If you're gay and don't already know, beware of bisexual men...

[altlover85]

Thanks for sharing Johann.

I think it may indeed be a generational thing. I think younger people are more accepting of GLBTQ sexualities and don't see things as black and white as some older people. I wasn't really thinking about the fact that your experiences growing up would shade how you see things even though it's an obvious fact.

I also think that while it may not be new for a gay man to ask these questions, it doesn't happen all that often either. Johann was responding to this thread and we all now how fast threads disappear here so it's likely he wouldn't have seen or thought to have searched for the other thread. He made a misstatement is all.

 

[Mr-Pickles]

NOT ACCEPTED.

POST NAKED PICTURE NOW.

Then I will think about it.

haha

but seriously, im sorry

 

[altlover85]

Yeah, that's what I meant Travisevian. Thanks!

 

[boxerdudeuk]

It's clothes that both men and women can wear. Hence the term "unisex".

I know what unisex means. I just haven't seen any clothes that I'd think would appeal to both sexes.

 

[alli-berri]

Plus, sexual orientation and sexual identification are not necessarily the same thing I can choose to identify however I like.. for now, it's easier to say I'm gay and am attracted to women. Gays seem to deal better with that than saying i'm bi and being treated like a Nazi lol

I hear that. Was beginning to think I was the only one who thought about it this way.

I know what unisex means. I just haven't seen any clothes that I'd think would appeal to both sexes.

The American Apparel suggestion is a good one. Loves me some AA.


In other news, I can't believe this thread's already 3 pages.

 

[LESAINT]

I didn't even notice the poll - which sadly is the story of my life -

.............. good one

 

[DigitalFudge]

I think that every gay person in this thread should send every bisexual person a private message stating their apology for not being appealing enough to make up for both genders and for the jealousy that bisexuals get more action


Do this or we will find you, make you fall in love with us, and leave you for a woman.

You don't think ill do it? I'd love to do it. -Sam Trammell True Blood.

 

[Royal Heart]

Vous devez vous souvenir de, quelques gens ont oublié comment s'amuser. Certaines de mes meilleures relations étaient avec les bisexuels.

Oui, bonjours, je m'appelle Francaise parce que je ne parle pas le pamplemousse. Merci.

PS I don't speak French, just got bored and wandered over to freetranslation.com.

We love you, Karen.

 

[alli-berri]

One thing I've noticed is that the percentage of self-identified bisexuals at JUB seems to be increasing dramatically.

If anything, I think we gay men are beginning to become outnumbered.

Just wait until the extermination.

 

[barnbuddy]

If someone is openly bi to the world, not just online or in a pick up situation, than it's cool. But if you are talking commitment/relationship, you have to be careful. There will be pressure from his family, friends, church, etc, to settle down with a woman and start a family. That's the real world.

And. I'll be up front: I fell for a "bi" guy back in school, and when he got married it sucked. But then, he wasn't out as bi. And that is the key, 'cause for straight people, I don't think there is much difference; either they are cool or really not cool.

 

[Jayden]

Oh gee another Bi bashing thread on jub. Whats it been, 3 weeks since the last one?
These threads hurt my head!!!!!!

 

[ruivinho]

Fuck those bisexual assholes.

Fuck indeed. Cause they're HOTTER

 

[ruivinho]

I think you're a really great guy.

Please pm your bank account number, routing number and balance of your account.

EXACTLY
giving away your laptop was pretty dumb

 

[AngelFromAbove]

Oh gee another Bi bashing thread on jub. Whats it been, 3 weeks since the last one?
These threads hurt my head!!!!!!

I, I just can't stop looking at this...

 

[innocentbychoice]

Because they may seem like really nice guy who seem to care and you may be very interested in them because you think they are great and blah blah blah all that heart elevating shit, but when it comes for them to get close to you... WATCH OUT!

They don't want you for anything more than a potential sex partner or less and thats it. They don't want to share their hearts with US!

Don't let your heart fall for them. Its NOT worth the pain and suffering!

Some of you will disagree with me, but I have not seen different, EVER!

Sorry. I'm ranting and REALLY PISSED OFF!

Psst, gay men can do that to you as well.

 

[Sausy]

One thing I've noticed is that the percentage of self-identified bisexuals at JUB seems to be increasing dramatically.

If anything, I think we gay men are beginning to become outnumbered.

OMG!!!Help!!!Circle the wagons!!!Ready the ammunition...NO,not those!!!Those bisexual boys are cummin' after us!!!

 

[Willie Boy]

I've been (secretly) corresponding with a JUBber who agrees with me to some extent.

I'd like to copy and paste a letter I sent to him. Please read, absorb, and comment:

[Mr. X (name changed to protect identity)], I am 100% gay; in fact, I've never slept with a woman.

But I can tell you that when I was 20 or so, I despised children, so I was sure I would never want the brats.

So it came to me as a surprise when I turned about 36 that I began to want children. This feeling intensified until I turned 40, when, overnight, I realized I was too old to be a father.

The thing is, if I'd been bisexual, I think I'd almost certainly have left my own companion for a woman.

If someone as unlikely as ME wanted a "normal" life, with two children, a ranch house, and a picket fence, it's easy to believe that most bisexuals would not be able to resist the same temptation.

Gentlemen, I think it's a mistake to underestimate different biological needs we may feel at some future date.

Ah, but just because we feel biological "needs" (normally considered as desires or lusts by regular people) does not mean we will act on them. It is just the abnormal people who have little or no impulse control (statistically made up mostly of gays and marijuana users) that would act on such.

 

[erobert]

Oh dear, another bi bashing thread. It's usually not a good idea to go on a forum when you're in a highly emotional state.

These threads are disservice to young bi guys trying to figure out where they fit in the GLBT community. I really hope they don't take discriminatory rants seriously because bi guys make same sex attraction the majority instead of a minority. If we want America to change we're going to have to learn how to support each other and act as one. Strength in numbers and visibility.

Some of the generalizations stated in this thread don't sit well with me as I have some textbook bisexual friends. Can't we all just get along here? It's all about the individual, not a general population anyway.

What next? A thread declaring all men are evil?

 

[blackbeltninja]

I've been (secretly) corresponding with a JUBber who agrees with me to some extent.

I'd like to copy and paste a letter I sent to him. Please read, absorb, and comment:

[Mr. X (name changed to protect identity)], I am 100% gay; in fact, I've never slept with a woman.

But I can tell you that when I was 20 or so, I despised children, so I was sure I would never want the brats.

So it came to me as a surprise when I turned about 36 that I began to want children. This feeling intensified until I turned 40, when, overnight, I realized I was too old to be a father.

The thing is, if I'd been bisexual, I think I'd almost certainly have left my own companion for a woman.

If someone as unlikely as ME wanted a "normal" life, with two children, a ranch house, and a picket fence, it's easy to believe that most bisexuals would not be able to resist the same temptation.

Gentlemen, I think it's a mistake to underestimate different biological needs we may feel at some future date.

Right

So, in summary, you're now basing what we would do on what you, as an unlikely candidate for this sort of thing, would do. Which basically means that you're not even tarring us with the same what-all-bi-guys-will-definitely-do-I-just-know-it brush anymore, you're tarring us with your what-you-personally-speaking-for-yourself-only-as-a-gay-guy brush.

I do hope you can see the ricockulousness of your line of thinking in this regard, but I suspect your blinkers are a little cumbersome.

-d-

 

[clicker]

I think it can be extended to cover men in general. The big mistake women and gay men make is developing feelings for a man. That's where you always get hurt. It is much safer, though less rewarding, but much less risky, to not allow yourself to fall in love with or develop feelings for any man.

Oh, gee,thanks for the dismal advice: now we all know we'll never find love with another man. Great!