I Sucked A Straight Friend, Now He Acts Strange

[jizzinmypants]

Ok, here'd an update: It's been about a year since I started sucking off this straight guy. I still see him about once a month, it's gotten pretty intense. Basically, I'm still just sucking him off. He fucked my ass twice, no condom, he just shot into me. I know he's just using me for a quick fuck, but at this point I don't care. He's just a fantastic lay. Our deal is basically, I worship his cock, and maybe he pounds my ass afterwards. He won't let me kiss him but I don't care. He never gets me off, he just finds a way to spew and then he's done. I really love him but I know I'm just his easy whore at this point. What should I do? He has a girlfriend now but he's still fucking me.

At this point you might as well continue to be his mistress since its been going on so long and its fun for you both. As far as you being in love with him, good luck with that. You're going to get hurt but you don't deserve sympathy because you understood going in that that he was using you for sex.

 

[rokakadog]

I had a similar situation with a straight guy that lasted 2.5 years. He'd just come by when he wanted to blow a load. The sex got better with every month, but it was always about getting him off. Then this past January he fell off the face of the earth. I'm guessing his wife found out.

It was great while it lasted and now it's over. Hope something similar happens again but had no illusions about what was going on.

At least I didn't work with him...

 

[redbomb]

thanks for the update, i remember reading this when it was new.

i think you should keep doing it. as long as your fine with the situation. if your okay with never getting more than what he is willing to give you.

 

[rjason2425]

I had to respond to this. I have the same situation on and off for about 8 years with my best friend.
I was completely in love with him. We began to do things too when drinking. He started it. The first time he started stroking his Dick out side of his pants when I was messaging him. I sucked him off he said thanks and went to bed. He got very weird the next day we had gone out to the gay bar for kybirthday where he picked a fight with a guy who was looking at him. Go figure trying to prove his masculinity.
We started doing things again a few months later, me sucking him off. I finally brought some jerk off toys into it, different lube and things. Finally I started fingering his ass which he loved and will never admit it. Finally after awhile I felt used and I wanted to be loved so bad in return. This whole time I thought he was just getting comfortable and would eventually start loving me.
He started tucking girls and i was devastated. I cried everyday for weeks. It hurt me so very badly.
Then he would come around again, tell me they broke up and he could never get off with them like he could with me. Stupid me, I sucked him off again.
During this whole time of him wanting it he would turn at times and say I took advantage of him because he was drunk. I was floored. If anybody was being taken advantage of it was me being used.
But it continued. We would be on then he would freak out and not talk for months. Come back apologize and start things up again.
Finally he said one night. I want to know what its like for gay guys, dropped his pants and wanted me to fuck him. I was Sooo nervous I couldn't get a full on erection. But we fucked for a few minutes real slow. Then I got on top of him and road his cock. It felt wonderful!
That was the last time anything happened. We remain friends and he is actually living with me for a ear now. I have set my feelings aside to remain friends. It's been working out. I never regret what we have done, if he offers im on it. Knowing what of only will be.
Lately he has been bringing up what we have done, especially the ass, I think he is wanting it again. Has to be his idea, I will not be responsible.
That's my story, if you can separate your feeling.vs, then have fun. If not, you will be heart broken when he is done using you. And it hurts very very bad. Be careful, have fun and when you can't stand the lack of love and emotion, get out for your own sanity. If you get heart broken, you will heal in time, don't do anything crazy. Surround yourself with people who love you.

 

[Bittersweet One]

Hi Romalotti! So I was wondering if you could elaborate on how it all went down when he fucked you, if you don't mind telling of course.

 

[Telstra]

I had to respond to this. I have the same situation on and off for about 8 years with my best friend.
I was completely in love with him. We began to do things too when drinking. He started it. The first time he started stroking his Dick out side of his pants when I was messaging him. I sucked him off he said thanks and went to bed. He got very weird the next day we had gone out to the gay bar for kybirthday where he picked a fight with a guy who was looking at him. Go figure trying to prove his masculinity.
We started doing things again a few months later, me sucking him off. I finally brought some jerk off toys into it, different lube and things. Finally I started fingering his ass which he loved and will never admit it. Finally after awhile I felt used and I wanted to be loved so bad in return. This whole time I thought he was just getting comfortable and would eventually start loving me.
He started tucking girls and i was devastated. I cried everyday for weeks. It hurt me so very badly.
Then he would come around again, tell me they broke up and he could never get off with them like he could with me. Stupid me, I sucked him off again.
During this whole time of him wanting it he would turn at times and say I took advantage of him because he was drunk. I was floored. If anybody was being taken advantage of it was me being used.
But it continued. We would be on then he would freak out and not talk for months. Come back apologize and start things up again.
Finally he said one night. I want to know what its like for gay guys, dropped his pants and wanted me to fuck him. I was Sooo nervous I couldn't get a full on erection. But we fucked for a few minutes real slow. Then I got on top of him and road his cock. It felt wonderful!
That was the last time anything happened. We remain friends and he is actually living with me for a ear now. I have set my feelings aside to remain friends. It's been working out. I never regret what we have done, if he offers im on it. Knowing what of only will be.
Lately he has been bringing up what we have done, especially the ass, I think he is wanting it again. Has to be his idea, I will not be responsible.
That's my story, if you can separate your feeling.vs, then have fun. If not, you will be heart broken when he is done using you. And it hurts very very bad. Be careful, have fun and when you can't stand the lack of love and emotion, get out for your own sanity. If you get heart broken, you will heal in time, don't do anything crazy. Surround yourself with people who love you.

This story reminds me of this song:
[ame]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OZtUjFJvYkA[/ame]

 

[rjason2425]

Wow, good song. Thanks for posting.

 

[Steamer]

At this point you might as well continue to be his mistress since its been going on so long and its fun for you both. As far as you being in love with him, good luck with that. You're going to get hurt but you don't deserve sympathy because you understood going in that that he was using you for sex.

He can stop anytime and get some self respect back; right on about the love, though.

 

[whatdidyousay]

Ok, here'd an update: It's been about a year since I started sucking off this straight guy. I still see him about once a month, it's gotten pretty intense. Basically, I'm still just sucking him off. He fucked my ass twice, no condom, he just shot into me. I know he's just using me for a quick fuck, but at this point I don't care. He's just a fantastic lay. Our deal is basically, I worship his cock, and maybe he pounds my ass afterwards. He won't let me kiss him but I don't care. He never gets me off, he just finds a way to spew and then he's done. I really love him but I know I'm just his easy whore at this point. What should I do? He has a girlfriend now but he's still fucking me.

Dude some of these people are giving you the worst advice possible. You sound completely head over heels for a douche bag who is using your ass and will never, ever love you. I mean to be honest he sounds like he barely even wants you; you are nothing but a quick cum dumpster for this guy. Just a living condom he can just toss in the garbage whenever he is done getting his load off. This dude will never give you what you need, want, or hell what you deserve. Why continue another day in this situation? Is having this dude's stank dick in your mouth really worth your last drop of self respect??

To be honest I'd be looking inside and seriously asking what do I really think of myself that I'd be willing to scrape the bottom like this. You are better than this. This situation is a dead end. No human being, man or woman, deserves to be treated like this. But the worse thing is that he's not treating you half as bad as you're treating yourself dude by staying in this bullshit situation. Get out!

 

[Bi Married Male]

He's not a virgin, he's actually been with quite a few girls. Anyway, I've blown him three times since my last post. It's the same every time - he sits on the couch with his eyes closed while I kneel in front of him and suck him until he cums in my mouth. He's always drunk when this happens. He told me that he's not gay, but just likes getting an 'easy BJ' (his words). I can't help but have some feelings for him. I know it won't lead to anything, so I've decided to just settle for getting his dick in mouth every once in a while. He doesn't seem uncomfortable around me anymore. In fact, he occasionally jokes with me at work about it (he talks about his dick to me a lot lately. Things like 'I got a hard-on that won't go away today' while he smiles at me & 'I could go for a good blowjob later, what do ya think?'). Honestly, I enjoy sucking him so much, I don't think I could stop at this point.

Sound so hot, enjoy it while it lasts...It is like a fame that lasts only 15 minutes in reality....


A few photos to boost everyones imagination. Face it your just fucking lucky.

 

[Bi Married Male]

When he fucked you did he lick your ass to lube it, or spit on his finger to lube you or did you have to lube yourself? What position did he fuck you in?

 

[Ninja108]

Here's the thing..if you're fine with simply being used for sex, then go right ahead on fooling around with.
But if you're looking for something more,you aren't going to get it from,you've even said so yourself.

 

[Lokithetrue]

so as a mostly straight guy, I gotta tell you, if you actually love this guy, then you are setting yourself up for heartbreak. i could have sex with a guy and not feel anything for him other than gratitude, and maybe a close companionship. if you are cool with just sex, then keep on keeping on. if you need someone to love you back, then, uh, don't fool around with straight dudes. personally, I'd give my left nut to have a gay friend to fool around with, but i would never be anything less that 100% honest with him about whats going on in my head, and what the sex means to me.

 

[MisterMajestic]

so as a mostly straight guy, I gotta tell you, if you actually love this guy, then you are setting yourself up for heartbreak. i could have sex with a guy and not feel anything for him other than gratitude, and maybe a close companionship. if you are cool with just sex, then keep on keeping on. if you need someone to love you back, then, uh, don't fool around with straight dudes. personally, I'd give my left nut to have a gay friend to fool around with, but i would never be anything less that 100% honest with him about whats going on in my head, and what the sex means to me.

Everything you said was On-point...........I had a long-term Sexual relationship with my Bi-Bud before he moved out of state. At first we started out as Fuck-Buddies then it grew into a good friendship..We hung out and traveled and enjoyed each other's company. There was never any "commitment or strings". We never sat by the phone waiting for one to call the other. We were friends that enjoyed being with each other Sexually and Socially with NO drama in the mix...

Straight, Bisexual or Gay...."Friends with benefits" only becomes a problem if you allow yourself to believe your Bud wants more than your Mouth wrapped around his Dick...

 

[JNewYork]

LOL, when I wrote last year "I wouldn't be surprised if he came back for another blow," I didn't think it would be this good!

Enjoy it. Get all you can. Like others have said, Don't think he's going to fall in love with you but do enjoy yourself together.

I'd not let him cum in my ass though. That's reckless. Insist he use a condom. You're a bit crazy for taking that chance.

 

[Romalotti]

Ok, here'd an update: It's been about a year since I started sucking off this straight guy. I still see him about once a month, it's gotten pretty intense. Basically, I'm still just sucking him off. He fucked my ass twice, no condom, he just shot into me. I know he's just using me for a quick fuck, but at this point I don't care. He's just a fantastic lay. Our deal is basically, I worship his cock, and maybe he pounds my ass afterwards. He won't let me kiss him but I don't care. He never gets me off, he just finds a way to spew and then he's done. I really love him but I know I'm just his easy whore at this point. What should I do? He has a girlfriend now but he's still fucking me.

Ok, it's been a long time, but here's an update: He's engaged now and getting married this summer. He just told me that he's 'not going to be doing this shit' (his exact words) after the wedding. I know that I'm stupid for having feelings for him. In the whole two years we've been messing around, it's been purely physical. He never reciprocates after I blow him, and he's never even touched my dick while he's fucking me. He never showed the slightest inclination that he feels anything for me at all.

Lately, we see less of each other since he's always with his fiancé. I'm so jealous that she will get to be with him in the future. Do you think it would be wrong if I waited until a few months after his wedding and then came on to him again? I know he said he wasn't going to do anything with me once he got married, but maybe he was just saying that. I know that he likes fucking me, he gets really into it and the sex is just so hot. If he was 100% happy with his future wife, then why would he come to me for sex & BJ's? I just don't want to lose him forever.

 

[MatttheBruinsfan]

Do you think it would be wrong if I waited until a few months after his wedding and then came on to him again?

Not if you get his wife's permission beforehand. Otherwise, YES it would be wrong. Not the answer you want to hear, I realize, but at some point you've got to stop deluding yourself about this situation.

 

[StillWaters24592]

I'm so jealous that she will get to be with him in the future. Do you think it would be wrong if I waited until a few months after his wedding and then came on to him again? I know he said he wasn't going to do anything with me once he got married, but maybe he was just saying that. I know that he likes fucking me, he gets really into it and the sex is just so hot. If he was 100% happy with his future wife, then why would he come to me for sex & BJ's? I just don't want to lose him forever.

Yes, it would be wrong. Isn't this what people were warning you about originally?

 

[NEED2SUCK]

yeah it would be wrong...but i bet if u just sit tight he'll come sniffin' around again after a couple months

 

[Thrasher12]

Ok, it's been a long time, but here's an update: He's engaged now and getting married this summer. He just told me that he's 'not going to be doing this shit' (his exact words) after the wedding. I know that I'm stupid for having feelings for him. In the whole two years we've been messing around, it's been purely physical. He never reciprocates after I blow him, and he's never even touched my dick while he's fucking me. He never showed the slightest inclination that he feels anything for me at all.

Lately, we see less of each other since he's always with his fiancé. I'm so jealous that she will get to be with him in the future. Do you think it would be wrong if I waited until a few months after his wedding and then came on to him again? I know he said he wasn't going to do anything with me once he got married, but maybe he was just saying that. I know that he likes fucking me, he gets really into it and the sex is just so hot. If he was 100% happy with his future wife, then why would he come to me for sex & BJ's? I just don't want to lose him forever.

I hate to say it but; dude you never had him to begin with. As far as I understood it your friend was simply using you for sex and easy blowjob/sex, at best your relationship could have been described as one sided fuckbudies (since he tended to get off). Since he is getting married maybe now would be the time for you to finally move on and to try to find somebody to have a 'real' relationship with.

As for your friend...well leave him alone. If he trully is gay, than that marriage isn't going to last, it will only be a question a time before it crumbles and falls appart. But you won't be the one having caused it.