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I'm gay

Congratz on taking that first step. :D

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Yeah, it's a good start to admit it to yourself! ^.^
 
Corny6 said:
It feels surprisingly fine. It's not exciting nor terrifying (so far at least).

Thank you all so much for the support but also for showing that you've been through the same thing. It's comforting and makes me feel safe and less alien, especially since I've never had any gay friends.

I've read every single response so thank you all for helping me through this. It's possible I might even start doing some "how to come out" questions but I'm not sure if I'm ready yet.

again thanks! ;)
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What exactly did you receive help with?

You posted on an anonymous gay blog that you're gay. What exactly have you achieved?
 
Corny6 said:
It feels surprisingly fine. It's not exciting nor terrifying (so far at least).

Thank you all so much for the support but also for showing that you've been through the same thing. It's comforting and makes me feel safe and less alien, especially since I've never had any gay friends.

I've read every single response so thank you all for helping me through this. It's possible I might even start doing some "how to come out" questions but I'm not sure if I'm ready yet.

again thanks! ;)
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Admitting it to yourself is the first step. Accepting yourself is the second. Don't ever let anyone tell you that you're bad, going to Hell, that you're a pervert, a pedophile. None of that is true.

There's nothing wrong with being gay, no matter what anyone else says. Anyone who can't accept you for who and what you are, that's their problem, not yours. They're the one with the problem.

Remember there are millions of gay men and women that feel just like you do. You'll eventually have real life gay friends. Everyone does. Friends who you can be yourself with, people you don't have to lie to or pretend you're someone you're not.

Here at JUB there are people online 24/7 you can talk to. You're not an alien here.

You've taken the first step.... you have acknowledged yourself. Great news! (*8*)
 
Corny6 said:
I had never actually said that to anyone (I clearly implied it by posting here though). Anyway, I'm gay! Dunno if I'll feel good about posting this later so I'm posting it now before I change my mind
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I said the very same thing in my very first post to Jub about 6 years ago (under my old account). ..|
 
navigaytion said:
And you're saying that that's possible through being anonymous?
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I'm saying that admitting to yourself you are gay, if you think you are, is the single biggest obstacle some men face to happiness. Some guys don't want to be gay. That's a fact. By admitting that you are gay, even anonymously, can be a huge step, for those guys, like me. Perhaps we're all not like some sort of non-emotional Dr Spock off Star Trek, as you may be.
 
justaguy said:
I'm saying that admitting to yourself you are gay, if you think you are, is the single biggest obstacle some men face to happiness. Some guys don't want to be gay. That's a fact. By admitting that you are gay, even anonymously, can be a huge step, for those guys, like me. Perhaps we're all not like some sort of non-emotional Dr Spock off Star Trek, as you may be.
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Whatever.
 
Well, let's just hope Corny6 still feels good about saying what he did in the original post.
 
justaguy said:
Well, let's just hope Corny6 still feels good about saying what he did in the original post.
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This is waking up back in kansas, buddy.

As giddy as we can feel when we come out, we also need to support guys going through the process by letting them know what to expect.

He has just seen what to expect. Nothing that really makes sense... just backround chatter. The truth shows it for its pettiness. When you show courage, bigots become small in your presence.

Corny6, I can tell you that we all here have gone through worse and we are ALL better people for it.

The strength of the gay man isn't in his cock or his wealth, it is in his utter lack of secrets. It brings friends you trust to love you for who you are and shows you who to let go of, before they shatter you with cruelty.

And one thing that is best about being openly gay? No matter what anybody says about you, you will continue to feel less alien and more safe. That would be because you have been honest with the person that matters the most.... yourself.

I say... WELL FUCKING DONE ..|

Corny6, You just became a better man.
 
justaguy said:
Well, let's just hope Corny6 still feels good about saying what he did in the original post.
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Well, it'll be different, one way or the other, in the morning. I'm guessing, looking over some of his other posts and that he's stayed around for a while, that it will be better, easier, for him. ..|
 
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