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in love with 3 guys!what shall i do?

yea ok,but the thing you dont get ,is that i dont do that on purpouse.

i care for all of them.

and right now i think i would choose the cute guy,but im not sure if thats right.i dont even know exactly how i feel!

im confused and we had great times with all of them,i would be happy if they wouldnt bother about that cheating things and we would all be friends!

why is life so difficult?
 
yea,i wish we could stay friends with the 2 guys,so i d be with the cute one.but i dont know if my friend will like that!

and i dont know if i should tell them yet,cos what if im wrong?
i mean,what if i change my minde,shouldnt i wait a bit to understand my feelings better?
 
I apologize, kurtwild. I didn't mean to be so harsh. Its just cheating, in any circumstance, really bothers me.

But maybe you should just take some time away from them and see who you like the most. I mean, there's no problem in being friends with all of them just leading them on that's the problem. I understand you carry feelings for all of them, but its really impractical to date all of them. Just step back a little bit and see who you could really see dating exclusively.
 
thanks for understandin me. i know you didnt mean it bad,its just that im really sad.

i think you are right but the thing is that im scared.you know if i want time to think about things maybe they ll think that im avoiding them and then?
 
You don't have to avoid them completely. Be their friend but also keep it exactly that. Friends. Take your time to decide which of these guys you really want to be with. Remember, its your life and your future. Just take your time in deciding. Don't rush into it.

Pick because you like them for who they are...and not because of what they look like. Personality is much more rewarding then a hot jerk. ;)
 
yea,i know what you mean.

personality is the most important thing in a person.

so i ll hang out with them but not have sex and stuff like that,right?
ok, i think you are right,but what if they want sex ?
 
Just say no. You don't need to risk messing things up by having sex with them, if you really do want an exclusive relationship with one of them. You need to have completely unbiased views. If they care that much about you they'll understand. But if they don't understand, they weren't worth your time to begin with.
 
I don't understand where the need for a (presumably monogomous) relationship comes from. Not to be insulting, but I don't think you're really ready for one and I don't get the impression that you really want one, so why are you trying to force it?

As long as you are able to be open and honest with all of them about the situation, why don't you just keep them all as friends?
 
please_please_me said:
i can only agree with 3nipples. monogamy is not natural. it is pure propaganda!!!! let us know if u work it out! ..|
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i agree! i dont think that monogamy is natural.
i just dont know if they ll agree!

you know i d love to date them all,but i dont want them to leave me.
i mean imagine if all 3 of them leave me!
 
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