True love isn't just difficult to find - it's impossible to find.
True love isn't found - it's
built.
You find someone you're compatible with. Someone who's willing to take a chance and make the attempt. Then you start building, brick by brick, step by step. There'll be missteps, mistakes, and some problems along the way. Slowly, the whole thing comes together. But it's never EVER finished. You have to keep working on it, repairing it, making it work.
Is it difficult? Yes. But it's fucking amazing when it's done. And the reason we're so happy about it and proud of it when we're done is because we've put so much time and effort into it. Yes, we got lucky in finding someone compatible who was willing to take the journey with us. But that just put us in the running - it was the actual creation and maintenance that we're proud of.
You won't "find" true love. You'll find someone who, perhaps, you can build true love with. Just keep looking. They're out there.
Lex