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im bi and my 18 yo nephew wants to jerk off

I still say go for it! Both of you are of legal age. I dont think your nephew is going to go up to his mom or dad and say oh guess what I jacked off with my uncle! So creighton go for it!
 
alli-berri said:
Yeah but you're thirty-fuckin'-two! He's EIGHTEEN


EIGHT

TEEN.


dude,

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So what? I'm nineteen and I'm fucking a thirty three year old!:p
 
... at this point, I would to conclude you are a troll or you have some screwed up dynamics.
 
I've jacked with my brother(year older) and cousins (diff ages) all through my teens and even occasionally now with some. Great fun. Learned a lot from all and taught some to a few. Stories in other threads. Even been caught by some Uncles. Never a big thing. I would say go for it if y'all are close in age and have grown up together. If there is a big age difference that can be difficult to justify because you have watched him grow up.
 
how old are you? who cares? you are both adults! so whatever, i think you guys should stop jumping to dramatic conclusion, two guys(relatives) wanna jack together! if more happens, none of you guys are going lose money or sleep! if it is not illegal, then no harm done!
 
alli-berri said:
OK - talk to him about sexual stuff, sure. But be a secure model in his life by not taking advantage of him. So many other people will take advantage of him in his life, probably. Why be amongst them? Why not stand out as someone to have a sexual conversation with, without having "sex", or fooling around?

Just two guys talkin'.

Rejecting him now will teach your nephew that it's wrong to fool around with family. Incest is not a psychologically healthy practice, IMHO - an opinion I think most of us share, or learn.

This is his time to learn -- be the teacher, not a confusing exception. Maybe say, "Well hey, why do you like jacking it with men? Are you bi? Don't be ashamed to fool around with friends--" etc etc....

^^^
There, now you have an interesting, family-bonding discussion to get into, and it isn't incestuous (or in my opinion, wrong).

So, I don't think you have to ignore what he's said to you (which I assume is what you're really asking about), but you should act responsibly, and be the wise uncle instead of a horny paradox.

But maybe you already know that :)
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this right here
 
So,you wanna jerk off with your teenaged cousin..What can go wrong there?

Wanna find out?

Just tell your brother or sister ''Hey bro/sis-I'm thinking about jerking off with your son Timmy.''

How do you think that would fly?

Let us know when you get out of intensive care..
 
alli-berri said:
OK - talk to him about sexual stuff, sure. But be a secure model in his life by not taking advantage of him. So many other people will take advantage of him in his life, probably. Why be amongst them? Why not stand out as someone to have a sexual conversation with, without having "sex", or fooling around?

Just two guys talkin'.

Rejecting him now will teach your nephew that it's wrong to fool around with family. Incest is not a psychologically healthy practice, IMHO - an opinion I think most of us share, or learn.

This is his time to learn -- be the teacher, not a confusing exception. Maybe say, "Well hey, why do you like jacking it with men? Are you bi? Don't be ashamed to fool around with friends--" etc etc....

^^^
There, now you have an interesting, family-bonding discussion to get into, and it isn't incestuous (or in my opinion, wrong).

So, I don't think you have to ignore what he's said to you (which I assume is what you're really asking about), but you should act responsibly, and be the wise uncle instead of a horny paradox.

But maybe you already know that :)
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I think alli-berri had a very good point here. I mean sometimes going on these types of forums, I really think people sometimes are looking for a "Yeah! Hot! Go do it!" to justify what they're thinking about. But really, I think you can be supportive and honest with your nephew, without actually engaging in any sexual activity or even masturbating together. As several have said, just jerking it together could be fun, but that type of fun often leads to other activities. Sometimes it's best to think about what a young adult might need most and that sometimes is more of a friend and mentor rather than someone to actively engage in sexually. I'd suggest being there for him, supporting him with advice, and even having certain in-depth discussions about a variety of issues... but I'd be very leery of actually engaging in sexual activity, even if it's just jerking off together.
 
oakpope said:
I always tend to think than oneself should be free to do what oneself want, but with 2 limitations :

1 : that it is legal
2 : that it hurts no one, oneself included

Can you, in conscience, see not a single thing that could hurt him or you if you proceed to jerk off with your nephew ? And about his parents or a member of your family ? or his girlfriend ?

For outing that you are bisexual, no one should say to you what to do. Is it the time for you, for him to share this very intimate and private thing, only you can tell. Do you think that maybe he is bisexual also and that telling him would make thing easier for him ?

I think you have the answers for the 2 points already in your heart, you have just to look at them :)
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Those two things can only go so far. I'm of the opinion that legality has nothing to do with it, save punishment. Basically, if it's not hurting anyone, I have no problems breaking rules and laws. Many are simply stupid, and some are unnecessarily.

But as for "hurting someone"... that can go a lot of ways. If you tell your mom that you're gay and she has a heart attack out of regret, did you "hurt her?" Of course not! If this guy's family is shocked and appalled at the thought of a cousin and uncle of age jerking off, then that's their problem.
 
As a Mod I'm going to be respectful. Encourage him to explore his sexual identity with non family members before marriage.
 
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Creighton, it's now been 9 days!
Has your randy nephew been pestering you these 9 days waiting for us to come to a decision?
 
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