If you're gay and don't already know, beware of bisexual men...

[blackbeltninja]

With whom do you intend to settle down?

I'll tell you that. And then you'll tell me what this weekend's lottery numbers will be. Sound fair?

Do you see yourself marrying?

Yes.

Do you see yourself marrying a man, or a woman?

I'm still waiting for those lottery numbers.

In this relationship, do you see yourself as "faithful"

Yes.

And I'll tell you something else. You know how some gay guys and some straight guys like to have sex without commitments, just short-term relationships and stuff which are physical and not emotional? Surprisingly, some bi guys do too, albeit with both guys and girls.

Gosh, look at that. We're just like you after all!

-d-

 

[ronnie_h]

They don't want you for anything more than a potential sex partner or less and thats it. They don't want to share their hearts with US!

Hey, that's fine with me. Don't want any guy who looks after fish, except for sex of course.

 

[braex27]

I can't agree or disagree really with the OP only because whilst I acknowledge that it occurs - I am also witness to the fact that it occurs in all relationships - two gay men, two lesbian women, straight relationships...etc. Some people just want sex and won't want to get close to you. If you're lucky, you find someone who is upfront and honest and no one enters the relationship with any misapprehensions. If not, hopefully you can learn something from the experience and be better prepared next time.

 

[Ram]

I wish they can be more like us gay men, you know. I mean have you ever heard of a gay man leaving a relationship in order to marry a women and have a normal life? Completely unheard of. Why can't they behave more like us? We don't play games, we don't do one night fucks... It's something in their bisexual blood that makes them behave like normal men. I don't think I sound like one of those homophobic straight assholes when I say that I don't believe they are capable of having committed relationships.

I'm sorry bisexuals. I really like you bisexuals but I am not biphobic when I say that I don't date you lot -- I just can't stand your kind.

 

[jasoncrew03]

What are your goals in life?

To become a pediatric surgeon. Oh, and to punch every person who discriminates against others for no other reason than they're different at least once (Hi Ram! ).

With whom do you intend to settle down with?

An honest and loyal person with whom I deeply love and deeply loves me.

Do you see yourself marrying?

Yes.

Do you see yourself marrying a man, or a woman?

Depends on the man or the woman.

In this relationship, do you see yourself as "faithful", or do you see a downlow situation?

I would never and have never cheat on my partner whether whether we are dating or married. My father was/is a cheater and it's wrecked our family in more ways than one.

Or do you plan to just "wing it"?

Yes. I marry who I wind up marrying. I'm not gonna just look exclusively for men or women who would make a suitable life partner. I'm gonna have fun, date, and get to know the person and if I like the person that they are and I can trust them I'll pop the question. Their gender isn't a factor in any of that.

I'm asking because I don't know.

Then you really shouldn't be passing all these judgements on bisexuals if you know nothing about us now should you?

All I ask is that you be honest.

I'm always honest.

And now, I will listen.

And for this I thank you.

I'm sorry bisexuals. I really like you bisexuals but I am not biphobic when I say that I don't date you lot -- I just can't stand your kind.

Please leave. If you're going to be a bastard to us because we're bisexual at least have the balls to do it honestly. Don't say you're sorry and don't be sorry because you're not and I don't want your fake apology. And don't tell me that you like us because "you can't stand our kind". Whatever lies you need to tell yourself at night in order for you to feel like a good person (like the one about you not being biphobic) are your business but telling lies to my face (you know what I mean) in order to remove any blame from yourself for your prejudices is not OK. I am not a toddler nor am I a leper or terrorist so do not treat me like one. I am a man, a BISEXUAL man and if you don't like it than you can just fucking leave.

 

[CumAlong]

Aww, you beat me to it with an even better post

its ok, the more its said, maybe someone will eventually get the hint...

 

[Fucker29]

You shouldn't ever feel the need to lie about your sexual orientation.

This is true.

 

[Mr-Pickles]

What are your goals in life?
-Firstly I aim to remain a good person and keep the morals I've been brought up with. Career wise, I hope to work in the marketing area of TimesWarner. I want children at one point too.

With whom do you intend to settle down with?
-Honestly? I dont know. I see myself being a single father to be honest. I've always been good at socialising and making friends, I also enjoy my own company, so I dont see myself falling into an issue of being lonely.


Do you see yourself marrying?
-No


Do you see yourself marrying a man, or a woman?
-I wouldn't marry a man, though if i genuinely fell in love with a woman I would consider marrying her.


In this relationship, do you see yourself as "faithful", or do you see a downlow situation?
-I've always been faithful in every relationship I've had.














PS. This thread is ridiculous. Being a gay male, I'd assume you would understand the negative views and stereotypes that are linked with your sexuality, so judging so harshly on someone elses sexuality is really bad of you.

 

[Blk_Thickness]

Sounds like a porn DVD.

Lol... it does!

 

[boxerdudeuk]

I don't think I've ever met a true bi guy

 

[Mr-Pickles]

I don't think I've ever met a true bi guy

how do you mean?

 

[boxerdudeuk]

You don't think they come up with being gay, too? My God, some people think because I'm gay and like unisex clothing that I want to be a woman. I've had people question my homosexuality because I've never been with the opposite sex. It happens but I wouldn't ever lie and say that I'm something I'm not.



X, Y and Zee...good Elizabeth Taylor film.

What exactly is unisex clothing?

 

[altlover85]

I think unisex clothing is stuff that you can buy from American Eagle and places like that. It's generally more shirts. I may be wrong.

I'm thinking maybe Ram was kidding.

As far as bisexuality, the man I'm with and another man I used to have sex with both had kids when they were younger and both identify as gay. However, my current boyfriend said there times he used to enjoy having sex with women. He eventually came out as gay and that was that.

However, I think you could still consider him bisexual because I doubt I could ever have sex with a woman. I don't know this for sure, but I really don't have a major desire to find out. Have I thought about it before? Yes. But, it's just not something I would jump to do. I don't generally put myself in situations were that would happen anyway and I am confident in saying that if I ever had sex with a woman, I'd probably also want to have sex with men still.

Does that make me bi? I don't know. I think most of us are bi to some degree. I've always identified as gay, but as time has gone on, I've at least entertained the idea of having sex with a woman in my head and I'm more open to it than I was when I was 18.

 

[Fucker29]

What exactly is unisex clothing?

It's clothes that both men and women can wear. Hence the term "unisex".

 

[Mr-Pickles]

I mean have you ever heard of a gay man leaving a relationship in order to marry a women and have a normal life?

Ummm... Thats because gay men dont find women sexually attractive. I'm sure there are multiple gay men out there who have left their male partner for another male because the other guys lifestlye would be easier (be it for money, lack of baggage etc etc).

We don't play games, we don't do one night fucks

Pleaaaaase. The gay community has a reputation for being promiscuous. Many of my gay friends enjoy one night stands and whatnot. You can hardly use promisuity as an argument against bisexual males; when many gay men do the same.
Just because you dont opt to that lifestlye doesnt mean other men of your sexuality dont.

It's something in their bisexual blood that makes them behave like normal men.

So does that mean promiscuity, the love for Cher and living a shallow lifestyle is due to gay blood?






Unless i missed the sarcasm, or that your post in its entirety was a joke, you portrayed yourself as very narrow-minded.

 

[altlover85]

As I said before, I think Ram was joking. I could be wrong. It just seemed OTT and contradictory, which tends to make something funny.

 

[Fucker29]

Ummm... Thats because gay men dont find women sexually attractive. I'm sure there are multiple gay men out there who have left their male partner for another male because the other guys lifestlye would be easier (be it for money, lack of baggage etc etc).





Pleaaaaase. The gay community has a reputation for being promiscuous. Many of my gay friends enjoy one night stands and whatnot. You can hardly use promisuity as an argument against bisexual males; when many gay men do the same.
Just because you dont opt to that lifestlye doesnt mean other men of your sexuality dont.






So does that mean promiscuity, the love for Cher and living a shallow lifestyle is due to gay blood?






Unless i missed the sarcasm, or that your post in its entirety was a joke, you portrayed yourself as very narrow-minded.

*sigh*


As someone told me recently, sarcasm is your friend.

 

[Mr-Pickles]

Oh haha sorry, my bad.

I'm having a lazy day and its turned my mind to mush.


oops... haha


Apologies Ram.

 

[jasoncrew03]

I don't think I've ever met a true bi guy

If by true bi you mean likes girls and guys the same then you've met at least one now.

And Ram was kidding, i got a PM from him saying so.

 

[Ram]

Apologies Ram.

NOT ACCEPTED.

POST NAKED PICTURE NOW.

Then I will think about it.