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if u find out new bf is virgin, you will be happy or sad?

I think I'd have mixed feelings. On one hand I'd be like, "Ooooo, cool, a virgin!"

On the other hand I might be a little apprehensive because I wouldn't want to steal his virginity unless it's something he really wanted and we cared about each other and all that fun stuff. I mean, you only give up your virginity once. And I'd hate to take it away if I would end up NOT being the one he wanted to give it up to after all.

Shit, did that make any sense?

I need an aspirin.
 
DANNO said:
I would be so happy. Number one you wouldn't have to stress to much about his sexual past. Also you would be able to experience sex with him for the first time. I love my boyfriend very much and I love to experience new things with him. I think you should take it as an opportunity to bring you guys closer! Sex in your relationship can have a lot more meaning. It's not just something you do with him. Sex is a big deal to a virgin!
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Seriously Danno, every reply I read of yours is exactly what I would say... Bless you and damn you! I'm changing my signature to "What Danno Said," Sheesh!
 
if he is 25 years old, are u guys still happy and exciting for that? how about 30? can u accept that? I mean whether u guys have an age limitation for virgin?
 
someone with no experience who lasts 22 seconds.... wow.

virginity is nothing. it doesn't make someone a better person. and if they were older than early 20's I would wonder what is wrong with them that they are still a virgin.
 
my boyfriend was a virgin when we started dating. i waited longer to have sex with him than i normally would but i was fine with that because i really liked him. i did all i could to make his first time special and good and it's nice to know he's going to have positive memories of losing his virginity to me.
 
1. You can't disappoint us since we have no experience, so you the man!!!
2. You don't have to worry about catching some wonderful std from a virgin.
3. Virgins have a lot of time to make up for. :sex:
Virgins wait for someone they really care about to be their first time, whats wrong with that? :confused:

Just wait til you need us virgins to sacrifice to the volcano gods. ;)
 
spreadeagle said:
Men don't have a hymen.
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No, but it's the figure of speech, the 'expression', that someone whose never had sex (intercourse of any kind) is considered to be a virgin.

Or at least that's the way I look at it. Maybe some people think one has lost their virginity even from just kissing and touching, who the hell knows. But then, is a man who has fucked but has never been fucked himself a virgin? Or a half of a virgin? Because he's put himself inside of another man but hasn't had anyone inside of him. So is he still a virgin? Or will he not be "de-virginized" until he's had it both ways?

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Now I'm confusing myself, so I'll stop while I'm ahead.
 
I'm 22 years old, still a virgin, I don't think there's nothing wrong with that.
 
FirePhoenix said:
1. You can't disappoint us since we have no experience, so you the man!!!
2. You don't have to worry about catching some wonderful std from a virgin.
3. Virgins have a lot of time to make up for. :sex:
Virgins wait for someone they really care about to be their first time, whats wrong with that? :confused:

Just wait til you need us virgins to sacrifice to the volcano gods. ;)
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Unless they inherited bad aids or syphillis from their skanky cow of a mother.
 
If I found out my boyfriend was a virgin I would have excitement as well as apprehension. I am good size and I had one boyfriend who was a virgin. I think he was far less nervous about us having sex than me; I remember my first time and it was not pleasant. I wanted his to be something totally different.

Well, with lots of work, it went very well. Although we broke up some time after that, we continue to be very good friends and shared something unique.
 
I'd have mixed emotions. I know my sexual history, but you can only be sure of someone else's if they are a virgin, so I would be relieved that he wasn't a huge slut and I didn't have to worry about STD's.

However, as I'm practically a virgin myself, there would be a little bit of "aww, man!" because we would probably have bad sex, haha.
 
No big deal to me. If anything I would be a little more relaxed because you don't have to worry about being compared to men in his past
 
The fact of a new boyfriend is cause enough to rejoice, everything that comes after that is just gravy. Doesn't matter how old he is, except insofar as one finds onesself attracted or not attracted to persons of any one age or another (like he's under eighteen).

But like many have pointed out, it's a mixed blessing: on the one hand, he has no idea what it's supposed to be like, so he won't know if you're bad at it; on the other hand, nobody forgets his first time, and that's a lot of pressure to put on one act. But then, a non-virginal boyfriend is a mixed blessing, too. Very few blessings come unmixed in this world.

Final thought: I would be happy for him that he saved himself, would be thrilled and a bit scared that he chose me for his first, and would do my damnedest to live up to the trust he's put in me.
 
It really wouldn't matter to me. Not at all.
 
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