themes.

lucky7 wrote:
Racism in this world has affected and molded the way you are attracted to people and it affects us all in different ways. It's just a sad fact of life.
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I had extensive discussions about this topic with alot of people from different backgrounds and with people living in different countries. I fully agree with this statement of Lucky7. It is indeed a sad fact of life. That's all what I would like to say about it.
 
Re: I should know better than to enter a race thread

It's all in how you present yourself.

If you say you don't want to date a guy because you don't find him attractive, you're fine.
If you say you don't want to date a guy because he's <insert race here> then you're in no position to complain if you get accused of racism.
 
I don't agree. I realize I risk being dubbed racist, but I'm really not. I have a lot of Asian friends, and a few black ones (which is mainly because the place where I live doesn't have a huge black population, and almost none in my school). I guess racism has played a part in everybody's life, true, but my home country doesn't have other races at all, so it's never been a real issue in my life.

I have never consciously thought "I only want white men", but as I've explored my sexuality, I realized I am just not physically attracted to black men, and VERY rarely attracted to Asians. There is just no physical response on my part. It's the same as with girls - I can appreciate when they are good looking, cute or hot, but it's purely analytical...

That said, I have a friend who ONLY likes Asian men. He just doesn't get attracted to other races. And I know for a fact that he IS racist. So I really don't think it's racism that defines who we're attracted to.
 
I think that part of the issue is that "racist" is a pretty charged word.
Essentially, it means you've made a decision based on race.
In practice, it gets interpreted as meaning that you actively dislike people of a certain race. This isn't really fair, but that's the way most people tend to think.

I find the whole idea a little odd simply because race is such a poorly defined concept that while it has a social meaning, it's physical meaning has become less and less relevant over time.

But anyway, suppose that you don't find brown skin attractive. You're approached by a guy with brown skin.
All you really have to say at that point is that you're not interested in him. If you say you're not interested in him because he has brown skin, you're just picking a fight at that point.
Even if the skin colour was the deciding factor for you, mentioning that fact is just asking for trouble.



Rolyo85 said:
I don't agree. I realize I risk being dubbed racist, but I'm really not. I have a lot of Asian friends, and a few black ones (which is mainly because the place where I live doesn't have a huge black population, and almost none in my school). I guess racism has played a part in everybody's life, true, but my home country doesn't have other races at all, so it's never been a real issue in my life.

I have never consciously thought "I only want white men", but as I've explored my sexuality, I realized I am just not physically attracted to black men, and VERY rarely attracted to Asians. There is just no physical response on my part. It's the same as with girls - I can appreciate when they are good looking, cute or hot, but it's purely analytical...

That said, I have a friend who ONLY likes Asian men. He just doesn't get attracted to other races. And I know for a fact that he IS racist. So I really don't think it's racism that defines who we're attracted to.
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Of course I would never tell someone I'm not interested in them cause they're not white. That's just bad manners. I was simply saying that I am really NOT attracted to certain races (it's not just the skin, but also body structure, facial features etc), and that has nothing to do with choices I've made or preconceptions I have. Not being attracted to black people doesn't make me racist any more than not being attracted to women makes me sexist.


...although I am a little sexist...
 
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