If you're gay and don't already know, beware of bisexual men...

[altlover85]

So do members of the KKK and people think we should shoot Mexicans trying to cross the border.

KKK? Really? I think he's just expressing his own thoughts which are colored by his upbringing and experiences (much as yours are). No where is he calling for killing.

 

[Nomenclature]

That's pretty insulting to the women on here. We never hear them talking about how cocks and balls are disgusting...

That's because, redundant foreskins and other diseases aside, cocks and balls aren't disgusting; they're manly, and big and envious and throbbing and dominant and sexy as hell. Straight men aren't grossed out by them, either; they all compare their cocks to see who has the biggest and nicest one.



To put it simply: Penises are full of win, and are over 9000.





It's funny you mention this, though; Every once in awhile, i'll watch the occasional straight video. . .and honestly, it can arouse me sometimes, but as soon as I see an upclose of a pussy, and it's all like. . .inside-out looking and the clit's all. . .all. . . .








I mean, I can definitely see why a guy would fuck a girl for the pleasure and the whole "taking her" experience and whatever, but. . .holy shit are vaginas nasty.

 

[ruivinho]

I don't hate gays. But I can't stand bad spellers! So learn how to spell homosexuals and bisexuals or you will be banished to the shit pile where your kind belongs.

Well i have an excuse for my bad spelling, in my country we use two 's' in that word, so i guess i'm used to it. What's yours for bad comprehension? I never said bisexuals hated homo, i said that there are SOME homo who claim being shocked/upset for being discriminating, and then themselves discriminate bisexuals!

So you don't hate gays but you can't stand bad spellers. you're not homophobic, you're a badspellingphobic, good for you! i like to be corrected, but not in that way.

I really hope you're joking when you say "shit pile where your kind belongs". In fact, i really hope you are joking when you say "I can't stand bad spellers"

 

[ruivinho]

One thing I've noticed is that the percentage of self-identified bisexuals at JUB seems to be increasing dramatically.
If anything, I think we gay men are beginning to become outnumbered.

I've notice that too, in fact, i think many 'ex-homo' are coming out of the 'bi-closet', if there are such things.

 

[asu1117]

KKK? Really? I think he's just expressing his own thoughts which are colored by his upbringing and experiences (much as yours are). No where is he calling for killing.

I was referring to the mentality of it, not saying he was he was condoning that type of action.

And yes, my thoughts are colored by my upbringing. Which was to be acceptant of everyone regardless of race, gender, sexuality, or religious affiliation. Apparently being respectful to all people equally is too much to ask for.

 

[Willie Boy]

"omg i don't know why some people hate homossexuals, it doesn't make sense, we gay people are so discriminated. oh by the way bissexuals should be eliminated from earth"

Well i have an excuse for my bad spelling, in my country we use two 's' in that word, so i guess i'm used to it. What's yours for bad comprehension? I never said bisexuals hated homo, i said that there are SOME homo who claim being shocked/upset for being discriminating, and then themselves discriminate bisexuals!

You did claim some people hated homos. And the actual premise of this thread can be extrapolated that the OP believes bisexuals hate homos and therefor make them fall for us so we can leave them for a woman, thereby hurting them and humiliating them. That caused a natural implication that the "some people" actually referred to bisexuals.

So you don't hate gays but you can't stand bad spellers. you're not homophobic, you're a badspellingphobic, good for you! i like to be corrected, but not in that way.

I really hope you're joking when you say "shit pile where your kind belongs". In fact, i really hope you are joking when you say "I can't stand bad spellers"

Yes, the shit pile part was a joke. It was a play on your "bisexuals should be eliminated from the Earth". Yes and no about the bad spellers part. I understand and accept that people make mistakes. And I realize it is that much harder for those to whom English is a second (or third or whatever) language. And I don't judge that. But when a person misspells one out of every three words due to sheer laziness or attempts to communicate through text abbreviations completely I lose patience very quickly.

I hope that clears things up.

 

[ruivinho]

Ruinvinho, that's such an asinine thing to say. We of course don't choose to fall in love, but we most certainly do choose whom to date.

You can't fall in love with someone without dating them first.

oh can't you?
me and my girlfriend used to be "only best friends" and she fell in love with me before we were dating. i understand that she didn't know if she would like to be my long term partner because imagination is different from reality, but she already felt like she wanted too so what choice did she had if not dating me and consequently falling in love with me?

 

[ruivinho]

You did claim some people hated homos. And the actual premise of this thread can be extrapolated that the OP believes bisexuals hate homos and therefor make them fall for us so we can leave them for a woman, thereby hurting them and humiliating them. That caused a natural implication that the "some people" actually referred to bisexuals.




Yes, the shit pile part was a joke. It was a play on your "bisexuals should be eliminated from the Earth". Yes and no about the bad spellers part. I understand and accept that people make mistakes. And I realize it is that much harder for those to whom English is a second (or third or whatever) language. And I don't judge that. But when a person misspells one out of every three words due to sheer laziness or attempts to communicate through text abbreviations completely I lose patience very quickly.

I hope that clears things up.

It does.................

 

[ruivinho]

Atl, my comments were taken out of context.

I'd noticed that the percentage of bisexuals on this board seems to have increased, and IllGetBi asked me,"Is that a good thing or a bad thing?"

I told him, "Well, I'm not sure, and it's all right as long as I don't have to read posts about pussy."

Now atlboy, any other time that might seem to be an odd thing to say, but please remember this is a man-to-man porn site, a place where you don't expect to read about pussy, and certainly a place none of us come to SEE pussy.

And then the conversation went from there....

About this bisexual stuff? I still have to sort it all out. Someone mentioned that maybe guys who used to identify as "gay" are now calling themselves "bi", and we all know that the definition of "bisexual" is different in Eastern cultures.

I don't know.

I"ll probably never really understand bisexuality. I'm not bi, and never will be, and guys, if you want to be bi, that's all right with me, but god bless, watch who you hurt, please. There's enough cruelty in the world already.

I guess I'm done with it all. I wish you all peace.

do you want to be gay, or are you gay?
i didn't choose to be bi, i am bi

 

[Titanic]

Well it seems like this has got a bit out of hand, and I'm probably flogging a horse that died so long ago it's already been long forgotten and replaced with a new, better horse, but I thought I'd throw in my hand.

Actually, from the little I saw, I agree with Johann - from the little I saw of Willie's situation I did feel a little sorry for the boyfriend. I know nothing of Willie, and have no reason to believe that he won't be 100% faithful, but I do find it sad that he'll always be wistful for female contact - whether sexual or long-term.

Now I've always had a bit of a problem with jealousy, it's something I'm dealing with. I hate the idea of my partner eyeing up anyone else, and have been really upset in the past when exes have pointed out other men as attractive. Personally, I know that if I were to date a bisexual I'd always be wondering whether they're looking at or thinking about women, and my paranoia would really get to me.

Of course, there's always the massive point that a gay relationship will (at the moment) be viewed by society as inferior to a straight relationship, so I'm sure that if I were attracted to both men and women I'd probably favour a relationship with a woman. Of course, that's just me, but I would stake money that other people think the same.

I guess my point is that I feel kind of bad for everyone in a long-term gay-bi relationship. I'm sure that the bi guy would struggle to curb his curiosity for women, and it would put a lot of pressure on the relationship. I also think the gay guy would have to be extremely secure and confident not to worry about his partner, and the knowledge that straight relationships are more socially acceptable.


(Again, this is by no means a slur at bisexual men to say that they are unfaithful, cheaters or bad people, nor is it a gay vs bi argument.)

 

[blackbeltninja]

Blackbelt, you missed the point. I used my own experience as just an example, but really, the concept is universal.

Au contraire.

You did a Dr Spock - assumed EVERYONE's experience would mirror yours and based your assumptions on that. Statistically, your experience might be that of a stray, or an outlier, and therefore well off the normal curve. Instead, you've made a sweeping generalisation and hammered everyone into your extremely theoretical and untested model. From the science perspective, which I assume is not your area of expertise, that is all a very, very wrong way of conducting your research.

I'm asking 20somethings what they will want (or need) at the age of 35 or 40.

That might be an impossible endeavor; I'll use you as an example:

I'm asking blackbeltninja a question he sees as a 20something. That same blackbeltninja at 35 or 40 may have different aims, different goals in life, and will answer the same question a different way than he would have at the age of 20.

So it's probably an exercise in futility to ask it at all.

If there were an older bisexual man in here, I might get a more accurate answer, but each and every one of you seems to be in your 20s.

Lemme help you out.

I'm 34 in 34 days' time. So there's that little assumption falling earthwards with flames shooting out of the smoking pieces of its wreckage.

I didn't know who I'd end up with when I was 20; I still don't know at 33. I have more gray hair now than I did back then, and it is much shorter than it was throughout my 20s, andI have become a little more jaded and probably more cranky. My goals have remained unchanged thus far, just like your opinion of us.

At your age, I'd have thought you'd know better. I certainly hope I do when I get there.

-d-

 

[blackbeltninja]

I'm sure that the bi guy would struggle to curb his curiosity for women

I disagree with this.

Unless I am the only bi guy in the world who does NOT need to tick the boxes and make sure I get an acceptable amount of sexual activity from both guys and girls. For me a partner is a partner; I give my partner (when I have one) my full attention.

-d-

 

[asu1117]

The fact that we are being discriminated against by others in the LBGT community is really sad...

 

[Nomenclature]

I think it's all about maintenance and cleanliness, Nomenclature. For both sexes.

Hygiene is sexy.

A well-maintained, clean pussy looks stunning and delicious (IF that's your sort of thing, of course).

I'm very, very, very, very, very, very picky about vaginas that I think look nice. If she has outer labia and very little or no visible inner labia, that's OKAY. And it has to be artificially pink. puffy and hairless. I can at least see how that's feminine and cute. Basically, it has to not look like 99% of girls.


But my god, look on xTube and more than half of the women have fucking ground hamburger, meat curtain-looking pussies. How can anyone put their mouth on that kind of shit? No amount of soap and water is going to fix that.

 

[KStarOne]

They can be a handful at times, but the make the best lovers because they know how to really please a man. I've been dealing with one now for over 15 years and to tell you the honest truth, I would do it all over again. I'm 100% gay and yes it would be nice to have someone that was open with emotions; but he does what he can when he can. BTW, My father was bi, which I learned later in life and that made the "outing" process easier.

 

[Willie Boy]

Actually, from the little I saw, I agree with Johann - from the little I saw of Willie's situation I did feel a little sorry for the boyfriend. I know nothing of Willie, and have no reason to believe that he won't be 100% faithful, but I do find it sad that he'll always be wistful for female contact - whether sexual or long-term.

I agree you do not know me. But as I believe your post was not meant in a negative way, I will endeavor to explain the flaws in your perception as politely as possible.

Let me start by asking all gays one simple question: You are walking down a street, along the beach, whatever... with your boyfriend/partner just having a moment of affection when you see an extremely hot, sexy, to manly to resist following with your eyes guy. Do you stop to think about what a threesome would be like with him and your partner, do you go farther and consider what it would be like to have him as your partner, or do you go all out and think - even for one second - about dropping your partner immediately and running to catch the sex god before someone else snags him? Notice I didn't ask anything about actually doing anything, but just different levels of imagining.

I ask that question to get you all in a mindset to understand a simple fact about me and probably many others who are bi/straight/gay or whatever. For me, I would answer affirmative to the first response in most situations whether it be a male or female, in others it would be not at all, but never past the first. I love my partner and the thought of sex with anyone else is always in the context of being shared with him. Period. Yes, there are wistful moments of women, as I know for sure it will never happen. You know what, those moments pass quickly with no looking back. Granted, there are many bisexuals out there who do not hold their male partners with as much love, but there are also far more gay men who do not even consider such a level of love. Why do you think there are so many "hook-ups" in the gay community.

So yes, feel sorry for my 100% gay partner because he is partnered to a bisexual guy. He's laughing his brains (and stomach bubbles) out at your misconceptions. There are only three ways that our relationship will end:
1) He wants to leave me (thereby breaking my heart)
2) I die completely
3) He dies completely

In option 1 he walks out with more money than he could spend in his life, a home and at least 2 vacation homes and at least two vehicles (not to mention all the household items and furniture to completely furnish all his homes. Not to mention he will remain sole beneficiary of my whole estate.

In option 2 he gets everything.

In option 3 well, he goes on to a better place, but the world has to face my grieving process.

So, again.... He really needs your sympathy and or pity.

 

[cigarbabe]

Thank you.

I can't wait until we, as a human race, progress pass the point which any of these labels even matter. It's just getting obnoxious.

People's obsession with genitalia is hilarious. If you're blond and you're dating a guy who dated a brunette in the past, you're probably not losing sleep over it, wondering when he's going to ditch you to be with a brunette guy again.

But God forbid he dated someone with different genitalia and all of a sudden, he's "greedy" and bound to leave you forever. LMAO. It couldn't be simply that one relationship worked in the past and the relationship with you works now.

The fact that we are being discriminated against by others in the LBGT community is really sad...

So true,so true.


Ooh thank you NaughtyArousal and Willie Boy!
Excellent posts from both and I feel the same way as Willie Boy does.
Why is it that some people just can't get past these ridiculous assumptions
and generalizations about bisexuals/homosexuals/men/women
and last but certainly not least genitalia!?!
I'm bisexual married to a bisexual.
He was in a long term relationship with a gay man
who ended up breaking it off
with my husband to be with some other guy.
So I guess that kills the
"bisexual men always leave for a woman" theory.
C.B.

 

[XLeatherX]

Because they may seem like really nice guy who seem to care and you may be very interested in them because you think they are great and blah blah blah all that heart elevating shit, but when it comes for them to get close to you... WATCH OUT!

They don't want you for anything more than a potential sex partner or less and thats it. They don't want to share their hearts with US!

Don't let your heart fall for them. Its NOT worth the pain and suffering!

Some of you will disagree with me, but I have not seen different, EVER!

Sorry. I'm ranting and REALLY PISSED OFF!

I've had gay men do this to me more times than I can count.

As soon as it was time to settle down, move in together, or get serious then they broke it off or claimed that we were never in a relationship.

I've had gay male lovers who I did live with and we were in what I thought was a monogamous relationship and I found out they'd been cheating on me. I would not have cared if they'd wanted an open relationship all they would have had to do was ask instead of lying and cheating.

Despite being burnt, lied, and cheated on by gay men I don't hate on gay men. I don't like people who are users and into lying and cheating.

My husband is bisexual and we've been together for 20 years. We're monogamous and that is what works for us. A relationship between a bisexual man and a gay man works.

 

[Willie Boy]

If you're bisexual and don't already know it, don't date a gay. Far too many of them are far too insecure. They will work themselves up over the fear that you might dump them for another woman and will destroy your relationship before it has a chance to grow. It just isn't worth the drama.

 

[Críostóir]

Fuck those bisexual assholes.

I hear and obey. Bend over.