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I'M So Angry!!!

bollywoodboy14

bollywoodboy14

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i made plans with one of my friends to come pick me up which was three weeks ago an now he called me tells me that he cant that he must attend something downtown.. how messed up is that!! i do things for him all the time asking nothing in return. now when i ask for one little thing he cant do it!!!!! :(
 
but thats not the point what he is doing can wait i told him al least three weeks i help him out all the time no questions asked an i asked him for one favour an he does this
 
Things happen and plans change. If he was sloughing you off, he wouldn't have called you at all. He would have let you sit there and stew.

You sound like Hyacinth Bucket: "How inconsiderate for people to die at the weekend!"
 
What do you plan to do with your anger? It sounds like you were really depending on him. Are you also hurt and sad that he wasn't able to keep his committment? Hopefully, you'll be able to make other plans.
 
gsdx said:
Things happen and plans change. If he was sloughing you off, he wouldn't have called you at all. He would have let you sit there and stew.

You sound like Hyacinth Bucket: "How inconsiderate for people to die at the weekend!"
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LOL... or LADY BRACKNELL: "To lose one parent, Mr. Worthing, may be regarded as a misfortune; to lose both looks like carelessness."
 
soreknees said:
What do you plan to do with your anger? It sounds like you were really depending on him. Are you also hurt and sad that he wasn't able to keep his committment? Hopefully, you'll be able to make other plans.
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thanks for understanding i am angry i planed this out weeks ago i though i could depend on him but i guess not i wont ask him for help anymore because all i would recieve is disapponment!!
 
bollywoodboy14 said:
i made plans with one of my friends to come pick me up which was three weeks ago an now he called me tells me that he cant that he must attend something downtown.. how messed up is that!! i do things for him all the time asking nothing in return. now when i ask for one little thing he cant do it!!!!! :(
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It depends what it is, but for the guy to agree to do something and back out at the last minute makes him a flake.

Where was he going to take you? Was it last minute?
 
newguyj said:
It depends what it is, but for the guy to agree to do something and back out at the last minute makes him a flake.

Where was he going to take you? Was it last minute?
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he was going to pick me up at the airport an take me home an no it was not last minute i planed it with him at least a month ago!!
 
bollywoodboy14 said:
he was going to pick me up at the airport an take me home an no it was not last minute i planed it with him at least a month ago!!
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Okay that makes sense. I meant did he tell you he couldn't make it last minute.

PS unless he had an emergency as to why he couldn't be there, don't ever do him a favor again.
 
newguyj said:
Okay that makes sense. I meant did he tell you he couldn't make it last minute.

PS unless he had an emergency as to why he couldn't be there, don't ever do him a favor again.
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nope two days before he told me. but i always help him with whatever he needed help with even if i did not want to do it. i dont how this will affect our friendship/relationship!
 
The contingencies of air travel confirm your friend is a douche. In this situation, he should have asked if you had any other options for pickup before he abdicated responsibility.
 
zoltanspawn said:
The contingencies of air travel confirm your friend is a douche. In this situation, he should have asked if you had any other options for pickup before he abdicated responsibility.
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Thank you Then he says I'll have to take a taxi!
 
i have not seen him in two weeks thats alot of space! an 600 miles away too
 
Well at least....how was your trip otherwise? ;)
 
It sucks, but now you have to figure out if you want to still be friends with him or not.
 
Of course you have every right to be angry. But if you can, try not to let the anger consume you.
 
Elegant-Perverse said:
It is the point.

The fact is, shit happens. Suck it up and make a plan B.

And i'll take a plate to go Stacy, i did need me a snack - but, where is the wine?
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You don't know what happened exactly, or what the friend was doing. If I made a plan with my friends weeks ahead, I expect them to honor it unless there was an emergency involved. I mean, the fact I was able to make a hole for them means I probably canceled something else, and now I stay at home because they didn't feel like going out.
 
Elegant-Perverse said:
But you, like him, are making it all about you. And you don't know exactly what happened either, so i don't know why you're making that a point to bring up.

Sometimes, things do happen. The friend at least had the respect to tell him and let him know that he couldn't do what he said he was able to weeks ago - some people would just leave him stranded without a chance to make a new plan. Now, am i saying he shouldn't be a little mad? No. But like the person above you posted, he shouldn't let his anger be all consuming - and he sure as hell shouldn't pull the "ALL I DO FOR YOU, AND YOU CAN'T DO THIS ONE THING FOR ME?!?!??!?!" card, because that's the best way to lose a friend.

So i stand by my statement.
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I kinda agree with you, depends on what happened. If he was ditched because the "friend" felt like going out with someone else, then it's still a day wasted for me. If there is a more acceptable reason, then it's fine.
 
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