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I think the cat's out of the bag.

If she's a decent human being, then she'll probably understand the need for discretion.

(*8*)

And :kiss: just because I feel like it. ;)
 
You probably shouldn't worry about it too much.

Sometimes women can be very understanding.

When I went to youth pride for the first time someone on the board there was a girl who went to my school in my math class. I was so shocked and barely spoke and then afterwards told her not to tell anyone. She diddn't figure out I was gay until I told her not to tell anyone I was there. She actually was open about being lesbian I just haddn't heard about it.

And she diddn't understand it since she works at a gay youth place and deals with all kinds of people she understands. So I'm sure a bartender would understand as well.

Everything's gonna be okay :D
 
Piggy

You've got nothing to worry about

All will be fine (*8*)
 
(((((Aww, Piggy...))))) (*8*)

Honey, you're gay. You're not a serial killer or the uni-bomber or something....

Babe, you've got this thing SO built up in your own head that you are not thinking clearly...

It's OK to be YOU. You've done nothing wrong. Be *proud* of yourself, man !!

(And come out already....) :kiss:
 
It may all be okay because this is a good person, but I certainly understand why you are having stomach flip flops about it.
 
the bar's owner wouldn't want to jeopardize her business by outing her patrons.

you should be all right.
 
You'll be fine, sir pig. She doesn't run a gay bar for the purpose of announcing who the patrons are to interested parties. She runs a gay bar because she likes gays and their money. And she knows that she ain't gonna have a gay bar long if she has gossips outside the confines.

Lex
 
Piggy said:
some still don't like having a male working with young children.
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Why is that?

I AM NOT trying to incite anything there, but is your school heavily Hispanic? Because that is the thing I see here in Colorado; very 'traditional' sexual roles in that culture.

I ask because Up North, it is now darn close to a 50-50 split between male and female teachers. In fact, a number of people I know with kids tell me they would prefer a male teacher for their boys.

In fact, my Partner's sister taught Kindergarten in a 'burb of St. Paul MN for years (she retired a few years ago). She knew it was time to retire when one of her STUDENTS got hired to be the 'other' Kindergarten teacher. :D Anyway, her school was almost 80% male teachers.
 
the first gay pride event i was ever at was in Houston and it would have been the summer of 1984.

this guy my fraternity was rushing was showing me and a fraternity brother around houston. my fraternity brother and I were in Houston that summer doing an undergrad internship at the emergency psych ward at Ben Taub hospital. Anyway, this other guy was sort of showing us Houston, and we ended up on Westheimer, which was at the time the "gay" street/neighborhood in Houston. And it was pride parade day!

We watched for a while. For frat/wannabe frat guys, we were all appropriately freaked out.

This float passed by. On the float there were these bare-chested guys in mermaid's tails. This one black-haired guy, a little balding, with a moustache, and a very hairy chest (from my perspective now, a perfectly acceptably attractive middle aged-guy:D), was giving the "parade queen" wave to us all.

G., the guy from Houston showing us around, pointed at him and said, "That's my high school biology teacher."
 
Piggy said:
No, it's mostly white, upper middle class.

I think the hiring principal is the key factor. I've been to other schools in my district that had 2-3 male teachers. Some like the diversity, but others are stuck in the past.

The only male teachers I've met are mostly in 5th grade or provide services, like Music, Art, P.E, or like me, Special Education. ;)
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That's too bad. :(

White, Upper Middle Class Texans. :roll:

Do a lot of the Moms have that Big Texas Hair, too? :p And too much makeup?
 
Piggy, from one teacher to another, Live your life. You went to a gay bar. You did not go slutting around, making your business everyone else's. You did not bring your sexuality into the workplace where it doesn't belong. You went to a bar.

Guess what? Most parents don't give a rat's ass about your sexuality as long as you aren't sharing details of it at school. They care about whether or not you are good with their children. You are a young male who works with special education children--I guarantee you there are parents who already suspect you are gay anyway. Even if it's not a true stereotype, it's one many parents would probably believe. And most don't care.

Live your life, Darlin'. Be comfortable with who you are, and if it ever does come up, you'll then be able to stand up for yourself, rather than living in constant fear about something you can't change.

(*8*)
 
Killjoke said:
Piggy, from one teacher to another, Live your life. You went to a gay bar. You did not go slutting around, making your business everyone else's. You did not bring your sexuality into the workplace where it doesn't belong. You went to a bar.


Live your life, Darlin'. Be comfortable with who you are, and if it ever does come up, you'll then be able to stand up for yourself, rather than living in constant fear about something you can't change.

(*8*)
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^ Exactly !!!

We LUV ya, piglet. But, *sheesh*... trying to get through to you is like pulling teeth....

We'll be here when you finally decide..... Aren't you getting tired by now ? (*8*)
 
Piggy said:
^ I'm very stubborn. :(

I'm listening. I like having my work and personal life separate. It's when they meet, I have issues.

I want to change.
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And you're doing a fine job, Hon. You've come so far since your early days of posting on JUB. I think many of us are proud of you for the journey you're on.

:kiss:
 
I tend to build scenarios in my head about how bad things will happen. But, they never do. The outcome has always been good. When I came out to my closest (very str8)) friends, I imagined all kind of horrible reactions, but they just showed me love and we are closer than ever. Do not worry, all will be good. (*8*)
 
Kahaih said:
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No personal calls on company time, Mrs Slocomb.

Lex
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i doubt shes going to say anything. just tell her to go suck on a lemon.


Your human
 
Piggy, I think you'll be fine. I would imagine the she would know to be discreet about such things. Maybe you shouldn't wear your tutu to school anymore....just in case
 
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