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Is This Nice or Creepy?

TickTockMan

TickTockMan

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I went to the bar tonight for the crowning of King and Queen of Mardi Gras. While there a guy slipped me a napkin with “I love you. Do you want to kiss?” He then drew lips.
 
I would have made out.

It is Mardi Gras after all.
 
If he's offering it up on a plate.
 
Was it nice or creepy to you?
 
Sexy and brave of him...i would have at least kissed him...down there
 
That would depend on the context of the situation. At a bar, during Mardi Gras..... creepy. Playfully earnest from your date/bf at a decent restaurant.... sexy AF. those are two extremes with many differing possibilities in between.
 
Did he show you his andouille sausage? :corn:
 
No,
he being brave, and he'll get more success with this kind of stuff.
 
rareboy said:
I would have made out.

It is Mardi Gras after all.
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I am desperate enough I was thinking about it.


LatimerRd said:
Nice. So what happened?
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It stunned me for a minute. Then I thought the "I love you" part was a bit creepy. I then looked around for him to see if he was just drunk or really interested, but I couldn't find him. He may have went to the smoking area, which I don't go to or he may have left. He was there before me. I looked around from time to time for the rest of the night, but never saw him again.

I'm not good looking and don't get hit on so it took me a minute to get my bearings. I am wondering if he was just shitfaced. I guess I'll never know.
 
Thynight said:
I went to the bar tonight for the crowning of King and Queen of Mardi Gras. While there a guy slipped me a napkin with “I love you. Do you want to kiss?” He then drew lips.
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Seriously? We´re gay men. It´s a miracle there was any communication beforehand to begin with.
 
I never liked people who exclaimed I love you as you first meet.
 
Living life with regret is no way to live...

Who cares if someone's "come-on" is awkward or creepy. Find him, engage with him, then you'll know whether or not he is a creep -- and you won't have to post on a forum for other uninvolved opinions.

:):):)
 
swerve said:
Living life with regret is no way to live...

Who cares if someone's "come-on" is awkward or creepy. Find him, engage with him, then you'll know whether or not he is a creep -- and you won't have to post on a forum for other uninvolved opinions.

:):):)
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Pretty much this.

It seems that far too many people miss out on actually living because they are more interested in analyzing it on the web.
 
You should take it in context. Everyone was out celebrating the occasion. He may have had a bit to drink and was being playful. Try not to overthink or analyze it too much.

Take it for what it seems to have been, a guy being flirtatious, the wording may have been better. But i am quite confident he did not mean to come across as creepy or some sort of mad stalker.

I would have taking it in the spirit of the occasion. No harm, no foul.
 
swerve said:
Living life with regret is no way to live...

Who cares if someone's "come-on" is awkward or creepy. Find him, engage with him, then you'll know whether or not he is a creep -- and you won't have to post on a forum for other uninvolved opinions.

:):):)
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And that's the way it is. Virtually everyone who hits on me does it awkward or creepy, yet they can be wonderful.
 
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