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I'm a cheating bastard...

whatevs, I'm the last one to judge because I have never been in a relationship for the reason that I've never liked someone enough not to cheat on them (not that I've ever even fucked)

Tell your girlfriend, and I say this because you already know she has slept around on you also. Yeah, you probably should feel like shit if you actually love her, but if it's over for both of you after you cheated now too, it's probably a great thing in the long run or you wouldn't have cheated in the first place.

I would stay away from the boy though...either way...he really can't be trusted. I have so many straight friends I would never even think of allowing to fuck me and cheating. I love the friendship and being one of the guys. That would change everything and being friends obs comes first
 
marleyisalegend, I have been reading your posts for months. What is up? Who hurt you? You seem so angry. You lash out at lots of "Gay Like Straight" threads and "sSeeping Guy" stuff. It comes off so angry. I read about your family loss. I am sorry about that. I also see you on another board with similar stuff. Lighten up, please. We all just want to get along.
 
I was going to respond a while ago, but I forgot what I was going to say.

I think I was going to say something along the lines of "what's the big deal?"... but I could be wrong...
 
Assuming this scintillating tale of sexual trysts is true, I would say that you should come clean to her if you care that much about the relationship. She cheated on you and now you've cheated on her. If you both believe that "you're just sexual people," then you may just have to accept that your relationship will be emotionally based around the two of you, but physically open.

However, you mentioned that you were trying to stick to being monogamous because of how you feel about her, so perhaps you want monogamy. If that's the case, then it's not going to work if she's cheating on you, and you won't live up to your own expectations by fucking this guy.

He seems over-involved and obsessed, too. Probably not a good thing nor an easy transition.

I'd put him on hold and ask him to respect that you're in a relationship and then talk to her and see if monogamy or if even being in a relationship is what you two want.
 
Love would be sitting down and acknowledging that while you really care about each other, you want to have an open relationship. Fucking around behind each others' backs would suggest not love, but an addiction to chaos. You both lack self-control and respect for one another, and you're going to continue one-upping each other to keep the chaos going. The fact that you fucked a guy who is now already saying he loves you just proves that not only do you generate chaos, but you also draw it in. He too is chaos, and it just adds to your need to be in the midst of it.

At least, that would be my take on it.
 
Marley doesn't seem angry to me. He is just very upfront and straight forward.

As for the relationship, sounds tough. The part that makes me skeptical is the kiss on the cheek leading to fucking for an hour. Really??

Anyway, I would either come clean to your girlfriend or tell the guy that it can't happen again, ever.
 
I would say that you should come clean
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I would agree, because until you tell her, your just gonna be coming dirty.
 
Oh yeah, and you'd be a cheating bastard.
 
I guess I'm going to be the lone voice saying not to tell your girlfriend that you cheated.

Just keep fresh in your mind what it feels like to be a cheating bastard and don't do it again.

And don't have sex on your desk again. Eeeeeewwwww.
 
KaraBulut said:
I guess I'm going to be the lone voice saying not to tell your girlfriend that you cheated.

Just keep fresh in your mind what it feels like to be a cheating bastard and don't do it again.

And don't have sex on your desk again. Eeeeeewwwww.
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I agree with you. Of course assuming the boy used a condom, and didn't decide to have a raw wiener party followed by a trip to his girlfriend's oyster bar. If he did batter her clam without prior protection she has a right to know.

All this talk about raw seafood is making me ill. Gotta go.
 
Hmmm.....

Well your girlfriend cheated on you twice and you've just cheated on her. I think you guys make a good couple. She came clean to you, so you should come clean to her.

Oh yeah....you both need to buy two white T-shirts with this letter on the front so that you both know where you stand. It will help with future temptations! ;) (it's not a bad book either....don't look at me like that! I had to read it for high school english! :) )


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screwnutty said:
Hmmm.....

Well your girlfriend cheated on you twice and you've just cheated on her. I think you guys make a good couple. She came clean to you, so you should come clean to her.
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But he didn't say how she came clean. Perhaps it was in the middle of a Springer'esque fight between the two of them. That seems par for the course, no? LOL

In any event, I always figure when you have two screw ups like this I encourage them to stay together, because after all, why ruin two couples? One couple is enough.
 
EvilForce said:
But he didn't say how she came clean. Perhaps it was in the middle of a Springer'esque fight between the two of them. That seems par for the course, no? LOL

In any event, I always figure when you have two screw ups like this I encourage them to stay together, because after all, why ruin two couples? One couple is enough.
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Yeah maybe. Anyways the point is that they've both broken each other's trust. So they have common ground and with alittle work, I'm sure they can work this out.
 
In any event, I always figure when you have two screw ups like this I encourage them to stay together, because after all, why ruin two couples? One couple is enough.
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:rotflmao:

Thanks, I needed that.
 
EvilForce said:
In any event, I always figure when you have two screw ups like this I encourage them to stay together, because after all, why ruin two couples? One couple is enough.
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rareboy said:
:rotflmao:

Thanks, I needed that.
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Holy shit, that is profound.
 
I know I'm just repeating what everyone said, but give it some thought as to where things lie with your girlfriend. I mean, she cheated on you twice already, and you did the nasty in your office with a neighbor's brother...

Trust is broken, so come clean if the relationship with your girlfriend is something you want to continue. Otherwise, break it off with her and have some fun - and if you do anything else with the neighbor's brother, you should prob set your expectations low. Don't come out of a relationship into another. You're better off being really good friends right now.
 
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