Instant turn-off

[Críostóir]

Gee, the Nazism would sure do it for me, and I'm not even a Jew. "Hey, you know that Hitler killed gays too, right? And they were considered the lowest of the low even in the concentration camps. This is the last sentence you'll ever hear me say." *walks off*

I mean, you could list Jews without whom the world would have been a poorer, more ignorant place (Albert Einstein springs to mind), but a) that's not really the point and b) why waste energy on someone that ignorant?

 

[bankside]

I love it that we started out with dumping a nazi and then we put halitosis in the same category of turn-offs.

 

[DigitalFudge]

I've seen more than a few good lookin' men walkin' down the street that tweak my appreciation... then they hork up a loogie onto the street, or just spit for whatever reason.

Ick.

I was about to say im not that shallow and above it all to have such bitchy standards

Then I read that


You are so right....

 

[Nomenclature]

guys who think "kissing" means "attacking your partners mouth with your tongue"

Damn, I fucking HATE that.

Most of the guys i've kissed have just jammed their tongue in my mouth and moved it around mechanically in a circle with absolutely no regard for me whatsoeverl. Ow!!

Good kissing makes me rock hard and leaking precum instantly, but bad kissing makes my penis hide inside of my torso like a scared turtle.

 

[Reality101]

OMG. Yes! Wash those asses motherfuckers!

Oh ok because I was beginning to wonder if everyone was aroused by the smell of ass. I know I'm not. But I thought I was in the minority on here.

 

[giftart]

long fingernails on a guy is gross

I second this... It gets to me alot. Specially long and dirty one.

 

[bankside]

But turn offs nonetheless.

Yep, you're right, but you must admit it is hard to top nazis. I mean the first post wins, doesn't it...

"And then he set fire to the cross" pretty much puts an end to my evening.

 

[andyspete]

It's already been mentioned but the long fingernails and toenails totally gross me out. Keep those nails trimmed fellows. I've seen men with longer fingernails than most girls. Yikes! I'm so anal about trimming nails that I've actually found myself telling guys I know that it's time for them to clip their nails. Try to bite my tongue but it just grosses me to the core.

 

[Pushyourluck]

Smoking too. To me it smells worse than if they had rolled around in a pile of shit all afternoon. The shit I could cope with compared to how bad the smokers stench.

Also guys who are arrogant. The ones who drone on and on about how much they've achieved, how much they earn, who they work with, blah blah blah.

 

[SilverWolf]

Face rapists are the worse. How hard is to kiss properly I mean honestly.

Ohhhh lord. Yes, this.

I'd just finished a spirited romp with a guy I'd enjoyed quite a bit out of bed as well (yes, we fucked on the first date. So sue me). Suddenly he looked at me sheepishly and said, "Oh, I forgot to mention, I'm still getting over a bit of an intestinal parasite, and I'm kind of gassy." It would have been okay had it just been an FYI, but apparently he was only giving me a couple of seconds of lead time before the stink hit. It was the kind where the smell actually seems to have texture, it clung so hard to the air around us. I kept my cool at the time, but needless to say his calls and E-mails enquiring about future dates went unanswered.

Nazism, hate, that'll do it for this jew, too.

• The Smell of Ass!
• The taste of vomit in the other guy's mouth while kissing him.
• Republican/Right Wing talking points.
• Demonstrating an intellect that suggests that they can't find their way out of a paper bag with the benefit of a flashlight, and a map.

These. I must say DarkFlower's story had me

I'd also like to add if the guy constantly talks about how straight guys and how gay men should act like them.

 

[justsimon]

I'd say Nazism is a big one.

 

[LilBit]

Were you on a date with him...or was he just a friend?

I look around a lot when I talk to people...just curious.

It wasn't a date, but I was pretty obviously flirting with him, and he kept pointing out hot chicks that he'd like to bang. (He's bi.)

Granted, he later admitted to me that he was high as a kite at the time, but that's just another turn-off for me. I don't mind occasional drug use, but if you go out in public completely fucked up to the point where you don't remember anything that you did, you kind of have issues.

 

[Reality101]

People who don't tip and or treat servers like crap turn me off big time. The attraction immediately ends when I witness rudeness like that.

 

[Kennylingus]

You should read about my trip to Litialia.

 

[freefall]

People with no shame (when talking about himself/others).

 

[Kennylingus]

People who don't even have the good taste to make their lies believable.
You know my last neighbor wrote all of Bob Dylans songs. He just gave all the money to his ex-wife. That's why his money comes from the goverment.

 

[MrPointy]

So, just got back from a pleasant evening at my local gay/straight/mixed pub ...met a cute Royal Marine called ****** , and engaged in a few hours of mutual flirtation.

Then, suddenly,

Him = 'You see, that's where I think Hitler was right... the Jews, blagh blagh blagh... and the Blacks, blagh blagh'.

Me= 'Oh, is that the time, nearly 3 am ....time I left bye bye'.


What sort of thing is an instant turn-off for you?

That reminds me of something that happened to me. An old boyfriend and I were just talking one time and he told me a joke, he said something like what's worse Stevie Wonder being blind or black? ..Being blind and black. He thought it was hilarious and I was just shocked and apalled cos I didn't know he was like that, I knew right their that it was over!

Anyway biggest turn off; racist dickheads like above and bad hygiene! Another old boyfriend of mine, we were messing around, I had never eaten out a guys ass before but was curious, anyway he was laid on his front and I was on his back and he asked me to stick my tongue in his ass.. so I started kissing his ass, leading up to it, but his ass smelled of.. well, poop. Instant turn off! Needless to say I never ate him out, still haven't done it to any guy either. I just need to know a guy is clean down their before I could try it

Tiny peners are pretty much an instant turn off for me sorry but that is true...

I hear you on that!

 

[Críostóir]

People who don't tip and or treat servers like crap turn me off big time. The attraction immediately ends when I witness rudeness like that.

Bravo! The saying is "The guy who's sweet to you and nasty to the waiter is not a nice person."

People who treat servers as lower beings are not my kind of person.

 

[ozguy]

I can cope with ear and nipple piercings, but if you've got them anywhere else on your body (especially on lips, tongue, dick) .... instant turn-off!!

 

[GM1985]

I agree with most of the above, though another thing I thought I'd add, I hate long nails, but I also despise guys who think their nails are there for eating.

Like they've chewed their nails so much they are just like little stumps!

I also hate guys that are arrogant because they know they are good looking!