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I'm into him. I think he's into me? Closet Case, or just friends?

G-Lexington said:
>>>Hopefully it ends like this though

Stop hoping. Start acting. ..|

Lex
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I'll have to wait until Monday :).

Speaking of acting, anyone know of any good gay movies with situations similar to this? I need some inspiration.
 
Absolutely every gay porn film with a plot made in the last twenty years? On a positive note, they all end with the roommates fucking like rabbits. :)

Lex
 
G-Lexington said:
Absolutely every gay porn film with a plot made in the last twenty years? On a positive note, they all end with the roommates fucking like rabbits. :)

Lex
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Haha, not necessarily a porn film, but more of a movie with a story and stuff, but it could have x -rated scenes, similar to a broke back mountain.
 
Whenever someone makes a post about being in one of these situations people always say "go for it and see what happens!" Am I the only one who thinks that maybe that's not a great idea?


I feel for you..but, I kind of feel like this won't turn out the way you hope it might. You say you think you may be in love with him, and then you also say that he's pretty conservative and if he gay/bi, most likely deeply in the closet. What all this means is that he is not even remotely ready to give you what I think you want. I mean, if you were just looking to get off, that would be one thing. But if you have genuine feelings for him I really do urge you to hold off on pursuing this. Come out to him for sure, if you feel close enough to him to do it. However, I feel like it you tried to instigate something physical, you could end up fooling around with him, but he may not be able to emotionally give you what you're after. There's a good chance you'd end up with some on-the-DL sex and while you get more and more emotionally attached to him, he continues to stay in the closet and in denial, at least for a while. If he means that much to you, do you really just want to be the guy he experimented with that made him realize "golly gee, maybe I really do like cock after all"? I don't think so.

I guess what I mean ultimately is just proceed with caution.
 
magicman84 said:
Whenever someone makes a post about being in one of these situations people always say "go for it and see what happens!" Am I the only one who thinks that maybe that's not a great idea?


I feel for you..but, I kind of feel like this won't turn out the way you hope it might. You say you think you may be in love with him, and then you also say that he's pretty conservative and if he gay/bi, most likely deeply in the closet. What all this means is that he is not even remotely ready to give you what I think you want. I mean, if you were just looking to get off, that would be one thing. But if you have genuine feelings for him I really do urge you to hold off on pursuing this. Come out to him for sure, if you feel close enough to him to do it. However, I feel like it you tried to instigate something physical, you could end up fooling around with him, but he may not be able to emotionally give you what you're after. There's a good chance you'd end up with some on-the-DL sex and while you get more and more emotionally attached to him, he continues to stay in the closet and in denial, at least for a while. If he means that much to you, do you really just want to be the guy he experimented with that made him realize "golly gee, maybe I really do like cock after all"? I don't think so.

I guess what I mean ultimately is just proceed with caution.
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I do feel like I need to proceed with caution; but at the same time, I need to move it forward somehow.
 
I don't want to risk anything.

But I wanna know.

And I'll do everything but put myself out there until all the time is gone.

I'd say, just forget him.

Leave him alone and just have the 'what if' fantasy to look back on.

Go out and get a willing guy you know is a homo.

At least you'll get some rest.
 
rareboy said:
I don't want to risk anything.

But I wanna know.

And I'll do everything but put myself out there until all the time is gone.

I'd say, just forget him.

Leave him alone and just have the 'what if' fantasy to look back on.

Go out and get a willing guy you know is a homo.

At least you'll get some rest.
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I can't just forget him; I really have developed a kind of love for him, it's not really just lust. Also, I don't think I would've developed any kind of feelings unless he was showing signs of interest too, and from what I've seen, he is.
 
Go hop in bed with him and "talk" before you go to bed. You can do it after a few drinks or sober. Just lay in bed in your underwear and just lay and talk.

Use it as a way to "bond", but also if you are drunk or something and you get wood, you can go "I am horny" and let him see your wood.

If you "fall asleep", then you can also sort of see how that goes, he may pretend to be asleep and get up next to you.

My thoughts.
 
I can't just forget him; I really have developed a kind of love for him, it's not really just lust. Also, I don't think I would've developed any kind of feelings unless he was showing signs of interest too, and from what I've seen, he is.
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Well then, look in your pants.

Yup.

They're called balls and you should use them instead of moaning and mooning about him. You're wasting time.

There isn't one person responding who has the magic answer to your dilemma. You have it. And you alone.

If as you say, he is interested and you believe you have developed feelings of 'love' for him, you have to risk something to let him know how you feel.

It might work out beautifully. It might not work out well at all. C'est la vie.

So stop being such a puss.
 
You don't have to post details (at least, not for me) - just let us know if you've moved things along. :)

Lex
 
Well, last night was certainly interesting. Nothing groundbreaking, but it was definitely hot. We got back from the bar pretty drunk and we changed into what we sleep in (just boxers.)

As we finished changing and were about to go to sleep he kind of blocked me from my bed and we ended up roughhousing, and it escalated to the point where we we were on top of one another pinning eachother down wrestling, kind of staring at each other awkwardly lol. I should've subtlely moved in for a kiss, but I didn't :(.

I'd say that's the most physical we've gotten so far, and it was awesome. I'm trying to escalate the tension more and more, and it seems to be working.
 
i'm kinda on the side of magicman here. its easy to hook up with a questioning closet case sure, but you say you have deeper feelings. and having sex with him would make him feel happy enough being a closet case, so he has no real need to come out because he's getting some anyway. when this happened to me the guy came out, and then went right back in a week later (somehow) and now he has a girlfriend again.

i'd definitely support the idea of you bringing up a gay issue, if he objects, just lightly argue it enough to make him think but not let him obsess, and get around to telling him you're bi after you've convinced him that its not such a horrible thing..mainly that its not a choice.

if you planned on him being more than a temporary friend, he would eventually have to know you're bi sometime anyway cause none of us can stay closeted forever as much as we want to at first.

Edit: btw being out is way more fun. try gay clubbing sometime.
 
I'm trying to escalate the tension more and more, and it seems to be working.
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Or is your intention to squeeze as much drama as you can out of every encounter?

And is it for his benefit, your benefit or the benefit of an avid readership, some of whom will be waiting breathlessly for every update until the two of you finally consummate your relationship with wild, unbridled hot monkey sex?
 
Well, Monday was the day that you were supposd to tell him that you were bi.

The wrestling was fun but that wasn't on the agenda. :D
 
G-Lexington said:
You don't have to post details (at least, not for me) - just let us know if you've moved things along. :)
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Hush up. We're only on page 1!
 
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