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Adam2299

Adam2299

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I can't give out too much information, but I've been sleeping with someone who is sort of "high status" and has a huge reputation at stake. He's in the closet and no one knows he's gay. He's also married and has kids (I know it's so horrible....). I stopped seeing him a while ago, but I made a huge mistake recently of telling one of my on-and-off boyfriends "B" about my affair with him (while intoxicated... stupid, I know).

Now B is threatening to "out" this poor man and tell everyone about the affair, which would cause him to lose his job, probably his family, everything...... I've been trying to talk him out of it all day and all night last night and he won't back down. He's so adament about it.... I think he's doing it to get revenge on me, which is even more horrible and unfair to the man.

Basically, I need advice fast b/c I'm basically SCREWED. I don't know what the fuck to do besides beg him or bribe him. Ugh.
 
Deny it. If you feel that strongly for the guy - tell him it was a pissed-up fantasy.

Either that or hire me - Bodily disposal at your service.
 
I'm torn. In one breath it is wrong to out anybody but in the same breath... I can't condone cheating in any form. My advice is to deny it and cut off any further contact with your ex.
 
Adam2299 said:
He wouldn't lose it for being gay, he'd lose it for sleeping with me...... trust me.
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Ok, curious: he can shag any bloke he likes - that's not a problem - but shagging you IS a problem - and you is a gay bloke - so.....:confused:
 
windsors said:
If its as bad as you say, and it was me, I would tell hiim that if he said anything about it he would be dead, because I would have to kill him, and I do mean it!!!!
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Psycho! ...................
 
Nonimus said:
Ok, curious: he can shag any bloke he likes - that's not a problem - but shagging you IS a problem - and you is a gay bloke - so.....:confused:
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It's a problem b/c people in his position are not allowed to have sexual relationships with people in my position. It's against the rules. It's frowned upon heavily.

Trust me.
 
Adam2299 said:
It's a problem b/c people in his position are not allowed to have sexual relationships with people in my position. It's against the rules. It's frowned upon heavily.

Trust me.
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So a coach screws an athlete or a teacher a kid. I'd lie like crazy to the person you told. Tell him you were drunk and trying to impress him and that it was just that--a big lie.
 
As disturbing as the idea is, I really don't see how hiring Noni to sleep with the man will help any. I mean, it could be fatal, but most likely just a bit of rough sex.

You are a waiter, is this man your boss? Is he a Professor at your school?

Let's see now, you slept with a married man with children, then you kissed and told a viciously unreliable fuck buddy and now he wants to get vengeance on you for some undisclosed reason. Is that about it?

I vote you find new friends.
 
Adam2299 said:
It's a problem b/c people in his position are not allowed to have sexual relationships with people in my position. It's against the rules. It's frowned upon heavily.

Trust me.
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Ok - i think i know where you're coming from. You had your fun, now it's time to take responsibility for your actions. As much as I despise hypocracy - and if he's cheating on his wife, he deserves what he gets - preventing the obvious outcome due to a malevolent, jealous freind will get nobody nowhere - its gonna have to be denial as i said in the first place.

Deny you slept with the guy - tell your freind that you were making it all up coz you were fantasizing about this guy.

And, might i add - you're the prime example why people shouldn't shag people they shouldn't - you're too young and immature to handle it - Case in point.

You did it - you live with it.

Noni :kiss: (*8*)
 
I think you should tell the adulterer that you were indiscreet and squealed on him to an unsavory individual. At least he has a heads up.
I'm not sure telling more lies is the way to go, however.

I would say I have never seen the title of a thread be more accurate.
 
Pathicus said:
Does your family have, or can you afford a lawyer?

A simple letter of warning, not mentioning any names, outlining the fact that if he spills the beans you will categorically deny everything and sue him in return.

I understand that getting lawyers involved may seem drastic, but it is a powerful gesture that would shut him up.

In any case, good luck!
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Could be an excellent deterrent...seems a bit drastic...depending I guess on the gravity of the situation.

I'd deny the story you told him were true (record if you can) and then let "B" know that he's leaving you no choice but to contact an attorney to get legal advise on suing him if he should persist on spreading these lies about you. If he feels that somehow he may wind up having to fork over cash for an attorney himself...he'll back off.

...or you could just offer him a blow job as a bribe...he'd probably settle for that too. Good luck! Your gonna need it...
 
There is no evidence except word of mouth and you can deny that. You can do far more harm to your blackmailer than he can do to either you or to your indiscretion. Not that I condone any of it but that is life. It is none of his business so turn it around and throw it in his face. Out him as the jealous liar. Get the message?
 
The only ones screwed in this situation...

Is the wife and kids!!!
 
Adam2299 said:
I can't give out too much information, but I've been sleeping with someone who is sort of "high status" and has a huge reputation at stake. He's in the closet and no one knows he's gay. He's also married and has kids (I know it's so horrible....). I stopped seeing him a while ago, but I made a huge mistake recently of telling one of my on-and-off boyfriends "B" about my affair with him (while intoxicated... stupid, I know).

Now B is threatening to "out" this poor man and tell everyone about the affair, which would cause him to lose his job, probably his family, everything...... I've been trying to talk him out of it all day and all night last night and he won't back down. He's so adament about it.... I think he's doing it to get revenge on me, which is even more horrible and unfair to the man.

Basically, I need advice fast b/c I'm basically SCREWED. I don't know what the fuck to do besides beg him or bribe him. Ugh.
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Let's see, you're 21 and you're probably in college...

You fucked your professor didn't you?

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